PLEASE STOP ALL THESE INCIDENTS :(

Dear friends,
PREMA (LOVE) ante champatamo,chavatamo kaadu....Bratakatam,bratikinchatam...
Please try to stop love suicides,acid attacks,killing the ones whom we love etc...Am deeply shocked after knowing the incidents that are taking place in the state,on women..Plzz stop them and try to protect the girl child...Please make it sure that
LOVING SOMEONE MEANS JUST HAVING A DESIRE TO SEE OUR LOVED ONES HAPPY FOREVER,WHERE EVER,HOW EVER THEY ARE...MAKE IT SURE THAT THE ONES WE LOVE FEEL THE MOST SECURED IN OUR PRESENCE,RATHER THAN DESERTING THEM AND KILLING THEM AFTER HAVING A PHYSICAL INTERCOURSE/TIMEPASS RELATION...HOPE ALL YOU PEOPLE WOULD SUPPORT ME IN PASSING ON MY MESSAGE LIKE A CHAIN SO THAT IT REACHES EVERYONE AND EVERYONE WOULD ATLEAST GET SOME FEELINGS ABOUT THIS MATTER AND GETS A CHANGE...HOPE YOU WOULD HELP ME IN CIRCULATING THIS MESSAGE,
REGARDS,
SRIRAM MALLIK,
c/o www.loveguru-srm.blogspot.com

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Short yet another interesting story

Hi friends,today i am sharing a small story which has a great meaning in it...Short but yet a message giving story..Click read more..!




I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me.

Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it before me, and said this: "You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love."

This was how I saw it: As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds.



This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love...they try to posses it, they demand, they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you .

For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings.

Give and don't expect.
Advise, but don't order.
Ask, but never demand.

It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring."

Passing thought... Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take; but by the moments that take our breath away.....

Life is beautiful!!! Live it !!! Love it!!!!!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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AA VOICE THAT NOW RESTS IN PEACE

Friends.this is a post dedicated to a wonderful singer Swarna Latha garu who has expired today....Got this information from my wellwisher and our blog regular visitor,H.K.Raju annaya from Bangalore...Firstly thnx for the info annaya bt I was deeply disheartened after hearing this...Of all the songs she sang,i really love KUCCHI KUCCHI KUNAMMA,KUNDANALA KUNAMMA from BOMBAY...! Music maestro ILAYARAJA garu feels that she is his favorite singer of all the younger generation singers....
She was born in the year 1973 and everyone of her family member felt that God gifted her a wonderful voice...Every Indian felt the same but God wanted to hear her voice closely...So he took her to his presence...India will surely miss her voice..A very young talented star has fallen and I am one of the persons who really miss her voice..May her soul rest in peace..My deepest condolences to her family members..Thnx HKR annaya for intimating me regarding this..!

Some Info regarding her...!!!]
One of the most popular voices of the 90’s, Swarnalatha passed away today morning (September 12) at a private hospital, due to lung problems. The singer was just 37 at the time of her death

The Chitoor in Palakkad district of Kerala born singer has been a favourite of AR Rahman and Ilayaraja and has sung some of their early chartbusters. Harris Jayaraj tweeted- “I was shocked hearing the sudden demise of Swarnalatha. May her soul rest in peace and god bless her family”

Her major plus was that she could sing a melody for AR Rahman like Poralle Ponnuthayi in Bharathiraja’s Karuthamma for which she got the National Award for the best playback singer (1995) and at the same time belt out a fast peppy Mukabala, Mukabala in Kathalan . She has sung some of ARR’s hit numbers in the 90’s

Similarly under Ilayaraja, she has sung the fast and peppy Aattama Therottama in Captain Prabhakar a rage during those days. Remember earlier Swarnalatha has sung the melodious Povomma Oorkolam in Chinna Thambi for which she got the Tamil Nadu State Award for best playback singer. In short Swarnalatha was one of the most versatile singers of her times. During the later half of 2000, she faded out due to lung complications. She has also sung songs in Malayalam, Telugu and Hindi.

Wikipedia link regarding her :
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swarnalatha



Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Two big festivals on a single day..Here is my hearty wishes :)

Its a great auspicious occasion that two of our big Indian festivals are being celebrated on a single day...We may be one of the rare people to have such an occasion..Eid(Ramzan)Mubarak and wish you all a very happy Ganesh Chaturthi...!

It feels great to celebrate two awesome festivals on a single day.....This occasion proves the unity in diversity of the Indian culture...We should be united forever just like the festivals that coincidentally fell on a single day...Hope this is what God wanted everyone to know and hence made the festivals appear on a single day :)

Well,Ramzan....A prominent festival of the Muslims...Which shares the love,care and relationship between any two individuals..That is what they believe regarding this festival...

Vinayaka chavithi,also known as Ganesh Chaturthi in the north...A celebration as a mark of rebirth of Lord Ganesh...Also celebrated as his birthday :)

It really feels great to be a part of both the celebrations because,am gonna meet my close friend,Irfan and wish him and his family regarding his festival....!


Hope you have great times ahead..! May the blessings of Lord Ganesh and Allah be wid u forever..Let me pray to God to keep showering his blessings on everyone equally and let all our frndshp continue like this...Keep rocking..!!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik



P.S: For everyone here,am posting a video regarding vinayakachavithi special photos...See that video for wonderful pics of Lord Ganesh :)

Video:

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Secrets of some successful relationships

What are the secrets of a successful relationship..??To know those click read more...!



Human Relationships can be enlightening and supporting but can also cause drama and trauma. This is also and especially the case of male-female relationships. You can see such a relationship as a special kind of interaction where two different physiologies and two different biological strategies meet. They come from a different origin and they aim at a different target but meet at a crossroad. When they meet the same nature of their biology dictates union.

A union between male and female biology can generate a state of enthusiasm, joy passion and relaxation that no other relation could instil. This is probably due to the biological prospect for a new life that can be born from this bond. The union of what the Chinese philosophers were calling “Yin” and “Yang” is creating harmony and wellbeing.

A fully opened and relaxed state exists when one can let go of all social, psychological and emotional restraints and is generally associated with specific hormones released in the body. In order to reach this condition, it is necessary for the regions of the brain associated with behavioral control and anxiety to be deactivated, thus leaving the person in a state of blissful affective drive for life.

Many studies have already shown a correlation between oxytocin plasma levels and affective social bonding which increased trust and decreased fear. In many mammals oxytocin evokes feelings of affection, reduces anxiety and increases feelings of security. Studies also confirmed a positive relation between oxytocin plasma levels and adult romantic attachment.

A long-lasting and meaningful relationship must therefore consider the biological and instinctive needs of the other in order to maintain continuous mental and physical aperture and a regular release of hormones, including oxytocin, that come from love and trust alone.

Because male and female biology provoke two very different survival needs, disregarding the necessities of the other can render a quarrelsome and unraveling relationship.

A man instinctively searches a source of stability in a woman, whereas a woman biologically seeks security in a man. When the searched values are not found or found and later lost a deep discontentment can arise in a couple.

Ultimately, any miscommunication or quarrel that may arise in a couple is a basic attempt to expose the original lack of the fundamental biological prerogatives mentioned above. It all comes down to: is he man enough and is she woman enough?

Male biology developed through the ages engaging into activities that focus on locomotion, hunting, attacking and defending, thus basically magnifying the natural fight or flight instinct with the activation of specific areas such as the amygdala. For thousands of years, male bodies have been exposed to the rule win or die that still lies harbored deeply within their instincts.

To better understand a man, a woman should consider this biological tendency in a man and comprehend that rushed instinctual decisions, stubbornness, intense activity alternated with complete relaxation is part of male natural makeup. What made a male a male through the ages was the ability to locate sources of survival and defend them. It was the mono-tasking ability to concentrate on one goal, save all energy for it and achieve it at all costs.

Female biology developed through the ages in challenging and rough environments in a very different way: using the tend and befriend instinct. It adapted to threats and dangers developing diplomatic behavior, esthetical desirability, emotional recognition through facial expressions, healing abilities, gathering and nurturing abilities, territorial mapping, multi-tasking managing and educating. It thus activates other specific brain areas such as the hippocampus, related with short term memory.

To better understand a woman, a man should consider that appearances and pleasant environments are highly desirable to females and loud noises, violent reactions, and illogical behavior are seen as threats to a woman, leaving them less kind and mostly anxious. Moreover, the mono-tasking tendencies of a man to concentrate obsessively on their goals to achieve might put a female partner into a state of disheartening dissatisfaction, thus causing a drop in oxytocin levels.

Due to a different stress managing system males can often minimize events that are significant and important to women, while a woman can appear often using an apprehensive and anxious conduct to a man. Males and females vary greatly in behavior and reaction to stress but follow general biological guidelines based neither on culture nor education but on genetics.

A male biology would have a general tendency to function hierarchically, just like a military system whereas a female one would rather operate like a political system, considering more points of view and always weighing the best option out of a collection of possibilities.

In evaluating a possible partner a man would be overwhelmed by an indefinite state of attraction with an intense physical drive to be with the chosen person, while a woman will often ponder factors as physical attraction, age, social status, geographical location, language, dressing style before accepting to engage into a partnership. Male mentality would often operate on a binary base of yes or no, whereas a female mind would rather find many grey areas in between.

A typical male problem-solving approach would try to find the quickest and most effective solution to a problem regardless of the effort, pain and damage involved. This is also indicated in male suicide rates being extremely more frequent in many countries than female, according to statistics provided by the WHO. Female mentality, on the other hand, would tend to compromise and to politically adapt to requests, necessities and points of views, trying to find a common goal and a conflict-less solution to a problem.

Should the individuals in the relationship fail to meet the instinctive needs in the other, they usually result in a growth apart, needing to take separate paths in order to find a different suitor who can provide the biological needs sought for. This is often associated with the feeling of having “outgrown” the other and needing to go “separate ways”.

In the end it is important to remember that in all relationships, especially between men and women, a general biologically-based behavior is dictated. No culture or social rule can completely over-ride this conduct, no matter how modernized and civilized a society may be.

Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Hurt your loved ones by saying the truth rather than making them happy by saying lies

Dear friends,sorry for not writing any article since a week days...Its due to my hectic schedule and also a fewer problems that have contributed for this delay..Click read more...!

Hai friends,chala days ga ea article upload cheyalekapoyanu...Due to few reasons and hectic schedule ila jarigindi..Am xtremely sorry for that...!
Recent ga naku ochina thought ni ikada upload chestunna....


Ee sandharbham ga oka chinna proverb share cheskovalani undi...

HURT ME WITH THE TRUTH RATHER THAN MAKING ME CONTENTED WITH THE LIES THAT YOU TELL...cOZ THE LIES THAT YOU TELL WILL MAKE ME HAPPY AND CONTENTED FOR A FEW MINUTES ONLY BUT THE PAIN THAT I WOULD FEEL AFTER KNOWING THE TRUTH IS ENORMOUS AND NOTHING CAN LESSEN THAT PAIN...SO PLEASE DONT MAKE ME HAPPY BY TELLING LIES BUT HURT ME WITH THE TRUTH,THAT HURTED FEELING WILL LAST ONLY FOR A FEW DAYS...!

Usually LOVER ni happy ga unchatam kosam manam chala abaddhalu cheptu untam..."Idi nenu oppukonu","nenu abaddham cheppaledu okkasarina na lover toh" ani anukunevallu asalu undaru...Unna ippudu oppukokapote ippudu kuda abadham cheptunaru anukondi chaalu :D

Konnisarlu ila abadham cheppi temporary ga vallani happy ga unchachu anukondi but eado okaroju nijam bayata padutundi kada....aaroju evaru alochincharu....abaddham cheppi vallani mosam chesam ane antaru tappa vallu aa time ki enta happy ga feel ayyaro ane thought mind lo undadu appudu...Chala guilty ga feel avutaru...So here is my sincere advice...Rather than abaddham cheppi happy ga unchatam kanna try to search for other alternative ways to make them happy...!

So friends,be frank in every matters...no matter what others feel...If the other person truely loves you,he/she would keep loving no matter what flaws that you have...No matter how bad they would feel when you speak frankly instead of telling lies...They will understand you for sure...

Keep rocking..Have a great time...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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