Sunday, January 31, 2010

Some love tips for Girls

Dear readers,here are some small but valuable suggestions for girls who need much caring from their lovers...Click read more...!


My dear buddies,Mainly Girls[:D]
# Do something he would probably never expect - Send "Him" flowers!

# Spend intimate time with him. No television, no telephone, no computer, just you and him.

# Always respect him. Respect is one of the things men treasure the most in relationships.

# Touch him affectionately: put your hand on the small of his back, run your fingers through his hair, using your fingertips, lightly trace the inside of his forearm.

# Tell him he is "handsome," "rugged," and "strong", try not to use "cute."

# Surprise him with a candle-lit dinner.

# Tell him that you feel safe when you're in his arms.

# Encourage him in whatever he does-sports, work, whatever.

# Watch sports with him, even if it isn't your thing.

# Forgive him when he messes up.

Please avoid the feeling of EGO and care him as if he is a small kid awaiting for your love,affection and care...!Plzzz have the feeling of forgiveness and take care about your relation...Hope you have a happy life...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Some love tips for Guys

Dear readers,here are a few suggestions or rather tips especially for GUYS who are in love....Follow these tips to have a better relation and greater enjoyment in LOVE...Click read more...!


# Make a cassette tape of your and her favorite love songs, then record (in your voice) a special, romantic message at the end!

# Write her a poem (See our Romantic Poetry for inspiration)

# Leave little notes around telling her things you love about her.

# Let her rest her head in your lap.

# If she's feeling stressed out, give her a massage and help her work out a better way to do things.

# If she makes dinner, offer to do the dishes.

# Always be a gentleman--hold the door for her.

# Give her the same respect you enjoy from her.

# Make an effort to get to know (and if you can, love) her family.

Donot neglect her or ignore her even in ur worst times....Keep making her Happier at every stage and enjoy your life....
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Six tips for love and happiness

"Six small but simple tips for love and happiness"......Click read more..!



Here are the six small tips for achieving love and happiness.....Read through them and realise your capabilities for achieving it..!

1. "If you can't say anything nice...""...don't say anything at all." If you want to really help people, give up trying to correct them. Instead, compliment them on their strengths. Will they still make mistakes that, to you, are obvious and need correcting? Sure, but I have found that there is ALWAYS someone willing to tell others where they are failing, it is rare to find someone who will tell others where they are succeeding.



2. Be Optimistic

Everyone likes to be around the "realistic optimist". The "RO" is a person who can acknowledge that everything isn't always great, but that somehow we will all make it through. Knowing that trials and setbacks are both inevitable as well as temporary makes you an asset to the people around you.


3. Be Funny (--even Silly!)

When was the last time you laughed so hard you cried? That was TOO LONG AGO. Learn some jokes and tell them. Watch a comedy on TV. Go into Burger King and put on the cardboard crown. You would be amazed how everyone around you will respond--and how much better you will feel.

4. Give it away

Go ahead and be frugal when it comes to your bills, your clothes or whatever else you want to save money on--just be generous with PEOPLE stuff. Give a 25% tip to the waitress who served you that great meal. Give $5 to a kid you see at church. Give away hugs like you get paid for each one. Take someone out to lunch--TODAY.

5. Live in the Moment

This is a tough self-actualization step for many people: STOP WORRYING ABOUT TOMORROW. Instead, live in today. Live in right now. Live as if tomorrow will worry about itself. After all, what can we do tomorrow until tomorrow gets here? All we can do is whatever is before us today.

6. Love Deeply


This is the most important tip for happiness.

Sure, you love your spouse, you love your kids. But what about the people you work with? What about your neighbors? If you love deeply I will guarantee you a couple things: You will be disappointed and hurt, but you will ALSO find happiness from some people who will deeply love you back. Trust me, it's worth it. 

Regards,
Sriram Mallik..

Thursday, January 28, 2010

A Loverz curiosity==Revolution in the field of Social Networking


A lover,who missed his girlfriend in a small incident,created a revolutionary change in the field of social networking only for her...To know about that,Click read more...!

A guy lost his girlfriend in a train accident....but the gal's name nowhere appeared in the dead list. This guy grew up n became IT technical architect in his late 20?s,achievement in itself!!
He hired developers from the whole globe and plan to make a software where
he could search for his gf through the web..Things went as planned... and he found her, after losing millions of dollars and 3 long years!!
It was time to shut down the search operation, when the CEO of Google had a
word with this guy n took over this application,This Software made a whopping 1 billion dollars profit in its first year, which we today know as ORKUT.The guy's name is ORKUT BUYUKKOTEN Yes its named after him only. Today he is paid a hefty sum by Google for the things we do like scrapping.He is expected to b the richest person by 2013..



ORKUT BUYUKKOTEN today has 13 assistants to monitor his scrapbook & 8 to monitor his friends-list. He gets around 20,000 friend-requests a day & about 85,000 scraps!!!
Some other Cool Facts about thisguy:

*He gets $12 from Google when every person registers to this website.

* He also gets $10 when you add somebody as a friend.

* He gets $8 when your friend's friend adds you as a friend & gets $6 if anybody adds you as friend in the resulting chain.

* He gets $5 when you scrap somebody & $4 when somebody scraps you.

* He also gets $200 for each photograph you upload on Orkut.

* He gets $2.5 when you add your friend in the crush-list or in the hot-list.

* He gets $2 when you become somebody's fan.

* He gets $1.5 when somebody else becomes your fan.

* He even gets $1 every time you logout of Orkut.

* He gets $0.5 every time you just change your profile-photograph.

* He also gets $0.5 every time you read your friend's scrap-book & $0.5
  every time

 


Isnt that great...??Hope you people understand the curiosity that a lover has in his heart for the one he loves.....Thats the power of LOVE


Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Positive Thinking and the way to achieve it


In the present generation we can find that there is surely lack of POSITIVE THINKING....So I'm posting this for you all..Click read more for the things that you have to do..!

*An Extreme Postive thinker thinks ::

"A stopped clock shows right time for 2 times a day".
*
"Learn to Labour,Success will not Escape".

"Winners Never Quit,Quitters never Win".*

"The secret of success in life is for u to be ready for your opportunity
when it comes."

"Success comes in cans, not cannot."

"There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard
work, learning from failure."

"Self-trust is the first secret of success."

"Success is going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm."

"We can succeed at almost anything for which we have unlimited enthusiasm."

Such should be our attitude...... Think what ever happened is for our good
and go ahead....with lot's of enthusiasm



AT ANY COST DON’T LET YOUR HOPE DOWN









Have A great positive attitude



To have a positive day keep the following in mind:

- Every problem has a solution.

- Failures always lead to learning something you can use later.

- Many times you must take a step back before u take two steps forward.

- After a crisis is always an opportunity.

- You control your thoughts and feelings.

- You make the choices that determine your fate





Hope you would follow these points for sure...Keep rocking
Regards,
Sriram Mallik

Friday, January 22, 2010

Value of missing relations and life..S/w engg's story



The feelings of a software engineer whoz missing all his life,his relations are explicitly mentioned here...Click read more...!

""""A Software Engineer's feelings.....

It was raining heavily outside. Dark clouds gathered in the sky and nature
was in its ominous best. I took a break from my work and went to the pantry
to grab a cup of coffee. I had a sip and went near the window to see the
rain pouring down heavily outside the glass structure. I was inside our huge
office building, unruffled by even the fierceness of the nature.

Through the heavy transparent glass, I could see a small girl trying to hold
on to her umbrella which the wind was snatching away from her. I felt sorry
for the girl, and was happy that I was not in a similar pathetic situation.
Yes. I take pride for the fact that I am a software engineer.



*I have everything which a common man would envy; money, status, respect,
you name it I have it* . I always wanted to be software professional and
here I am, working for one of the best firms in the world. But then, am I
really happy? Now, I could see an imprint of my palm on the other glass
window, through which I reminisced my past, basked in the warmth of the sun
shine.



My childhood was so much of fun. I vividly remember those rainy days, when I
hugged my mother tightly during sleeping listening to all the stories told
by her. Now, *I have a big house here, but then it is just a house, not a
home. My parents are pretty far away from me now. I have a cell phone to
talk to them everyday, but then I really miss those dinners which I had with
my family everyday. I could easily afford to taste all the different
cuisines these days, but the best of food there, lack the love and affection
which is present in the food prepared by my mother. *

I threw a lavish party for my colleagues for my birthday, but then they
would never replace the birthdays when my friends secretly brought a cake
and at the end, half of the cake would have ended up on my face . *The
couple of hundred bucks that u save for a long period just to give a treat
to your friends in the road side chat shop can never give the pleasure even
after spending a few thousand bucks these days.*

The scene of me crying and refusing to have dinner on the day when I fought
with my best friend came to my mind. Today, she has gone far away from me,
taking away my love and with it my life, but I am sitting and coding here
with a false smile on my face. Everyday I meet new people, but then I long
ceased to make a new friend.



It's true that I have a lot of things now. *I have a nice bed, but no time
to sleep. Lots of money, but no friends to spend it with*. The latest
designer clothes, but a worn out body . Quite a few to flirt, but no one to
love. Awards for technical excellence, but no reward for the crave for
peaceful ambience. A confident demeanor, but a reluctant and apathetic mind.
Full of rain, but no sunshine even in the farthest distance.

Now, I could see the small girl on the road enjoying in the rain with her
umbrella firmly in her grip. She might not have all the comforts which I
have, but then she has the innocence and fun which I lost a long time back.



I have decided to come out of this false fantasy, even if it is at the
expense of losing the tap of the software engineer. I am going to again
enjoy my life. I am going to go out in the rain and play with the small kid
now. I removed my tie, and went near my computer to shut it down. Just then,
I saw a new mail alert in my mail box. I slowly opened outlook and I found a
message from my manager with an attachment saying that there was a *critical
defect* in the code and I have to fix it soon. I convinced myself that I am
not going to get bogged down again by these pressures and stick to my
decision. I ignored the mail and went to the rest room. After a couple of
minutes, the software engineer in me came out, his shirt tucked in with the
perfect tie knot, sat before the computer, and started typing,

Hi XYZ,

I am looking into the defect and will send the patch files before EOD.

Regards,
Software Engineer. """"




Being a person from the IT field,i may be missing a few things.Thats the reason i am sharing this article..Who ever the person may be or what ever his profession may be..Bt plz understand everyone and share ur affections wid them....

Keep rocking and my warmest regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Monday, January 18, 2010

TODAY IS A GIFT...VALUE OF TODAY



The value of TODAY is wonderfully mentioned in this article..Specially for my dearest readers....Click read more..!





Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room.



One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help
drain the fluid from his lungs.

His bed was next to the room’s only window.

The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.
The men talked for hours on end.
They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their
involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.

Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he
would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could
see outside the window.

The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his
world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the
world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on
the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm
in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline
could be seen in the distance.

As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man on
the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque
scene.

One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by.

Although the other man could not hear the band - he could see it in his
mind’s eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive
words.

Days, weeks and months passed.

One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to
find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in
his sleep.
.
.
.
.

She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.

As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved
next to the window.. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after
making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look
at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window
besides the bed.

It faced a blank wall.

The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who
had described such wonderful things outside this window.

The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.

She said, ‘Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.’

Moral of the story:
There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own
situations. Grief when shared halves the sorrow, but happiness when shared,
doubles the joy.If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can’t buy...



‘Today is a gift, that is why it is called The Present .’


So my dear readers,please never miss the golden chance that God gives everyday...Never miss any moment in your life..Have a smile on your face and all the troubles will automatically vanish....!

Keep smiling..Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Why does a woman needs more love-A rich tribute to Woman


A tribute to women..Generally people say that a WOMAN needs more love and care....So to know why click read more...!

When a GIRL is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind.



When a GIRL is not arguing .... she is thinking deeply.


When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions .... she is wondering how long you will be around.


When a GIRL answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds ... she is not at all fine.


When a GIRL stares at you she is wondering why you are lying.


When a GIRL lays on your chest .. she is wishing for you to be hers forever.


When a GIRL wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered.


When a GIRL says ' I love you ' .. she means it.


When a GIRL says ' I miss you' .... no one in this world can miss you more than that.


Life only comes around once make sure u spend it with the right person....
Find a guy .. who calls you beautiful instead of hot. who calls you back when you hang up on him..who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who ..... kisses your forehead... Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.... Who holds your hand in front of his friends....


Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.... Who turns to his friends and says, ' That's her!!'
Commit urself with the one who is really elligible to share ur love...Trust urself first and finally have all ur faith and trust on him...




And on the day when you have such people around you...You must feel proud because you are the luckiest person on the earth.....


Keep smiling,Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

God really exists :)


A message to show the existance of God...Click read more...!

A man went to a barbershop to have his hair cut and his beard trimmed.As the barber began to work, they began to have a good conversation.

They talked about so many things and various subjects.When they eventually touched on the subject of God, the barber said:
"I don't believe that God exists."Why do you say that?" asked the customer.
"Well, you just have to go out in the street to realize that God doesn't exist.Tell me, if God exists, would there be so many sick people?Would there be abandoned children?If God existed, there would be neither suffering nor pain.I can't imagine a loving God who would allow all of these things.
"The customer thought for a moment, but didn't respond because he didn't want
to start an argument.The barber finished his job and the customer left the shop.Just after he left the barbershop, he saw a man in the street with long,stringy, dirty hair and an untrimmed beard.He looked dirty and unkempt. The customer turned back and entered the barbershop again and he said to the barber:"You know what? Barbers do not exist."
"How can you say that?" asked the surprised barber."I am here, and I am a barber. And I just worked on you!" "No!" the customer exclaimed. "Barbers don't exist because if they did, there would be no people with dirty long hair and untrimmed beards, like that man outside.""Ah, but barbers DO exist! That's what happens when people do not come to me."..."Exactly!" affirmed the customer. "That's the point! God, too, DOES exist!



That's what happens when people do not go to Him and don't look to Him for help.That's why there's so much pain and suffering in the world."



BE BLESSED & BE A BLESSING TO OTHERS !!!!!!!


Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Sunday, January 17, 2010

Kids cute love letters...!




Small kids maatalu,cheshtalu chala baguntayi...alantide ee article...1st class children madhya sarada love letter...Click read more....!

To ,
Tintumol
UKG A.

Dear Tintumol,

I love you. My dream I see you. Everywhere you.

You no, I live no.
I come red shirt 2morrow. You love I, you come red frock. I wait down
mango tree. You no come, i jump train. Sure come...

yours lovely,
Tutumon
Std 1 B

*******************************************************************************************************************************************

Reply....by Tintumol....

Darling, your letter mama see. Papa beat me beat me so many beat me.



I cry. i cry. So no come to mango tree. No jump train. I love you.
See another day. I no red frock. Only green.

me you love , you love me you green shirt. Give I gift. I see you with
pinkumol.
Where you go.. NO talk to her. Okay My dream also only you



Lovely
Tintumol...

Is it nice..??Keep smiling,Take care..
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Man-Donkey-Woman


Saradaga net lo surf chestu unte dorikina article.Relationship that is derived between a donkey-man-woman...Chadivi navvukondi...Click read more..!

The funniest equations that relate man,woman and a donkey together.....Jus check them out and keep smiling :D

*Equation 1

Human = eat + sleep + work + enjoy
Donkey = eat + sleep

Therefore:
Human = Donkey + Work + enjoy

Therefore:
Human-enjoy = Donkey + Work

In other words,
A Human that doesn't know how to enjoy = Donkey that works.

++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Equation 2

Man = eat + sleep + earn money
Donkey = eat + sleep

Therefore:
Man = Donkey + earn money

Therefore:
Man-earn money = Donkey

In other words
Man who doesn't earn money = Donkey




+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Equation 3

Woman= eat + sleep + spend
Donkey = eat + sleep

Therefore:
Woman = Donkey + spend
Woman - spend = Donkey

In other words,
Woman who doesn't spend = Donkey



+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

To Conclude:
From Equation 2 and Equation 3

Man who doesn't earn money = Woman who doesn't spend

So Man earns money not to let woman become a donkey!


And a woman spends not to let the man become a donkey!



So, We have:
Man + Woman = Donkey + earn money + Donkey + Spend money

Therefore from postulates 1 and 2, we can conclude

Man + Woman = 2 Donkeys that live happily together!


Keep smiling...Regards,
Sriram Mallik.