Keep Loving...Dont give up your goodness

A small story...An important message for everyone,for those who hate LOVE too...Click read more...!

There was this Hindu who saw a scorpion floundering around in the water. He decided to save it by stretching out his finger, but the scorpion stung him. The man still tried to get the scorpion out of the water, but the scorpion stung him again.

A man nearby told him to stop saving the scorpion that kept stinging him.

But the Hindu said: “It is the nature of the scorpion to sting. It is my nature to love. Why should I give up my nature to love just because it is the nature of the scorpion to sting?”

Don’t give up loving.
Don’t give up your goodness.
Even if people around you sting....Keep loving,keep rocking..!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Does LOVE really need a reason...?

Does love need a reason...??Its a wonderful doubt that everyone might get at any time of life...Click read more...!

Some people never understand. One a lady when having a conversation with her lover.

Lady: Why do you like me? Why do you love me?
Man: I can’t tell the reason but I really like you.
Lady: You can’t even tell me the reason. How can you say you like me? How can you say you love me?
Man: I really don’t know the reason but I can prove that I love you.
Lady: Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend’s boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!
Man: Okay, Okay! Hmmm, because you are beautiful, because your voice is sweet, because you are caring, because you are loving, because you are thoughtful, because of your smile, because of your every movement.

The lady felt very satisfied with the man’s answer. Unfortunately, A few days later the lady met with an accident and went in coma. The guy then placed a letter by her side. Here is the content of the letter:

Darling, because of your sweet voice I loved you..
Now can you talk?No!
Therefore I cannot love you….

Because of your care and concern I liked you…
Now that you cannot show them,
therefore I cannot love you..

Because of your smile because of your every movement I loved you..
Now can you smile?Now can you move?.. no!
therefore I cannot love you..

If love needs a reason, like now,
there is no reason for me to love you anymore.

Does LOVE need a reason?

NO, Therefore,
I still love you…

True love never dies for it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a lifetime lust just pushes away.

Immature love says: “I love you because I need You.”
Mature love says: “I need you because I love you.”

Thats the difference friends...Hope you agree with this...Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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God's opinion regarding manufacturing a woman's life

The flaw in a woman....Its about God's thoughts regarding a woman...Click read more..!

By the time the Lord made woman. He was into his sixth day of working overtime. An angel appeared and said, ‘Why are you spending so much time on this one?
And the Lord answered, ‘Have you seen my spec sheet on her? She has to be completely washable, but not plastic, have over 200 movable parts, all replaceable and able to run on diet coke and leftovers, have a lap that can hold four children at one time, have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart-and she will do everything with only two hands.’

The angel was astounded at the requirements. ‘Only two hands!? No way! And that’s just on the standard model? That’s too much work for one day. Wait until tomorrow to finish.’

‘But I won’t, ‘ the Lord protested. ‘I am so close to finishing this creation that is so close to my own heart. She already heals herself when she is sick AND can work 18 hour days.’

The angel moved closer and touched the woman. ‘But you have made her so soft, Lord.’

‘She is soft,’ the Lord agreed, ‘but I have also made her tough. You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish.’

‘Will she be able to think? ‘, asked the angel.

The Lord replied, ‘Not only will she be able to think, she will be able to reason and negotiate.’

The angel then noticed something, and reaching out, touched the woman’s cheek. ‘Oops, it looks like you have a leak in this model. I told you that you were trying to put too much into this one.’

‘That’s not a leak,’ the Lord corrected, ‘that’s a tear!’

‘What’s the tear for?’ the angel asked.

The Lord said, ‘The tear is her way of expressing her joy, her sorrow, her pain, her disappointment, her love, her loneliness, her grief and her pride.’

The angel was impressed. ‘You are a genius, Lord. You thought of everything! Woman is truly amazing.’

And she is!

Women have strengths that amaze men.
They bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they hold happiness, love and joy.
They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.
They don’t take ‘no’ for an answer when they believe there is a better solution.
They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear about a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
They’ll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you to show how much they care about you.
The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning.
They bring joy, hope and love.
They have compassion and ideals.
They give moral support to their family and friends.
Women have vital things to say and everything to give
HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE TINY FLAW IN WOMEN,

IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.

Ask your friends and relatives to remind them just how amazing they are.


Keep rocking,Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Hilarious story regarding what happens if a woman gets angry?

Hilarious story regarding a woman's intelligence...Click read more..!

A woman arrived at the Gates of Heaven.. While she was waiting for Saint Peter to greet her, she peeked through the gates. She saw a beautiful banquet table. Sitting all around were her parents and all the other people she had loved and who had died before her. They saw her and began calling greetings to her, "Hello - How are you! We've been waiting for you! Good to see you."

When Saint Peter came by, the woman said to him, "This is such a wonderful place! How do I get in?"


"You have to spell a word," Saint Peter told her.


"Which word?" the woman asked.


"Love."


The woman correctly spelled "Love" and Saint Peter welcomed her into Heaven.


About a year later, Saint Peter came to the woman and asked her to watch the Gates of Heaven for him that day. While the woman was guarding the Gates of Heaven, her husband arrived.


"I'm surprised to see you," the woman said. "How have you been?"


"Oh, I've been doing pretty well since you died," her husband told her. "I married the beautiful young nurse who took care of you while you were ill. And then I won the multi-state lottery. I sold the little house you and I lived in and bought a huge mansion. And my wife and I traveled all around the world. We were on vacation in Cancun and I went water skiing today. I fell and hit my head, and here I am. What a bummer! How do I get in?"


"You have to spell a word," the woman told him.


"Which word?" her husband asked.


"Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis" , she replied.


Moral of the story: Never make a woman angry . . . there will be Hell to pay!


NB: The longest word currently listed in the Oxford dictionary is the supposed lung-disease pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis (45 letters).

Keep rocking...Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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You are special,dnt forget it

A small article that speaks about the value of a person...Click read more..!


A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $20 bill. In the room of 200, he asked, "Who would like this $20 bill?"

Hands started going up.

He said, "I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this." He proceeded to crumple the dollar bill up.

He then asked, "Who still wants it?"

Still the hands were up in the air.

"Well," he replied, "What if I do this?" And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe.

He picked it up, now all crumpled and dirty. "Now who still wants it?" Still the hands went into the air.

"My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20.

Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way.

We feel as though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value.

You are special - Don't ever forget it!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Every person having parents must read this

A very beautiful story with an advice...Every person who has his parents must read this article..Special thanks to Anjali garu....Click read more...!




A simple man tells how his booking an air ticket for his father, his first flight, brought emotions and made him realize that how much we all take for granted when it comes to our parents.

My parents left for our native place on Thursday and we went to the airport to see them off. In fact, my father had never traveled by air before, so I just took this opportunity to make him experience the same. In spite of being asked to book tickets by train, I got them tickets on Lufthansa.

The moment I handed over the tickets to him, he was surprised to see that I had booked them by air. The excitement was very apparent on his face, waiting for the time of travel. Just like a school boy, he was preparing himself on that day and we all went to the airport, right from using the trolley for his luggage, the baggage check-in and asking for window seat and waiting restlessly for the security check-in to happen.

He was thoroughly enjoying himself and I, too, was overcome with joy watching him experience all these things.

As they were about to go in for the security check-in, he walked up to me with tears in his eyes and thanked me.

He became very emotional and it was not as if I had done something great but the fact that this meant a great deal to him.

When he said thanks, I told him there was no need to thank me.

But later, thinking about the entire incident, I looked back at my life.

As a child how many dreams our parents have made come true. Without understanding the financial situation, we ask for football, dresses, toys, outings, etc. Irrespective of their affordability, they have satisfied to all our needs. Did we ever think about the sacrifices they had to make to accommodate many of our wishes?

Did we ever say thanks for all that they have done for us?

Same way, today when it comes to our children, we always think that we should put them in a good school. Regardless of the amount of donation, we will ensure that we will have to give the child the best, theme parks, toys, etc. But we tend to forget that our parents have sacrificed a lot for our sake to see us happy, so it is our responsibility to ensure that their dreams are realized and what they failed to see when they were young, it is our responsibility to ensure that they experience all those and their life is complete.

Many times, when my parents had asked me some questions, I have actually answered back without patience. When my daughter asks me something, I have been very polite in answering. Now I realize how they would have felt at those moments.

Let us realize that old age is a second childhood and just as we take care of our children , the same attention and same care need to be given to our parents and elders.

Rather than my dad saying thank you to me, I would want to say sorry for making him wait so long for this small dream.

I do realize how much he has sacrificed for my sake and I will do my best to give the best possible attention to all their wishes. Just because they are old does not mean that they will have to give up everything and keep sacrificing for their grandchildren also. They have wishes, too.

Let's Take care of our parents.

Keep rocking friends....Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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WHEN A LIZARD CAN, WHY CAN”T WE?

A spectacular meaning holding story adopted from Anjali's blog.....Click read more...!



This is a true story that happened in Japan .


In order to renovate the house, someone in Japan breaks open the wall.


Japanese houses normally have a hollow space between the wooden walls.


When tearing down the walls, he found that there was a livelizard stuck there because a nail from outside hammered into one of its feet.

He sees this, feels pity, and at the same time curious, as when he checked the nail, it was nailed 10 years ago when the house was! first built.


What happened?


The lizard has survived in such position for 10 years!!!!!!!!!!

In a dark wall partition for 10 years with out moving, it is impossible and mind-boggling.

Then he wondered how this lizard survived for 10 years! without moving a single step–since its foot was nailed!

So he stopped his work and observed the lizard, what it has been doing, and what and how it has been eating.

Later, not knowing from where it came, appears another lizard, with food in its mouth.


Ah! He was stunned and touched deeply.

For the lizard that was stuck by nail, another lizard has been feeding it for the past 10 years…


Imagine? it has been doing that untiringly for 10 long years, without giving up hope on its partner.

Think, will u do that to your partner?

Think that will you do it to your Mom, Who brought you after a big struggle of Nine long months ?


Or at least to your Dad, Friends, Co-workers, brothers and Sisters?

Imagine what a small creature can do that a creature blessed with a brilliant mind can”t.

As information and communication technology advances, our access to information becomes faster and faster.


But the distance between human beings . . . is it getting closer as well?


Please never abandon your loved ones


Never Say U R Busy When They Really Need You …

You May Have The Entire World At Your Feet…..

But You Might Be The Only World To Them….

A Moment of negligence might break the very heart which loves you thru all odds..


Before you say something just remember It takes a moment to Break but an entire life to make….

To Live Use Heart And to Survive use Brains.

Then Life would be a paradise Unfurling only Love Joy andHappiness…..


Spread this message to everyone you Love and Help them Live life and not merely Survive…..


The happiest of people don”t necessarily have the best of everything;

They just make the most of everything that comes along their way !!


Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Unconditional love-An essence of LOVE

A meaningful story adopted from Anjali garu's blog.....Loved it so much..
Special thanks to Anjali garu for this article...!Click read more...!

A story is told about a soldier who was finally coming home after having fought in Vietnam. He called his parents from San Francisco.
"Mom and Dad, I'm coming home," the Son said, "but I've a favor to ask. I have a friend I'd like to bring home with me."

"Sure," they replied, "we'd love to meet him."

"There's something you should know" the son continued, "he was hurt pretty badly in the fighting. He stepped on a land mind and lost an arm and a leg. He has nowhere else to go, and I want him to come live with us."

"I'm sorry to hear that, son. Maybe we can help him find somewhere to live."

"No, Mom and Dad, I want him to live with us."

"Son," said the father, "you don't know what you're asking. Someone with such a handicap would be a terrible burden on us. We have our own lives to live, and we can't let something like this interfere with our lives. I think you should just come home and forget about this guy. He'll find a way to live on his own."

At that point, the son hung up the phone. The parents heard nothing more from him. A few days later, however, they received a call from the San Francisco police. Their son had died after falling from a building, they were told. The police believed it was suicide. The grief-stricken parents flew to San Francisco and were taken to the city morgue to identify the body of their son. They recognized him, but to their horror they also discovered something they didn't know, their son had only one arm and one leg.

The parents in this story are like many of us. We find it easy to love those who are good-looking or fun to have around, but we don't like people who inconvenience us or make us feel uncomfortable. We would rather stay away from people who aren't as healthy, beautiful, or smart as we are. Thankfully, there's someone who won't treat us that way. Someone who loves us with an unconditional love that welcomes us into the forever family, regardless of how messed up we are.

Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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An interesting story-Must read it once

Another nice story thats adopted from Anjali garu's blog....Thankz Anjali garu for the wonderful article....Click read more...!


Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur's youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and, If after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death. The question was: What do women really want?

Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, And to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, He accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.

He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: The princess, the priests, the wise men, and even the court jester. He spoke with everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer. Many people advised him to consult the old witch, For only she would have the answer. But the price would be high as the witch was famous through out the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.

The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but he would have to agree to her price first.

The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, The most noble of the Knights of the Round Table, And Arthur's closest friend! Young Arthur was horrified. She was hunch-backed and hideous, had only one tooth, Smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc.
He had never encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life. He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible burden, But Lancelot, having learnt of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He said nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life. And the reservation of the Round Table. Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered Arthur's question thus:"What a woman really wants?" She said, "Is to be in charge of her own life."
Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth.
And that Arthur's life would be spared. And so it was.

The neighboring monarch granted Arthur his freedom.
And Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding.
The honeymoon hour approached and, Lancelot, steeling himself for a horrific experience, entered the bedroom.
But, what a sight awaited him.
The most beautiful woman he had ever seen lay before him on the bed.
The astounded Lancelot asked what had happened.
The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she appeared as a witch, She would henceforth be her horrible and deformed self only half the time. And the beautiful maiden the other half.
"Which would you prefer? She asked him.
"Beautiful during the day ... or at night?"
Lancelot pondered the predicament.
During the day he could have a beautiful woman to show off to his friends,
But at night, in the privacy of his castle, an old witch!
Or,
Would he prefer having a hideous witch during the day?
But by night a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous, intimate moments with?


(If you are a man reading this...) What would YOUR choice be?
(If you are a woman reading this) What would YOUR MAN'S choice be?
What Lancelot chose, is given below:
BUT... make YOUR choice before you scroll down below... OKAY?


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Noble Lancelot, knowing the answer the witch gave Arthur to his question,
He said that he would allow HER to make the choice herself.
Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time.
Because, he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life.

Now... what is the moral to this story?

The moral is...
1) There is witch in every woman no matter how beautiful she is!
2) If you don't let a woman have her own way, things are going to get ugly.

So, always remember:
IT'S EITHER "HER WAY" OR IT'S "NO WAY" !!!

Keep rocking..!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Nice love story

A wonderful story adopted from one of the blogs that i have seen yesterday...Felt like sharing it with you....Click read more...!
P.S: Story adapted from anjalinityanjali.blogspot.com

A Beautiful Love story which will touch your Heart……. ……



There was once this guy who is very much in love with his girl. This romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of paper cranes as a gift to his girl.

Although, at that time he was just a small fry in his company, his future didn’t seem too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she cannot visualize any future for the both of them, so they went their own ways there and then…


Heartbroken, the guy agreed. But when he regained his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his body and mind just to make something out of himself.

Finally with all the hard work and the help of friends, this guy had set up his own company .

You never fail until you stop trying. One rainy day, while this guy was driving, he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella in the rain walking to some destination. Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn’t take him long to realize they were his girl’s parents.

With a heart in getting back at them, he drove slowly beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his luxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he wasn’t the same any more; he had his own company, car, condo, etc. He made it! What he saw next confused him, the couple was walking towards a cemetery, and so he got out of his car and followed…and he saw his girl, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone and he saw his paper cranes right beside her…

Her parents saw him. He asked them why this had happened. They explained, she did not leave for France at all. She was ill with cancer. She had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want to be his obstacle… therefore she had chosen to leave him.


Just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to, doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have. She had wanted her parents to put his paper cranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him to her again…he can take some of those back with him…


Once you have loved, you will always love. For what’s in your mind may escape but what’s in your heart will remain forever.


The guy just wept…The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside her knowing you can’t have her, see her or be with her ever again……. ..hope you understand.


Find time to realize that there is one person who means so much to you, for you might wake up one morning losing that person who you thought meant nothing to you



Hope you have liked that,keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Dont look for happiness....Look out for JOY

An inspirational message to everyone....A must and should article to be read by everyone...Click read more...!

What is the purpose of life .. being alive ?
People say its happiness . But I am not looking for happiness maybe . Why people choose paths that are twisted and full of thorns . What is happiness then ?

The very obvious question ...is that love ? No way. I have seen people more in pain due to love . Sleepless nights , anxiety , fear of losing . Now some philosophers will say that is not love . Ok .. tell me why we should think the way some philosopher asks to . The natural feeling we have in ourselves . Is that bad ? How contradictory . Why should we be convincing ourselves that what we want is what we wouldn't . After all losers have to follow those principles in order to console themselves .
In Eleven minutes by Paulo Coelho , Maria doesn't get real love anywhere and so everyday she keeps entering in her diary some philosophies that love is freedom and blah blah . Those who got their love never mentioned or talked about such philosophies .
Anyway , if its not love ,what is it ? Is it peace ?A mother is never at peace . Every second she is worried about their children . If there is absolute peace in life you are dead ! After all life is about ups and downs . You cant enjoy peace unless you walked down paths that were most difficult and challenging for you .
well then wealth ? Did anybody earned a lot and then stopped working to enjoy a life ? The life becomes more and more difficult as you gain more wealth . Poverty causes unhappiness but that doesn't mean wealth brings happiness .
well , I think search for happiness is like searching for a mare's nest .

I wasted enough of my time searching for happiness . I want joy now .
Joy is like sex - it begins and ends . Happiness is like a trap that shows you joy with eternity .But that's just a trap . Do not fall in the trap of happiness . Live the moments .

Inspired by Paulo Coelho ( “The Witch of Portobello” )
Keep rocking...!Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Friend-a msg that came frm my heart

A small message,that came out from my heart..Explains how much a friend is needed by everyone...Click read more...!

When I was 10 years old I had more than 50 friends. Its not an exaggerated figure I tell you. They were really my good friends. I never judged them as good, bad , intelligent or anything . Our needs were trivial as borrowing notes or playing together . I helped when they needed me and vice-versa .Friend in need is a friend indeed . So we were friends !! They visited my house regularly and my mother would often get angry over me why I had so many friends.

After 5 years , I had just 5-10 friends. My perception of things happening around increased . I also started judging people as I could see more in every people . My thoughts were little ruined.. perhaps decayed over time. My needs increased from borrowing just notes and playing together . Although I loved my friends very much , I never stopped judging them . Why people have to judge anyway. Everyone is the way he is . I wish I were 10 years old again . No judging. Everyone is good . I was so happy then .
Now when I am 20 , I doubt if I have any friends . My thoughts are so twisted. I feel different and lonely . And I live almost two parallel lives – the one my friends think I am and the other which is lonely , different , depressed , unpractical and keeps wondering over philosophical thoughts .And I blame my friends for not understanding me . Phew ! I am the one so twisted . I am so fortunate enough that at least they try to understand. People say friend in need is a friend indeed . I want my friend to understand me . That is my need . I want my friend to provide moral support to me. But they cant as they don't understand me .Its not their fault . Does that mean he is not my friend. Definitions and sayings fail too. So what is friendship? Even the best friends split if one is not available for help when he needs one for ,maybe , some valid reasons . I don't know what friendship means . If I stick to definitions .. I am afraid I never had a friend . But I have a company .. . I love them all ..very very much . I don't know whether they are friends or more than friends . I don't want to know . I just want to be with them .

So friends,my sincere advice is not to loose any friends...Remove all the feelings of ego etc and try to be a best friend to everyone....Keep rocking..!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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A small poem that i wanna dedicate to you all

Hey friends,firstly sorry for not updating my blog since a week....Here is a small poem that i feel like dedicating to every reader of my blog...Click read more...!


When I stumble in the darkness,
You're there to pick me up
You sacrificed your life
To wipe away my sins......

The greatest love of all
Is the love you show for me.

There aren't words enough to express..
How grateful I am for you..
To know that such a love exists...

A love so pure and true
A love for just me and you.

One of the sweetest poems that i have ever seen on net...Felt like sharing with you all...Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Picture explaining love @ first sight

A wonderful image that has a lot of meaning......I liked it very much...Found it while moving through Google images.....Random selection....But its awesome...Hope you like it too...Keep rocking...!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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5 tips for a perfect relationship

Here are a few cool tips for maintaining a perfect and healthy relationships.....Click read more...!
Source:Perfectlove blogspot.com

Relationships can play a major role in our lives.However, not all relationships are healthy. Sometimes we associate with people who may not have our best interests in mind. It’s vital that you learn to recognize a healthy relationship from a harmful one.However any relationship can seems to be an intimate one.That is,it’s totally normal to look at the world through rose-coloured glasses in the early stages of a relationship. But for some people, those rose-coloured glasses turn into blinders that keep them from seeing that a relationship isn’t as healthy as it should be.
You can have an intimate relationship with anyone. An intimate relationship is one in which you can truly be yourself with someone who you respect and are respected by in return. It is an emotional connection that can also be physical.Many people think that “intimate” means being physically intimate, such as being in a sexual relationships. However, an intimate relationship can be with anyone who you are really close to and with whom you can be completely open and honest. Intimate relationships afford you the opportunity to grow as an individual.
Relationships are difficult to maintain when they are filled with conflict, negativity and a lack of trust. For the most part, people want the same thing from a romantic partner. People want spouses and partners who are:Understanding,Appreciative,Respectful,Caring and kind,Helpful,Trustworthy, Positive,Fun to be around.

What Makes a Healthy Relationship?
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1.Mutual respect:
Respect is the first positive step in building a relationship .A relationship without mutual respect can never be happy and healthy. Mutual respect is absolutely necessary in a good relationship .Each partner has a right to privacy. Being a couple does not give you the right to invade your partner’s privacy. Love involves trust and this preclude any spying on your partner.
There may be things that you love to do and your partner hates and vice versa. That shouldn’t mean that both of you can’t do the things you love. You can enjoy the things you enjoy on your own or with friends or family members. Or, you and your partner can stretch a little once in a while and share these things even though they are your favorite things. you should be able to discuss anything with your partner in a reasonable manner. If you can’t it is time to take a good long look at yourself.Relationships work the best when partners have a lot in common, but respect and appreciate the differences that do exist. It helps to appreciate someone for who they are rather than try to change them or how they behave.
Everyone has a right to an opinion even if it is not considered accurate by someone else. The right to have an opinion is not limited to accuracy and you should definitely remember this in your relationship.

2.Trust:
Trust is the central pillar supporting any real relationship. With so much at stake, be it emotions, finances, children or future goals, there needs to be implicit trust for love to fully develop. Building trust in a relationship takes hard work and commitment. Trust requires that you listen to each other and communicate your needs.
It’s OK to get a little jealous sometimes — jealousy is a natural emotion. But how a person reacts when feeling jealous is what matters. There’s no way you can have a healthy relationship if you don’t trust each other.Relationships work the best when partners reassure each other of their love and commitment. It never hurts to tell a spouse that you love him or her and that you will always be there.Trust, after all, is the glue that holds couples together – even when they face great challenges. Without trust, couples might be more likely to split in times of crises, fail at getting intimate, and have doubts about each other. Couples who trust each other have security and probably feel closer.So trust is an essential key to healthy relationship.Be predictable and learn to share things and secretes.Once you’ve built trust, you’ve done something magical, and you should do everything in your power to keep it if you plan on maintaining your relationship.
And above all trust requires honesty above all else.

3.Honesty:
Honesty is vital to the health of all relationships. Mutual trust, openness, and understanding are the key contributors to feelings of friendship and intimacy. Conversely it is very hard to be in a relationship with a person who distorts or withholds information critical to that relationship.Yet there are internal tensions that can pull us away from truth-telling. One of the most powerful of these forces is fear - fear of what other persons will think of us or how they will use the information we reveal. n a relationship, any relationship, complete honesty is always needed. In fact, honesty should be part of the relationship’s foundation. The principle behind it is that basically, no one likes being lied to, and if a relationship is to flourish, it should not be peppered with lies.
In the end, the truth shall come out. You are not only in danger of losing him when the truth behind the lies is finally revealed, but you would also lose yourself in the process. Losing yourself is one of the worst possible outcomes in the end of a relationship; sometimes, it is hard to regain the sense of who you truly are.People need to be able to talk freely with a romantic partner. Sharing what is going on in one’s life and how one feels about issues is important to do. But, being open with a partner is not always easy because it requires spouses to tell the truth and to LISTEN to things that may be difficult to hear. Listening in an attempt to UNDERSTAND, not control, evaluate, or judge is critical to having an satisfying relationship.

4.Support:
Couples feel closer and are more satisfied with their relationships when they approach problems and difficulties as a team. Couples who take an US versus the PROBLEM, rather than a YOU versus ME approach to conflict are much happier in the long run.It’s not just in bad times that your partner should support you. Some people are great when your whole world is falling apart but can’t take being there when things are going right (and vice versa). In a healthy relationship, your significant other is there with a shoulder to cry on when you need it the most.

5.Care:
Nothing in this world stays long and steady.As times goes by everything under the sun changes.So it is necessary to keep thing in care in order to maintain their goodness.This is also true for love.Care in what needed to maintain a good relationship rolling.’Cause rolling sione gather no moss!Over time, couples typically take each other for granted. At the start of a relationship people appreciate all the things that their partners do for them. However, as time goes on, people tend to expect more, but acknowledge a partner’s contributions less often. To keep a relationship happy and healthy it is important to show appreciation on a consistent basis.

These 5 things are your key to a successful relationship.Relationships can be one of the best — and most challenging — parts of your world. They can be full of fun, romance, excitement, intense feelings, and occasional heartache, too. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, remember that it’s good to be choosy about who you get close to. If you’re still waiting, take your time and get to know plenty of people.
Think about the qualities you value in a friendship and see how they match up with the ingredients of a healthy relationship. Work on developing those good qualities in yourself — they make you a lot more attractive to others. And if you’re already part of a pair, make sure the relationship you’re in brings out the best in both of you.
And always remember ‘The best relationship is the one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other’.

Thats what i have to say...Wonderful post isnt it..?Keep rocking,Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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My special article on Mother's Day

A small article regarding Mothers day....Click read more...!

Dear friends,Happy Mothers Day to every mother on this world......Do you know whats the full form of a mother...??

M=Motivator
O=Onlyone
T=Truelove
H=Heartiest
E=Exceptional
R=Responsible

God in heaven said to a nine month child,"You are going to born on earth tomorrow"...
Child cried and asked "how will I talk with people "?
God said,"I have sent an angel to earth,she will teach you".
Child: "How will I pray to you"?
God:"Angel will teach you".
Child: "How will i learn good words"?
God: "Angel will teach you".
Child: "If I suffer from sorrow..?"
God: "Angel will be there to listen".
Child:"How do I find that angel..?"
God:"Simple,people call her as MOTHER

This article is dedicated for the one who loves...for the one who believes in the U everytime,The best gift of nature.....to your Mother...!

Love your mom,never neglect her...Jus remember the care that she offered you since you were a child...Offer her support till the end of her life...

Thnxx for reading,keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Mother's Importance...Mothers day wishes

There is nothing great other than Mother's love in this world...God cannot reach everywhere so he created Mothers on earth....Click read more...!


Motherhood is a strong feeling that is not only present in the Humans....It resists in the animals too....For example take a look at these pics....When her child is being attacked by a dog,a mother squirrel fights with the dog and succeeds in winning her daughter squirrel back...!

A simple but yet a very expressive snap that explains what a mother's love is....!
Mother is God's best gift....

If God is great, (Amma, Aai, Amme, Ma, Mom , Mummy................is the greatest)



Baby Monkey hit by bike at Jaipur {India}

but monkey mother...... . we already know the Mother history.

Maa Tujhe Salaam

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Why Women Cry...?

Why women cry...?? Generally we mightnot be knowing the answer,so click read more to know this...
P.S. : Special thanks to Veda Shree Raju,one of our blog regular followers and a sisterly person to me...Click read more...!



A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman , " she told him.

"I don't understand , " he said. His Mom just hugged him and said , "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father , "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason , " was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man , still wondering why women cry...

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone , he asked , "God , why do women cry so easily?"

God said

"When I made the woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up , and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances , even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife , but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally , I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son , " said God , "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears , the figure that she carries , or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes , because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

Dear friends,that is the reason why we sometimes fail to understand what a woman is....She hides her tears for our happiness(As a mother)...She forgets her hunger to make our hunger disappear....That is a woman..Thnxx for reading this...Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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How to stay young, healthy and happy

Here is one of the best tips for you...A small gift to all of you from our blog readers Hk raju annaya....How to stay healthy,young and happy......Click read more...!

P.S: Click on the image to get a larger size view.

Keep rocking,Regards,
Sriram Mallik...!

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Difference between being in love with someone and loving someone

Difference between being in love with someone and loving someone........Click read more to know about that differences...!


Being in love with someone is that passionate feeling of excitement that makes your heart jump when you are attracted to someone emotionally and physically. You can't stop thinking about them, you want to kiss, hug, touch and feel them. The feeling of being in love is temporary, it is like a wind that wraps you in a whirlwind of passion today, but is gone tomorrow.


Loving someone is more constant than that, it means giving someone so much care, affection, friendship, respect, understanding them and accepting them just the way they are. Your love for them does not fade with time or with distance. It is the kind of love that is described in the Holy Bible;


"Love is patient and kind. It does not envy or boast. It is not proud or rude, or self-seeking. It is not easily angered, and does not keep record of wrongs. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres. Love never fails." (1 Corinthians 13:4-8 ).


Most relationships start with both partners falling in love with each other, being in love with each other. But what happens when the sparks are gone?...., that is when they both have to decide to love each other, accepting their flaws and all.


In relationships where people are together for so many years (like in marriage), they will tell you(if they're honest), that it is difficult to be in love with your partner all of the time, that they were not always in love with each other, they were in and out of love, but they still love each other. Which is what really matters, having a love that is like anchor that holds you and your partner through the wild and stormy sea of your relationship.


So, what would you prefer?, to share a love that is here today and gone tomorrow?, or to share a love that lasts for ages, a love that never fails?Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Tips to remain faithful amongst your relationship

For all the married readers of my blog,here is a wonderful article dedicated for you..8steps to remain faithful amongst your relationship...Click read more...!

Step 1
Trust. To start, you have to agree to trust your partner and your partner has to agree to trust you. IF your relationship lacks trust it will be a very rocky road for the both of you. Lack of trust can lead to infidelity in either partner.
Step 2
Talk about your partner. When you are with other people, especially someone that comes on to you, talk about your spouse or partner. Make it clear that you have no intent to be unfaithful. If someone makes advances, be sure to be stern with the way you turn them down. Say something along the lines of "I am not interested, I am happily married." If you are passive about your answer, you will leave the door open and that will hurt you in the long run. An example of a passive response is "Well, you are beautiful and if I wasn't married I would think about it."
Step 3
Don't put yourself in a situation that you know can end up badly. Avoid situations where you will be with a tempting person. If you must attend something with someone that you know you are attracted to, then bring your partner with you.
Step 4
Avoid Alcohol and Drug Use. Drinking and taking drugs alters your mind and lowers your inhibitions. Avoid this is you know you cannot handle yourself.
Step 5
Accept that you are not single. When you were single it didn't matter how you acted, but now you have someone to care for and another individuals life to worry about. Accepting that you are single is a good step to staying faithful.
Step 6
Tell the truth. Always tell the truth no matter the circumstance. If you meet someone that comes on to you, tell your spouse and be honest about what happened. Don't leave her guessing and wondering what else you are leaving out.
Step 7
Remember your vows.
Step 8
Consider the Consequences. Think about what will happen if you are unfaithful. Will your wife leave you? Will your husband take the kids away? Whatever you conclude, the outcome won't be pretty. Keep that as a motivator for staying faithful.
Good luck,keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Does Love conquer everything...?

Does LOVE really conquer everything in this world...?It is one of the toughest questions to be answered..I am writing my opinion regarding this concept..Might be different from your way of thinking...Please dont mind if i speak anything wrong regarding this but its strictly MY OPINION...Click read more...!


Many people believe that love is everything, many believe love can conquer all. Does love really conquer all? I am one of the few people who don't think it can.

Sometimes love alone is not enough. It is certainly very important and does help one get through bad times. Love alone does not conquer some circumstances, and issues such as broken promises, physical and emotional abuse, chronic diseases, etc. Love itself cannot heal the psychological wounds within a relationship, if it is not combined with real emotional work. Love can help motivate, but it takes decision and ambition to conquer all.


Love may go a long way in conquering almost all, only if the love that's on the receiving end does not have any limits or judgements for the love that's given. And if the love that's being given does not have any judgements or limits on the love that's being received, it's all about mutuality in a relationship. But we are only human and the likelihood of this balance of understanding succeeding is mostly unlikely. It is always a risk giving your unlimited love to someone and if you do find that balance, that's amazing.


A friend of mine said: "Love (not restricted to the one between a man and a woman) may not conquer all, but it may open many doors." So now should I believe it can conquer all of those closed doors and the locked ones?.

Thats what i confidently feel....Love alone is not enough..We meed to have strong dedication/determination to stand alone fighting with the whole world if necessary....Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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