Monday, August 30, 2010

My Suggestion for Pradeep for his problem posted earlier

Dear friends,thanks a lot for posting your valuable suggestions for Pradeep's problem...Finally after thinking all these days,I have come to some part of the conclusion and i am posting here..Click read more...!



Hai pradeep....Sorry baga late ga na opinion post chestunna..Took lots of time to think what to say....Chala alochincha...Firstly cheppestunna,na opinion few sectors ga divide chestunna kindly check it out...Hurting ga unte plzz forgive me...

First Category : Ladies first antaru kada,so let me start thinking from the Girl's side...!

8th class lo love anagane matladatam manesindi ani cheppav kada,naku telisi nekanna tana mind chala matured ga alochistondi ani cheppali...ila antuna ani hurt avvaku but tanu future ni foresee chesindi aa age lo ne but aa vishayam lo nuvvu fail ayav ane cheppali...8th ending daka nuvvu duram ga unnav,nuvekkada hurt avutavo ani alochinchi tane netho matladindi avuna??So as a wellwisher ne gurinchi alochinchindi aa time ki..propose chesindi mottaniki,so chance kottav, bagane undi..And generally ammayilu lo konta mandi BBC la untaru(BBC ante generally British broadcasting corporation or something like dat..But kontamandi Bharat broadcasting corporation la spread chestu untaru..idi evarini uddesinchi ee mata anatledu but 30%ammayilu matram untaru ee category lo :D ) and the rest of them expect secracy in some matters,mainly love matter ante kasta jagratta padataru...alantidi nuvu valla akka ki ala cheppeyatam emina bagunda..?Mari hurt avvada cheppu??Andulo just 10th class lo family lo ilanti vishayalu teliste emina unda??Think from her point of view..enta badha padi untundo...family indirect torture tattukovatam kashtam..But ivanni overcome chesi nee meeda ishtam toh tane oka greeting pampindi..Malla ekkada feel ayipoyi leniponi feelings toh mind paducheskuntavo ani name rayaledu..family situations telisayi kabatte inka nuvvu propose chesina oppukoledu...Okasari alochinchu tana frnds entaga aatapattistaro,nalugurilo tanu ela normal ga untundo..just think of her once..

Well ippatidaka ne mail chadivi reply chesa line to line...Now thinking abt the indepth matter,aa ammayiki nuvventa ishtam ayina tanani entagano support chestu,chadivistu penchutunna parents meeda inkentha ishtam undali..??Vallani hurt chese uddesam tanaki leka neto ala cheppindi...But ne medaishtam ayite undi..!! As of now tana father mentality telisi inka committments oddu antondi..But who knows next minute lo eam avutundo ani..So payiki cheppakapoyina she needs you a lot..She expects you to be on top of everything anduke liquor tagaddu ani bratimaladi mari manpinchindi..she likes you to be the best...so win back her trust by proving yourself...! And obvious ga she needs her family more than what she needs you as of now..So tanaki alane undani konta kalam...Let her achieve her goals first..Dont disturb her again with the name of love..be friendly with her and i feel thats what shez expecting from you right nw..!



Second Category : Peddavallaki baga respect ivvali antaru kada...So valla dad view nundi alochinchudam...!

Ea father ayina tana daughter gurinchi chala goppaga alochinchatam common...general ga chinnappatinundi allarumudduga penchina ammayiki vallaki ishtam ayina vallake ivvali anedi oka father casual thought..alantidi atani thought ki reverse ga oka abbayivalla behave chestondi ani teliste ea father ki ayina kopam undadaa?so okarakam ga aayana bhayam and thoughts correct ea anali...Atani expectations ni reach ayite kanuka i think definite ga he will change...And valla ammayini baga chuskuntavu,ani aayana mental ga confirm ayite then defnite ga atane daggarundi mee idarni kaluputaru
Aayana expect chestunna situation ki baga chadivi reach avvu and approach him with all the humbleness you have..that too in the future and then i hope he himself would unite you both :D



Third Category : Let me think from your side and answer...!

Being a supporter of Love,i wouldnt oppose your thoughts but mari 8th class lo LOVE ani fix ayipovatam,thats really foolish...Infatuate ayina mata ni nuvvu accept cheyali...Somehow you tried to keep in contact wid her and thats very gud on your part..And nee side konni mistakes unnayi kada,avi nenu already cheppesa kada personal ga...So think out of the world and try to LOVE wid all your heart,not wid all your mind....Try not to repeat the same mistakes again in your relation...Manchi friend ga aa ammayi expectations ni complete cheyi...Dont loose her trust at the same time dont break her trust...Affectionate ga undu baga...Make her feel that you have immense love in your heart towards her....Dnt just tell her in words but try to make her feel your love...Friend ga daggara avvu,dnt cross your limits,remembr that you are her friend(only)and act according to that untill you encounter a stage where she would feel that none can love her as you do..!



My conclusion :

Well brother,ippatidaka andaru different suggestions icharu...Maximum people said that nuvvu career lo settle ayite kanuka everything will follow you ani...I agree with them...As of now give your complete concentration on your studies,career and try to get into one of the best jobs that you can get...Basing on your eamcet score and IIT entrances i easily conclude that you are really well talented so put your talent in practical usage and give your best to your parents..First parents ni proud ga feel ayela cheyi..later on when you get into a job and reach a perfect position,then her father would say that THIS GUY CAN TAKE CARE OF MY DAUGHTER VERY WELL...HE HAS A GUD JOB AND HE CAN LOOK AFTER MY DAUGHTER'S WISHES...EA LOTU RAKUNDA CHUSKUNTADU ani ataney feel avutaru...So give your best and reach the best position that your gal expects...Forget abt the caste system and all....They have nothing to do in these days,evo time being bhayapedataru but when you win their confidence,they doesnt matter at all..So dont give up...Try your best and win her by reaching your target...Dont get into serious commitment at mind..Prastutam eadi jarigina TAKE IT EASY POLICY alavatu chesko(Confined only to this matter)..Wish you great luck for your future as well as your personal life...!

Well if my words might be a bit hurting,but thats strictly my opinion..So neku help cheyalani ila alochinchi rastunna...
Keep rocking..!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Please help Pradeep with his personal problem..Pass on your comments

Friends,I received this mail from one of our blog visitors seeking our help..So please read this patiently and post your valuable suggestions to him in the form of comments..Please help him with his personal problem...Click read more..!


This is the mail i got frm him...!

Hi bro..This is pradeep, presently studyin engg. 2nd yr in IIT Bombay. Comparing to other love stories my story usually normal but i faced many sweet problems in it. Actually nenu 8th class lo oka school lo join ayya akkada ma classmate oka ammayi ni chusi e ammayi ni pelli chesukunte i vl b happy anukunna. Endukante tanu antha manchidi,kind hearted inka... so i jst fell in love vth her on d first day of my class in dat school ,.. meeru cheppochchu aa age lo neeku love ki ardamaina telusa ani bt.. emo i seriously fell in love vth her.
Chala baaga matladedi ala ala mottaniki tanaki telisipoindi nenu tanani love chesthunani.. so war .. matladadam manesindi.. i felt very bad atleast frnds ga aina vundama anna (bt ala kuda nenu tanani love chesa... ela drop avvagalam bro) bt tanu antha free ga vundedi kaadu nenu matladina antha pattinchukonattu undedi.. so i decided tanaki natho matladadam e istam ledu inka manam balavanthama chesi badha pettakudadu ani nenu tanani disturb chese vadini kaadu..... 8 th class aipoindi.. madyalo summer holidays..

now we entered into 9 th class ...( i thought dat tan ippatiki alane matladadu anukunna) konni rojulu gadichayi tane vachchi natho matladindi enduku nuvvu natho matladadam ledani so everything normal malli mamulugane matladedi bt tanu ante nau inka istame bt emo tanato ela matladalo ardamayyedi kaadu.. ala malli natho baaga amtladedi ph chesukunevallam n one f9 day in early days of new year when v r talkin each othr in ph. she proposed me..

OMG I never expected tanu cheppadam n naa anandaniki haddulu levu... so everythin is goin in a good manner.. ee tym lo tanu valla akkani parichayam chesindi valla akka kuda chala frndly ga atladedi... naaku konchem noti D ekkuvale... abaddalu cheppanu.. na santoshanni andariki panchudamane type .. adey tym lo valla akka ki nenu me chelli lov chesukuntunnam ani cheppesa...
so ma gf na meeda fire enti nuvvu enduku ma akka ki enduku cheppav ani godava... bt naa daggara emi matalu levu so na answer mounam matrame.. n she said ma akka intlo bro ki amma ki cheppindi full tittaru andi inka ippati daka jarigindi chalu bye ani cheppi matladadam manesindi... idantha na 10 th class middle lo jarigindi....

antha aipoindi anukunna...

two nd half months matladale appudu new yr.. so tanu oka greetin ichchindi naaku ma frnd chetha vth out a name.. k i felt happy
malli 1 month gap bt tarvatha matladam bt i donno whether she is lovin me r not... adugudam anukunna bt ma frnds urey ippudu matladutundio santoshinchu mellaga tarvatha adugu ani aapesaru...
inter tanu vere col nenu vere col... timings diff n naaku extra class lu vundevi daily so kalavadaniki veelundedi kaadu ph kuda eppudo 1 month ki okasari chesevadini.. ala inter 2 nd yr dakka ayyindi appudu malli nenu ph. chesi propose chesa tanu ilantivi ma intlo istam vundavu n idi ganaka ma intlo sevalu lechipotayi andi... inka ededo chebutundi naku aa badha lo ph pettesa...
malli eppati laage war laane matladale kanipinchina matladale...
enterance exams aipoyayi
nenu parle konchem baane chaduvutha..
i jst want to get a seat in JNTU adi chalu anukunna manchi rank in eamcet vachndi n jee crack chesa n IIT lo chaduvuthunna ippudu..

bombay vachchi appudu ph chesa tanu matladindi bt konni incidents dwara malli matladadam aapesindi tattukoleka poya liquor ki baisa ayya ...

chala badha padevadini enduku tanu hate chesthundi...
monne summer lo 10th class frnds reunion appudu kalisam matladukunnam inka ala msgs lo mottam cheppindi
tanaki appatiki ippatiki istam i lov u bt ma dad ki caste feelin oppukoru n deeni valla manam iddaram badha padatham anduke ninnu hate chesthunattu natincha anthe kaani inkem kadu ra mandu aapu ani mottam cheppindi
nw everythin is good iddaram amtladukuntunnam n sms...
bt ippatiki inka caste feelin enti bro tanu rajulu anta nenu sc so wat ee kulam oka roju tindi kooda pettadu..
tanaki valla dad ante istam ma dad oppukokunda ninnu chesukolenu antundi
i jst said i need 3 yrs tym appudu naku job vasthadi den i vl come n i vl ask ur dad abt us antunna bt she is sayin oppukoru ra antundi.. and ippudu li8 ra avvadu atleast vunna konchem tym lo aina navuthu matladukundam and future gurinchi matladi badhapadadam enduku antundi..
ento naakem ardam avvatam le..... nenu 1 yr oka course chesi IIT ki vella thanu nw 3rd year nenu 2nd year (age okate iddaridi) thanu 2012 may ki thana engg. aipothadi n nadi 5yrs (dual degg.)(btech cum mtech 5yrs course) naadhi 2014 lo avuthadi. So thanu antundi eelogane na marriage aipothademo ani :(
wat i hav 2 do bro???
(ela cheppalo ardam kale anduke na love stry/badha mottam cheppa length ekkuvaiunte sry)
waitin 4 ur ans......


Please friends,tanaki ela ayina sare help chesi Friendship value ni chupinchandi...And meevanthu sayam tanaki chesinavallu avandi...Please pass on your suggestions and opinion in the form of Comments..Plzz reply..Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Monday, August 23, 2010

Happy Rakshah Bandhan...Stories behing this Celebration

Raksha Bandhan - the Indian festival of tying the knot of amity, brotherhood and long life, is a symbol of seeking divine bliss. Not for the 'self'. But for man on whose wrist the thread is tied. 'Raksha' is the word for protection. 'Bandhan' is the bond. So it signifies the bond of protection. The protection is from the dark hands of the evils and against all perils. The protection that connotates - not just physical, but the spiritual one as well.Click read more for stories on Rakhi..!
P.S: Special thanks for my loveliest sister Pujitha for sharing these articles..!

Rakhi: The Thread of Love
In India, festivals are the celebration of togetherness, of being one of the family. Raksha Bandhan is one such festival that is all about affection, fraternity and sublime sentiments. It is also known as Raksha Bandhan which means a 'bond of protection'. This is an occasion to flourish love, care, affection and sacred feeling of brotherhood.
Not a single festival in India is complete without the typical Indian festivities, the gatherings, celebrations, exchange of sweets and gifts, lots of noise, singing and dancing. Raksha Bandhan is a regional celebration to celebrate the sacred relation between brothers and sisters. Primarily, this festival belongs to north and western region of India but soon the world has started celebrating this festival with the same verse and spirit. Rakhi has become an integral part of those customs.
An insight of Rakhi Rituals
On the day of Rakhi, sisters prepares the pooja thali with diya, roli, chawal, rakhi thread and sweets. The ritual begins with a prayer in front of God, then the sister ties Rakhi to her brother and wishes for his happiness and well-being. In turn, the brother acknowledge the love with a promise to stand by his sister through all the good and bad times.
Sisters tie Rakhi on the wrist of their brothers amid chanting of mantras, put roli and rice on his forehead and pray for his well-being. She bestows him with gifts and blessings. In turn, brothers also wish her a good life and pledges to take care of her. He gives her a return gift. The gift symbolizes the physical acceptance of her love, reminder of their togetherness and his pledge. The legends and the reference in history repeated, the significance of the festival is emphasized.
Unconditional Bond of Love
Raksha bandhan has been celebrated in the same way with the same traditions for many years. Only the means have changed with the changing lifestyle to make the celebration more elaborate and lively. This day has an inherent power that pulls the siblings together. The increasing distances evoke the desire to be together even more. All brothers and sisters try to reach out to each other on this auspicious day. The joyous meeting, the rare family get-together, that erstwhile feeling of brotherhood and sisterhood calls for a massive celebration.
For everyone, it is an opportunity to reunion and celebrate. People also share tasty dishes, wonderful sweets and exchange gifts. It is a time to share their past experiences also. For those who are not able to meet each other, rakhi cards and e-rakhis and rakhis through mails perform the part of communicating the rakhi messages. Hand made rakhis and self-made rakhi cards are just representation of the personal feelings of the siblings.



Every year brothers and sisters all over India celebrate Raksha Bandhan. The occasion is meant to sanctify and reaffirm the relationship
that they share. The sisters will tie a colored thread, known as a rakhi, on the right hand of the brother to let him know that she appreciates and values the care and love that he provides her with. The ceremony includes the sister tying a rakhi on her brother’s hand and saying a short prayer on his behalf. Once the prayers are done the brother usually gives the sister a gift at the end of the ceremony.
The whole sentiment of the meaning of Raksha Bandhan can be seen as being very prevalent throughout Indian history. The whole tradition of tying the rakhi as a symbol is believed to have been started by the Hindu god Indra who had a similar string tied on his wrist by his wife when he lost his fight with Vritra. It is said that she tied the thread on his wrist to bestow upon him, the power he needed to defeat Vritra.
Apart from this there are other mentions of the role played by the sentiment of rakhi in Indian history. There is the record of lord Krishna and Draupadi during the Mahabharata, when Draupadi used a strip of cloth from her sari to stem the flow of blood from Krishna finger. This gesture had such a profound influence on Lord Krishna that he dedicated the next 25 years to Draupadi.

There are also accounts of Alexander the Great, the king of Greece, having married an Indian woman to improve relations with the kingdoms in Asia. He was later involved in war with the king Porus who was about to deal the final blow and end Alexander when he saw the rakhi Alexander’s wife had sent him while requesting him not to harm her husband. In keeping with a sacred Indian tradition, Porus stayed his blow and reframed from, personally, becoming Alexander’s executioner.
Earlier the ‘standard operating procedure’ was that the sister would tie the rakhi and then the brother would give her gift. The tradition has changed a bit now; these days, both the brother and the sister give gifts to each other. If you are wondering what to gift you brother or sister on this occasion then the best thing to do would be to look back at the experiences you have had with your brother or sister and you are bound to find all the clues that you are look for. if you still are not able to find what you want then you can also visit rakhi gift sites that provide lots of advice and samples.


Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

History behind RakshaBandhan

Today is RakshaBandhan...My special wishes to everyone here...Click read more for History of Raksha Bandhan...Click read more...!

P.S: Special thanks to my dearest sister Pujitha for sharing this article...Love u so much chelli :)




The origin and the legends:

The festival nurtures a rich heritage of legendary traditions, some rooted back to the ages of the great epics. In the Hindu tradition the Rakshaa has indeed assumed all aspects of protection of the forces of righteousness from the forces of evil.

According to the Mahabharata, Yudhishthira, the eldest of the Pancha Pandyava (the five brothers belonging to the family of king Pandu), asked Sri Krishna, an incarnation of lord Vishnu, how best he could guard himself against impending evils and catastrophes in the coming year. Krishna advised him to observe the Rakshaa Ceremony. He also narrated an old incident to show how potent the Rakshaa is. It went like this.

Once, Indra, the king of heaven was confronted by the demon king - the Daitya-raaja - in a long-drawn battle. At one stage, the Daitya-raaja got better of Indra and drove him into wilderness. Indra, humbled and crest-fallen, sought the advice of Brihaspati, the Guru of Gods. The Guru told him to bide his time, prepare himself and then take on the mighty demon. He also indicated that the auspicious moment for sallying forth was the Shraavana Poornima. On that day, Shachee Devi, the wife of Indra, accompanied by Brihaspati tied Raakhi around Indra's right-wrist. Indra then advanced against the Daitya-raaja, vanquished him and reestablished his sovereignty.

This is how Raksha Bandhan came into being in the ages of old Hindu mythology and has transcended into the modern ages acquiring more of new and modified customs with itself.

The bond beyond:

Though in principle raksha bandhan is an observance between biological siblings of the opposite sex, the legends and history of India are rife in stories where a woman has tied the knot of Raakhi to a stranger man.

A story is told of Alexander's wife approaching his mighty Hindu adversary Porus and tying Raakhi on his hand, seeking assurance from him for saving the life of her husband on the battlefield. And the great Hindu king, in the true traditional Kshatriya (those who belonged to the brave warrior class) style, responded; and as the legend goes, when Porus raised his hand to deliver a mortal blow to Alexander, he saw the Raakhi on his own hand and restrained from striking.

More poignant instance is the story of the princess of a small Rajput (those who belong to the state of Rajasthan) clan. It glorified the spell that the Raakhi had cast even on people of alien faiths. The princess sent a Raakhi to the Moghul Emperor Humayun to save her honor from the onslaught of the Gujarat Sultan who seized her kingdom. The emperor, then engaged in an expedition against Bengal, turned back and hastened to the rescue of his Raakhi-sister. But, alas, to his utmost sorrow, he found that the kingdom had already been perished by the invador and the princess had committed 'Jauhaar', i.e., leaped into the burning flames to save her honor.

The Nobel laureate poet Rabindranath Tagore used the occasion of the Raksha Bandhan as a community festival to spread the nationalist spirit among people from different ethnic backgrounds. Thus siblings or not, the spirit of the thread of brotherhood and chaste love extends far beyond the biological association. Today it's common to see females tying a rakhi around the wrist of boys and men without sisters. Even a number of women may tie the rakhi around the Prime Minister's wrist (unless the Prime Minister be a woman), and similarly soldiers can expect to have women tie rakhis around their wrists. Thus Raakhi has become a social recognition of a man acquiring a sister or the other way round. Sister or brother in every respect, except in biological fact. And this is what the spirit of Raksha Bandhan today has turned out to be. A symbol of universal brotherhood and goodwill. So if you are a sensible girl with an inclination of seeking male friends yet not intending to tie the nuptial knot, this knot of brotherhood is an excellent idea to be indulged in.

This is how the society can live and prosper amidst all kinds of challenges either from within or without. Especially, various types of internal stresses and strains which are generated in the body-politic of a nation because of ever-changing economic, political and other factors can be overcome only on the strength of this inner flow of mutual affection and amity.

So come and exploit the auspicious occasion to recharge your sense and sensibility towards the society at large with the true spirit of service and sacrifice. For it is where lies spiritual fulfillment of human life.

Funny pic regarding this festival :D

Just see the picture

Can u guess which festival is this????????

You might have said: Krishna Janmastmi?

Wrong!!!
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"RAKSHA BHANDHAN ;) "

Thursday, August 19, 2010

How to Understand LOVE....???

Many people,who have met me till now regarding the counseling basis.,kept asking me one question that i could never get the right answer....How to understand LOVE..?Thought for these days,collected some raw info from various magazines,surfed some on the net and here i am finally with the answer...Click read more..!




Understanding Love

Is love easy to understand? What makes it special or what makes it disturbing? What connects? What fails?

This article discusses essential characteristics of love. You will connect to these and connect to your soul mates.

Love is discovery: Love is the process of finding oneself in other eyes. It is about realizing your self-esteem in folks who have care for you.

Love is giving: Love is giving and expecting no return favor. Control is not the hallmark of love. Love needs no calculation to get love back.

Love is becoming: True love exists when you do not have to blame or explain, you just feel and connect.

Love is doing: You can either love what you do or do what you love. Any other combination will fail.

Love is demonstrating: A solicited love will fail. A demonstrated love will win. Those who are able to demonstrate their love without intruding in the space of
others get love back. Love is cooperation: The only way to win love and respect is to kill greed and cooperate for common goals.

Love is sacrifice: Love demands only one sacrifice and that is to love what you love more than anybody or anything else.

Love is blessing: Fear kills fear. Might kills right. Love wins all.

Love is correction: Punishment ensures you follow a set process. Love ensures you connect to the process. The results of punishment are immediate but divisive.
The results of love, though delayed, are sure and uniting.

Love is self-respect: To love your love, you need to love yourself. Without self-confidence, there is no love.

Love is direction: Lost in love, lost in life. Love connects to others; any other feeling stays mechanical.

Love is work: Love your work because nobody else should.

Love is creation: Love creates. It will make you what you want to be.

Keep loving!! It creates, refines and defines life.Keep rocking..!!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Monday, August 16, 2010

8 Keys to follow in order to have a Successful Relationship

Hey readers,sorry for not posting any article since a week....I was posting articles that were off the track since a week and now am on the track again :D
Am posting eight keys to have a successful relationship...Click read more...!




There are extreme pressures on relationships today. Fast paced lifestyles can leave little room for developing and maintaining intimate relationships. Yet, a healthy relationship is one of the things that make life worthwhile and helps us live a longer and healthier life. A successful relationship can help us face the tough times and enjoy the great times in our life.

The following are 8 Keys to Successful Relationships:

Passion
Anything that you are passionate about gets more of you—more energy, more enthusiasm and more time. If you don’t feel passionate about your relationship, begin by behaving as if you were passionate about your relationship. Don’t look at this as being dishonest or pretending. Think instead, I want to be passionate about my relationship so I will give it a try. Remember, loving feelings follow loving thoughts and actions.

Nurture
If you want your relationship to succeed you need to put some effort into it. You would not expect a garden to grow without some planting and tending. So put some effort into tending your relationship. Invest time; make it a priority. Have fun with it. Find ways to nurture your relationship that you can enjoy doing for a lifetime.

Get Good
Develop relationship skills, learn to communicate clearly, learn to listen—really listen to understand your partner, accept responsibility for yourself and learn to honor and enjoy your differences. Learn from your mistakes—grow up rather than simply growing older.

Focus
Focus on what is great, not what is wrong. You are going to get more of what you focus on, so focus on something that you want more of. Focus on the positive, the good, focus on solutions rather than problems.

Expectations
Expect great things from yourself; be willing to stretch and grow. Expect that you will have a great relationship. Expect that you will know what to do to improve your relationship. Push yourself to do what it takes to make your relationship great. Learn and grow as a couple and as individuals.

Serve One Another
The “What am I getting out of this?” attitude is a relationship killer. Try instead asking, “What am I giving to this relationship?” “In what ways is my partner life better because I am in it?” “What can I do to make our relationship better?” Find ways to reach out to, be generous and show love to your partner, without scorekeeping.

Get Involved
Be an active participant in your relationship. Listen, observe, be curious, ask questions, problem solve, make connections. Listen to your partner, get curious about who they are and what is important to them.

Persist
Commit to your relationship and to each other. More importantly, commit to making your relationship worth committing to. If you persist at striving to make your relationship a great place to be, then you can enjoy, rather than endure a lasting relationship.

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Some numeric info about India - Rare collection :D

Wish every Indian whoz reading this article,whoz visiting my blog,and to every Indian present here,A Very Happy Independence Day...!
Enno vela mandi praana tyagam chesi entagano kashtapadi sampadinchina ee independence,maruvalenidi,maruvaranidi...!

Ee sandharbham lo konni facts about India...!
* Worlds seventh largest country.
* Fourth largest Army.
* Third largest Railways.
* Second highest populated country.
* Second fastest growing economy.
* Second largest Tea&Rice producing country.
* 5,68,000 VILLAGES.
* 619 Districts.
* 31 States.
* 1618 languages.
* 6400 castes.
* 6 Ethnic groups.
* 30 Festivals.
                                                         And Yet.......................
ONE COUNTRY,ONE NATION that keeps everyone united..Believes in UNITY IN DIVERSITY...!PROUD TO BE AN INDIAN...MERA BHARATH MAHAAN...!
HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY

Keep rocking,Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Monday, August 9, 2010

HOW TO MAINTAIN LOVE AND HAPPINESS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

How to maintain love and happiness in your relationship..?Needs loads of interest and attention in reading this post...Click read more...!


 













I want to be happy. Do you want to be happy? I don’t know about you, but whether you are single, in a relationship, or married, wouldn’t you like to be happy? I know it is cliché to say, but one way to be happy is to be happy with YOU first! Yes, psychiatrists and psychologists know exactly what they are talking about when it comes to this and those extra dollars you are paying, is not for nothing…lol.

When you love yourself first, you are then able to love someone else. When you love yourself first, you will not put up with unnecessary issues or drama that others may bring to your life. When you love yourself first, any hate aimed towards you; any negativity will not stick. You know the old adage “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will bounce back off of me.” Okay, that is not exactly what it says, but you get my drift. We should love ourselves with everything we have and all that we are; body and soul.

Now, the question is what is next? Happiness & Relationships or Relationships & Happiness can go either way or hand in hand; depending on your situation and circumstances. If you are single, you can be happy. You can be happy with your achievements and with everything you have going on in your life. I have seen this happen on so many occasions. You may not be romantically involved with someone, but to obtain happiness without being in a relationship is doable. Again, it goes back to you loving yourself first. If you are single, take this time to pursue your life’s goals; things you would like to achieve or accomplish. If you want your own business, go for it! If you want to own your home, go for it! If you would like to finish school, go for it! Happiness can be obtained and having a partner does not make or break you as a person especially if you are already happy with yourself. In pursuing your dreams and goals, that love interest will eventually sneak up on you. But, do not make that a priority in your life.

You see, when it comes to relationships, too many people put their focus on finding someone; saying “If only I had that wonderful person in my life I would be happy.” That could be true however, let’s say you find that wonderful partner, then, you would be looking for something else to make you happy; saying “If only I had that perfect house, car, or made more money.” The key to this thing we call life is that you have to first love YOU…then, you need to learn to be happy with the things you have been blessed with.

Lastly, relationships are what you make them. Some can turn into long term relationships, or some can be short term; meaning that person was put in your life for you to learn whatever lesson you needed to learn at that moment. The term relationships defined in this article is being romantically involved. Once you love yourself you will eventually attain a relationship and eventually want to be happy in that relationship. Relationships require work. I don’t care what anyone tells you, if you want your relationship to progress and blossom into a beautiful union; you have to put in work. I have three rules for maintaining happiness in relationships. They are:

Kill them with kindness - When it comes to arguments or disagreements, kill them with kindness. You don’t always have to have the last word. Be quiet just for a moment and let the other person take a minute or 15 to calm down and you can eventually talk things out like two adults.

It’s the little things – Men and women alike want to feel loved and appreciated in a relationship. Not in a smothering way of course. In this day and age, people are not giving props where props are due within their relationship. Their partner can go out of his/her way to do something really nice for them only to not receive a simple ‘thank you’ for their efforts. We have got to start showing more love in our relationships. There is this stigma about being corny or if you do something nice for your significant other you are love whipped. Again, men and women alike want to feel loved and appreciated and yes I repeated that statement so that you can let it sink in. Show your appreciation whenever possible and always say thank you.

Always do good works for other people – It does not matter if you are having a bad day or you just don’t feel like being nice today. Let’s repeat together... Do good works for other people even if there is nothing in it for you. That’s right! Do you sometimes wonder about that person that seems as if they get everything they want and they are always blessed or why they are always so darn happy? When you do good deeds for other people, regardless of what it is, #1 it does something to you as a person. It makes you feel good inside for being able to bless someone else. #2 that blessing of you buying the neighbor groceries when you know they were just laid off, as an example; it comes back. It may not come back at that time or moment, but when it does, you will remember your being a blessing in the past. Karma is real people.

In conclusion, love, happiness and relationships are connected in many ways and they are all collectively attainable. You just have to learn how to tie them altogether to help make the goal that you are trying to achieve become existent and it all starts with you loving YOU first. Without love (of yourself) you cannot possibly be happy within a relationship loving someone else...!
Keep rocking..!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Sunday, August 8, 2010

DEEPEST CONDOLENCES..MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE

A shocking news to all...Our blog regular visitor,our well wisher,my brotherly friend H.K.Raju's mother has passed away last night..Its a shocking news for everyone of us..Its time that we all stand united expressing our deepest condolences to him and his family for the greatest loss....Let us extend our support to him and lets give an assurance that we are there for him...Annaya,am extremely sorry for the loss...Prayers and condolences to ur family...May her divine soul rest in peace...By this time she might be blessing u from Heaven..May the angels take care of her...


Oka talli leni lotu eadi teerchaledu anedi chala nijam...No one can restore the place of a mother...You did a great job all these days,taking care of her every minute..Now its time to transfer the chance to care her to God and i hope God takes care of her every second...Conveying my deepest condolences...!


Regards,
Sriram Mallik.





Thursday, August 5, 2010

How to Find Love by Changing Your Thinking..A Must read article ;)

How to Find Love by Changing Your Thinking...??To know that click read more...!



One of the most universal desires we have as human beings is to find love.

Most of us want to find romantic love. To find a soul mate, someone with whom we can share our innermost thoughts and feelings. Someone to share the joys and sorrows of our daily lives and to walk beside us in this great adventure called life.

Often though, in our quest to find love we encounter many obstacles. They say the path to true love never runs smoothly, and this could also be said of the path to happiness, fulfillment, and emotional freedom. As with any big goal worth reaching, the goal of finding someone to share your life with takes effort.

Much of the effort required is internal. Fine-tuning your thoughts and expectations is far more important than scouring the personal ads endlessly.

Here are some of the main obstacles that can make it hard for us to find love;

• Having unrealistic expectations. Hard as it can be to accept, life is not a movie or a fairytale. It is better. Living ‘happily ever after’ would mean missing out on all the triumphs, tragedies, joys, and sorrows that make life real and interesting. ‘Happily ever after’ is boring, and ‘Prince or Princess Charming’ does not exist. We are all human beings with flaws as well as good qualities. Waiting for the perfect partner just means missing out on the joy of getting to know a lot of potentially good partners.

• Not having clear and reasonable expectations. If you don’t know what qualities you want in a partner, you won’t know when you find someone who has them.

• Forming a relationship with somebody just because they want you to. Don’t fall into the trap of being with someone because they desperately want you to be with them. If it is not what you want too, then it is the wrong choice.

• The flip side of the above point is forming a relationship with someone that seems reluctant to be with you. If your partner is only with you because you have talked them into it, you will never feel secure. Break free and give yourself a chance of finding someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.

• Not believing you are worthy of a good relationship. If you feel that you don’t deserve to be loved, respected, and treated well, you have very little chance of creating a relationship that will provide these things.

• Choosing relationships based on what you think you ‘should’ want or what other people expect. Just because you can check all the boxes in a magazine survey about the ‘right’ partner doesn’t make them right for you. Equally, just because a potential partner looks great in the eyes of your friends and family doesn’t mean that you will be happy in a relationship with them.

• Excluding potential partners based on other people’s ideas of what is right or wrong. Have you ever dismissed the possibility of a relationship based on height, age, or skin color? You could be missing some wonderful potential mates by doing this.

• Settling. Deciding to be with someone because you are afraid of being alone, or because you believe this relationship is ‘as good as it gets’ is seriously short-changing yourself. Be clear about what you want, know that you can have it, keep your mind and options open, be realistic, and don’t settle!
You can find love, and have a wonderful, fulfilling relationship. Happily ever after is just a fairytale, but true love and lasting happiness is not. Believe me, I know...!

So try changing the way of your thinking and keep your relation intact...Keep rocking..!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Sunday, August 1, 2010

History and Origin of Friendship Day

Wish you all a very Happy Friendship day....Here is an article explaining the origin and history of friendship day...Click read more...!



The tradition of celebrating Friendship Day began in 1935 when the US Congress decided to dedicate a day in the honor of friends. Though it is not known exactly what were the reasons that went into the making of this day, the retrospection of the world scenario of those times can lead us to an understanding. With the devastating effects of the First World War still showing and increasing hostilities, mistrust and hatred between countries providing the perfect conditions for another imminent battle, there was a greater need for friendship and camaraderie not only among nations but also among individuals.

Hence, the US Congress decided to designate the first Sunday of the month of August as Friendship Day and with a formal proclamation in 1935, officially declared the occasion a holiday dedicated in the honour of friends and friendship. Since then, celebration of National Friendship Day became an annual event. The lofty idea of honoring the beautiful relationship of friendship caught on with the people, particularly the youngsters all over the country, and in no time Friendship Day became a highly popular festival.

But the success of this wonderful occasion was not to be limited to the US alone. With time, several other countries followed suit in adopting the tradition of dedicating a day to the cause of friendship. The beautiful idea of having a day in the honor of friends was joyously taken over by several other countries across the world. With more and more nations joining in the celebrations, Friendship Day soon became International Friendship Day.

Today, Friendship Day is enthusiastically celebrated every year by many countries. The occasion is observed on the first Sunday of every August. The traditional celebrations include meeting with friends and exchanging of cards, flowers and gifts. Many social and cultural organizations also celebrate Friendship Day by hosting programs and get togethers. Special performances by rock bands are also organized in countries like the US to enhance the jubilations.

In 1997, the United Nations named Winnie - the Pooh, the famous cartoon character as the world's Ambassador of Friendship.

It is interesting to note how some associations observe Friendship Day with different customs, by giving the festival different names and holding it in times unlike that of the actual festival.
For example, National Friendship Day is held on the first Sunday in August; Women's Friendship Day is on the third Sunday in August; the third week of May is the Old Friends, New Friends Week and the whole of February is designated as the International Friendship Month.

These days, Friendship Day is celebrated with a lot of fanfare and great expenses. Just as in US and several other countries, the festival has been greatly commercialized.

Days before the festival, card and gift companies launch an extensive campaign to lure people into buying cards and gift items for their friends. Companies indulge in aggressive marketing to target youngsters, the main celebrators of festivals as these, and entice them into purchasing expensive articles for their pals. Restaurateurs too offer special discounts to make the most of the time. This marketing strategy has been severely criticized by many people and is a subject of debate every year. Many feel that such rampant commercialization has marred the very concept of Friendship Day and has turned it into a mere formality. Many on the other hand think that greater hype and hoopla around the occasion has helped to generate awareness about Friendship Day festival which was till recently a low-key affair (compared to occasions as "Mother's Day" and "Father's Day") and thus promote friendship and brotherhood.

The popular customs of Friendship Day includes handing over roses, especially the pink and yellow ones. The day is observed with great exhilaration and merriment, with friends throwing parties, gorging on lip-smacking dishes and drinking hard (be it at home or at restaurants that offer special discounts for this occasion).

A highly popular thing associated with the day is the well-known Friendship Band - the modern day token of friendship that friends gift to one another to form an everlasting bond. Friendship bands are favorite items for youngsters and are available in stores all over the country. Girls go in for friendship bracelets instead of the conventional friendship wristbands. Friendship Poems and Friendship Day Gifts are exchanged between best friends to renew the bond of friendship and express gratitude and love for each other. These are new ways of celebration of this day that the GenX has invented.

Since its inception in 1935, Friendship Day and Friendship Day celebrations have come a long way. But however much the ways of celebration have changed, the basic idea behind the occasion remains the same. Friendship Day remains the time when you acknowledge your friends' contribution in your life, express love for them, cherish their presence in your life and pay them a tribute.

Today, Friendship Day is being celebrated around the globe, across diverse cultures and social segments.

Hope you liked it...Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.