Blog success till today

Just wanted to thank each one of you for all the encouragement you gave regarding the blog..Just wanted to start it as a personal blog for fun but never expected this much encouragement...
By today,our blog has completed two long years since the day i started designing it...

Since May 2010,the statistics of the blog till today are listed below..

No.of followers-92
No.of hits and visitors-237548
People from 180 countries have visited it so far...unique visitors since Jan-2011 are 58,445...Though am not updating it regularly these days,am getting a very gud response till today..Thnx so much friends,for all your encouragement..

Hope this continues in the future too..

Regards,
Sriram Mallik,
With loads of love :)

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Am back.. Thnx for your love

Dear friends,
Am so sorry for not updating the blog from the past two months...Thrzz a lot of variation in my office timings that kept me away from blog.. Anyways am back again... Will start updating with regular posts and articles... I hope everyonezz alright and thnxx for being with me till today...
Hope your encouragement continues to be the same.. With lots of love and best wishes to everyone,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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A heart touching story for the married people

I dedicate this article to one of our regular blog reader whoz fed up with her husband and wanted to get divorced..Special Thnxx for one of my friends who have shared this story with me.. Its simple but truely has lots of meaning in it.. specially fr the married people..I dedicate this message to the married couples who feel that their husband/wife is ignoring them or has been loosing faith in them..for all such people,here is a nice story..Click read more..!!

P.S. : Its easy to become single but hard to be single for the second time.


My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders. Three years of courtship and now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restles...sness. I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband, is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love. One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.

“Why?” he asked, shocked. “I am tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!” I answered. He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times.

My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can’t even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? And finally he asked me:” What can I do to change your mind?” Somebody said it right, it’s hard to change a person’s personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him.

Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : “Here is the question, if you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?” He said :” I will give you your answer tomorrow….” My hopes just sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes….

My dear, “I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further..” This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading. “When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs.

You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you. You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way.

You always have the cramps whenever your “good friend” approaches every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy. You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom.

You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails,and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand… and tell you the colour of flowers, just like the color of the glow on your young face…

Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do… I could not pick that flower yet, and die.. ” My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting… and as I continue on reading…

“Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk…

I rush to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread…. Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the flower alone…

That’s life, and love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.

Love shows up in all forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the most dull and boring form.. . flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands… and that’s our life… Love, not words win arguments…
Life without love never existed till date..It might be a lack of mutual understanding that keeps a distance in bwn people but remember it doesnt mean tat u shud get divorced or forced to hate people..TRUST LOVE UNDERSTANDING is all needed...
Hope u liked the article very much..Comment with ur opinions...!!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Unconditional love..

A wonderful message that i have received in the recent days regarding what is unconditional love...Click read more and see it for yourself..!!

Unconditional love...:)
Bf: how are you swetheart ♥
Gf: not good :(
Bf:why? Wht hapnd?
Gf:i have cold . .
Bf:wht? How?
Gf:i had ice cream. .
Bf:are you mad? I told you nt to eat ice cream in thisrainy season. . . .are you crazy ? ?
Look into my eyes wht the hell you think you are? Dnt you have brain? You arent a kid . . . .cnt you take care your self ? Stupid. . . Idiot . . . .
Gf: smiled. . . . Hugged him and said "I LOVE YOU"
Bf:whats hapening here? Will you plz tell me . .
Gf: .i just lov whenever u scold me that's why i ate ice cream so dat you will scold me. . .♥
Bf: stupid . . .idiot. . . .huh. . ." I LOVE U TOO " ♥ ♥ ♥—
LOVE is not only a simple 4 letter word to talk... LOVE is a belief on someone wit whom we consider as WE than U n I OUR'S than UR'S n MINE... LOVE is only ONE FEEL 4rm TWO HERTS... LOVE is pure like a BABY SMILE,fair like a FULL MOON n more like SKY....... so if u r luvng a person,luv d person truely,completely without expecting anythng...that is UNCONDITIONAL LOVE..:)

Hope you have liked it...

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Please answer this question of one of our blog readers...

One of our regular blog readers,a very good friend of mine has asked me something that i felt like sharing with you people..Its in telugu and its been sent by her as a mail to me..Am posting it here..Please go through it and post your valuable comments...!!



Eappudu navvuthu, life lo every moment happy ga undali anukuntu.. life lo annitini balance cheyali anukune okadiki.. kopam ochinapudu matram ela react avalo matram teliyadam ledu.
we can tell about the person by seeing his behavior., but can judge his reality by seeing his way of responding when d right situation occurs.


kopam ochinapudu-- xpress chesesi., manasulo una matalu kopam antha chepesi relax ayithe btr ahh., leka ponle ani xcuse cheyatam btr ahh......
motham chepesthe vaalu hurt avtharu., nd as a human nature vaalu chesindi tappu kaadu it happend ani argue chestaru., manam xplain cheyataniki try chesina ah discussion kasta visugochi prolong chesi relation padu cheskovadam istam leka stop chesestaru. ala chesina kuda., hayoo enduku ila chesadu vaadu ani iddaru both sides disturb avtaru. may be mundu la free ga undalekapovachu bcuz of d litle disturbance in heart...
ponle ani forgive chesthe vaala tappu valaku ela telusthundi malli same repeat chesthe malli hurt avali... mana tappu lekapoyina manam forgive chesthe may be adi the other person ki tappu athadide kabbati akaditho odilesadu ani anukovachu kada or els vaalla way ne crct anukoni repeat chesthe em cheyali....
Atlast nenu adigedi entante., manaku kopam ochinapudu/ okarivalla hurt aynapudu ela react avali( which is the best way to solve the issue without hurting our self-respect and spoiling our relation) meeku telisunte., or meeru ah situation lo unte ela react avutaro ikada comments lo share chesthe adi inkokariki use avthundi ani asisthu one of the blog follower...

So frnds... Hope u will answer this question with ur opinions as comments...
Regeards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Identify if ur gal/guy is loosing interest in U

Relationships can be made easily and broken easily too...But the broken relations cant be mended easily..What say people..?Click read more to know the signs if your partner is loosing interest in you...!



Relationship is a two way street and it takes the efforts of both the partners to keep it alive. It takes more efforts to maintain a relationship than getting into it. There is always a probability that any relationship can change and one or both of the partners loose love or interest in the other person to stay in the relationship. It is said that if you can fall in love you can fall out of love too.If or not your Boyfriend or Girlfriend has lost interest in you is something which you would be able to know based on his or her behavior or body language. Sometimes even the best of relationships can die down and everything you put up together will go down the drain. However, as long as it is not too late efforts can be put to re-build/re-construct the relationship and bring back the feelings of love into the relationship. But it is very important to know if your man/woman is loosing interest in you so that you can prepare yourself from the inevitable. How to know if your Boyfriend or Girlfriend has lost interest in you? There can be many signs that your relationship is in trouble, your boyfriend or girlfriend may have lost interest in you and may want to dump you.

Does he or she make excuses just not to see you or spend time with you regularly? You don’t go out anymore or do things like hugging or holding hands anymore?

Does your partner ignore you not only in public but in private as well? Does he or she have excuses when you try to be intimate?

Have his/her friends started being un-involved with you or are avoiding you?

Is your inner conscience feeling/telling you that something just isn’t right with your partner?

Is he/she making lame excuses that you are boring or he/she finds it boring having a conversation or chat with you?

Is your partner suddenly become more critical of you and the things you do?

Is your partner irritated by things he/she used to love about you earlier?

She or he no longer is bothered by the fact that you two aren’t getting together as much anymore. There is a major change in your boyfriend or girlfriends behavior and you even avoid communicating.

Your partner no longer notices you the way he/she used to do earlier?

Did you find any signs of admiring other girls other than you in your partner?
Then take steps in improving your relationships....Dont loose the relation at any cost..never give up even when u feel its over and can never happen anymore.!
REGARDS,
Sriram Mallik.

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Feelings in INFATUTION

There are some feelings we have when infatuated that we don’t have when we’re feeling love. Some of the “symptoms” of infatuation are; feelings of panic, uncertainty, overpowering lust, feverish excitement, impatience, and/or jealously.
To know more...Click READ MORE...!!



There are some feelings we have when infatuated that we don’t have when we’re feeling love. Some of the “symptoms” of infatuation are; feelings of panic, uncertainty, overpowering lust, feverish excitement, impatience, and/or jealously.

When infatuated, we are thrilled, but not happy, wanting to trust, yet suspicious. There are lingering, nagging doubts about our “partner in infatuation ” and their love for us. We’re miserable when they’re away, almost like we’re not complete unless we’re with them. It’s a rush and it’s intense. It’s difficult to concentrate. And most infatuation relationships have a high degree of sexual charge around them. Somehow being with them is not complete unless in ends in some type of sexual encounter.

Do any of these “symptoms” resemble feelings of love? Hardly. So why do we become infatuated? Where does it come from? Perhaps it’s biological.So keep an eye on all ur emotions and feelings and it is preferrable to have a self test before you come to a conclusion..!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Tears,they are not jus droplets of water..They are really valuable

Hi friends, how are you all...??

This article is just to give my opinion on how valuable tears are...!!

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Tears are really valuable.. They are to be used only at times when necessary.. But we seldom find people using them unnecessarily for various silly reasons...

"Avasaram leni chota avi use chesesthu unte,avasaram padinappudu avi raavu". idi maha kavi Sri-Sri cheppina maatalu...!!

Actually i thought that writing this article may be of no use but i had to write it because I've seen one of my colleagues who had a small quarrel with her lover and in that mood she started crying like a kid... I felt something might be really wrong with them or they might have got into a serious issue...but after inquiring,i came to knw that it was for a silly reason,shezz crying like a kiddo... Whyyyyyyyyyyyy..?? I tried to ask to myself...Is that really necessary to cry...?? I agree to the fact that we only shed tears for those to whom we give our true love...Or for whom we like very much... As for a relationship is being considered here,i'm writing this..But still i hope that there is no need for tears to be shred out in this instance...Not only this,there are several more instances which happen like this.. I dont want to point out anyone who is doing so but still i want you to think once before you cry...Cozz tears are truely valuable.... Please dont waste them for unnecessary things...!!
Sorry if i wrote anything wrong..But still i feel that there is no use for shedding tears for silly things..

U know how tears come out of your eyes..??Wikipedia gives an explanation regarding this..Click this link and know it for yourself...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tears



Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Please answer my doubt..Regarding SACRIFICE..!!

From many days i have a question/doubt in my mind.. The same doubt has been expressed by my trainer in office. So just wanted to know from you all if my doubt is true..!!



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Sacrificing our friends and relations in the name of LOVE is good for the instance or for some time in the future but not in the long run.. What can you say about that..? Please answer this question in the form of comments.. I am gonna disclose my feelings in the later time in the space of comments.

Waiting for your replies...
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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101% Love.. A story which is really worth reading..Unexpected Love

Hi friends, today am gonna post you a story that i was sent my one of my friendz Ammaji.. Its quite a long story but still a bit heart touching.. I hope you should surely like it cause i felt tat i had a heavy heart at the end..
Please read it with patience,till the end..!!!






Unexpected love
That is the Final year of the college. There is a gang with some guys and girls. In that gang only a guy and a girl are not committed. Their college life comes to an end.
The gang finished their final exams and they’re enjoying the holidays with their pairs………..
Hang outs will occur frequently in that gang. One day they went to a park.
After sometime all pairs went separately. The guy and a girl who’re single sit together. Guy started talking to the girl.
He: hi
She: hiiii
He: all our friends are committed except us
She: yeah
He: it is so boring to live single rite…? That too in holidays
She: yeah I too think so… All of my friends have boy friend and we are only the two persons left in this world without any special persons in our life (the girl has a crush on that guy. She want that guy to propose her….)
He: We want to do something…..
She: yeah…. We want to think about that….
He: but next month I’m going to US for my higher studies… Before that I want to find a girl….practically it is tough to find a girl within a month and to make her love me……( the guy is an orphan… he suffered a lot in his past life for coming to this position…. So, he won’t trust in love…. He jus want a girl to make him happy for a month)
She: (Inside her: I don’t want to miss this chance) Yeah … I’m having one idea… (With hesitation she told)
HE: oh gr8… Tell me yaar
She: we’ll play a game…
He: what??? Tell me clearly yaar….
She: I’ll be ur girl friend for 30days and you’ll be my boy friend…. (inside her: This is the chance to show my Love, care on him, which he didn’t get in his past life….. God he wants to tell k for this game…. plzzzzzzz)
He: hmmm… That’s a great plan yaar…in fact I don’t have anything to do for the following weeks
She: From tomorrow we’ll start our game…. (Inside her: from tomorrow you’ll see true love from me which you didn’t see in ur past life….. God after 30 days or b4 it, he wants to propose me……..)
HE: Sure yaar……..
Then he and she put some plans for next 30days….
DAY1: They watch their first movie “Vinnaithandi varuvaya” and they got touched by that romantic film…..
DAY 4:
They went to the beach and have their quality time together…..
DAY 12: He invited her to a circus and they ride on a horror house… she was scared and she wanted to touch his hand but she touched someone else’s hand and they both laughed….
(Like this many small incidences happen in their hang outs….. She showed her love and care on him every second…..
Her crush turned into a serious Love on him…. She came to stage that she can’t able to live without him…..)
DAY 15:
They saw a fortune teller down the road and they asked for their future advice. They asked individually For he the fortune teller said: “One girl is going to take care of ur life…. She’ll dedicate her life for you…” and for she the fortune teller told “ur life is going to change in short time…. May be it’ll be within a month or b4 it….”
Both got confused and went from there…..
DAY 20:
She invited him to go to the hill and they saw a shooting star there….
She: hey see the shooting star…
He: yeah… it’s going there….
She: Tell some of ur wishes by seeing that…. It’ll come true one day…
He: Oh k…. Shooting star show me the girl who is going takes care of my life….
She: (inside her: I’m here man… why you’re asking that shooting star stupid….:( )
He: Tell ur wish yaar…
She: Mumbled something
He didn’t hear anything what she told to shooting star….
DAY 28:
They sat on the bus and because of a bumpy road she gave kiss to him by accident…. Both laughed at each other….. She smiled with a shy….
DAY 29:
After finishing their hangouts they both decided to go to that same park….
11.37pmHe and she sat in the park where they first decided to play this game.
He: I’m tired…. I’m want to eat something….Do you want anything to eat?
She: hmmm k… Dairy milk SILK is enough for me… but where is the shop here…?
HE: I’ll just go down the road and buy…. Wait for me…
She: k… come soon….
11.55pm
A stranger approached her….
Stranger: you’re the girl came with that guy ah…?
She: yeah what happened….?
Stranger: a reckless drunk driver ran over him and he is critical in the hospital….
(She started crying and went to the hospital
11.58pm
The doctor came out of the emergency room

Doctor: who is the person came with that guy….?

She: yeah it’s me sir…. (She is crying badly)
Doctor handed out a dairy milk SILK and a letter.
Doctor: We found this in his pocket
(The letter is written by him. He wants to give that letter to her b4 game ends)
She reads the letter and it says:
Hi… Don’t get angry on me after reading this letter….. I want to tell you what I felt while playing this game…. This is not a game…. This is the lesson for me to realize the true love….Daily I’ll pray god that I don’t want to die as a orphan…. I’ll ask him to give some relationships in my life….I think he heard my prayer and sent you… yeah, these past few days, I realized what is the true love…..I realized the care showed by you for the last 29 days which I didn’t get in my past life…… I realized you’re really a cute girl and I’m really falling for you…. Ur cherished smile, ur everything when we played this game….. Before this game ends, I would like you to be my girl friend, my mom, my wife… (all the relations in this world) for the rest of my life…. I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!
After reading this, she crumples the paper and shouted…..
She: God I don’t want him to die…. I should propose him earlier itself….
She went near to him…. She can’t able to see him also…. Doctors are trying their best to save his life….
(She is crying very badly…. Doctors asked her to get out from ICU
Standing near to the door with tears she told)
She: Hey idiot I Love you da….Remember that night when we saw a shooting star, I mumbled something…. I mumbled that we want to be together forever and never end this game… Please don’t leave me da…. I Love you…. I want you in my life….
Clock strikes at 12…. This is the 30th day doctors came out from ICU….
Doctor: We tried our level best…Anything can happen ….All in god’s hand….
(With tears she told)
She: I don’t let him to die…. If that is his fate… then I don’t let him to die as an orphan….
(Suddenly she called her parents and explained the situation…. She told that she wants to marry him but her parents didn’t accept it… she told if you’re not accepting also I’ll marry him….Her parents told if you marry him then forget us….. She replied one day you’ll understand me and you’ll see ur daughter in a higher position…..Her parents cut the call…)
(She is confused…. She wants to take a decision….)
She is confused…. But no other way to go….she takes the decision to marry him….
She: Doctor Plzzzzz help me… In my dad’s position, You should conduct this marriage… plzzzzz…..
Doctor: Jus think of ur future….
She: I don’t let him to die as an orphan….
Doctor: anyway ur wish……
She: K thank you very much…. I’ll call my friends and they’ll make arrangements for this….
(She called her friends but all refused to come by thinking some problem will come to them……)
She: its k…. No one wants to come… I’ll marry him…. (She shouted in the hospital….)
(By seeing her true love the hospital staffs decided to make arrangements for marriage)
(Jus imagine how the marriage is!!!!!!!!!!…..)
(Doctor as a dad.. hospital staffs as audience… Glucose drops, blood drops from blood bag, Heart pump as the musical instruments….noise by other patients in pain as Mantra, blood drops from him as Atchadai… ICU as the marriage hall……they both got married…..)
She: God I don’t know whether I took a right decision or not…. But you want to save him…. Plzzz… He didn’t see any true love and care in his life… but now I’m there to show all this to him…. Don’t take him away from me…. Doctor’s are doing there best to save him…. God save him Plzzzz ….. (She cried and prayed to god)
After some time a stranger approached her…
Stranger: sorry for incident madam, I’m the owner of the car which hit ur friend…. It is my driver who drunk and hit ur friend… I put case on him… don’t worry I’ll do any help for you and ur friend….
She: He is not my friend…. He is my husband…. He is in death-bed now…. I don’t want anything….(She shouted)
While the stranger talking to her, doctor comes out of the ICU and told…
She: What happened doctor…..?
Doctor: Silence….
She: plzzzz tell something…. What happened….?
Doctor: again silence…
She: plzzz tell something….
Doctor: I’m sorry…..
She: What happened…? (She is crying so badly)
Doctor: we saved him…. But
She: but what happened doctor…..?
Doctor: He is in Coma stage…. Sorry we can’t able to do anything….
She: oh god what is this L…. Anyway I’ll take care of him… doctor when he’ll come to normal…
Doctor: It may happen in 1 month or it may not be happen also…. We can’t able to tell anything…
She: I’ll take care of him doctor…. I’ll take care of him…
(The stranger approached doctor….)
Stranger: what happened doctor… I want to do something for him…..
(Doctor told all things to the stranger. The Stranger felt very bad and went near to the girl)
Stranger: Sorry…. Treat me as ur dad…. Don’t hesitate to ask help… I’m the MD of this company… keep my visiting card… any help jus give me a call….
She: silence
(The stranger decides to give the financial support for them…. But she refused….. The stranger forced her…..)
She: I don’t want anybody’s money for free….
Stranger: Don’t take it as free… If you want I’ll give a job in my company…. Take it as salary…I’m not forcing to join now…. When you’re feeling better you can join…. Please accept this… I’ll be some what happy….
She: Silence….
Stanger: You can also bring ur husband to office and take care of him…. I’ll make all arrangements for that…
She: hmmm k… I jus think that if go to job, who’ll take care of my husband but now I got ans for that….
Stranger: thx for accepting madam….
She: I only want to say thx to you sir….Thank you so much…..When my husband’s injuries are cured I’ll join…
Stranger: Sure…. Ok after discharging from hospital, my company’s guest house is there you both can stay there….
She: Hmmm k thank you sir….
(After some days she joined in the company and also she took care of her husband)
(She will feed him, clean him, brush his teeth,… She dedicated her life to him…. She will take care of him like a born baby…..)
(She also concentrates on her work and come to an higher position….. After 3 years she bought a house for them…. Now she got all basic needs for running their life…. She achieved this bcoz of her True Love and confidence….)
(One day she went to a doctor)
She: Doctor I want to give birth to his baby…. Is there any possibilities…
Doctor: k… may I know the reason for this sudden decision…
She: If anything happens to me… Then he’ll be an orphan…. I don’t want him to become orphan again… I want to fulfill his wish…. If anything happens to me also my child will be there for him…. I don’t let him to die as an orphan….
Doctor: yeah now the technology is improved very much…. So you can give birth to his baby….
She: k doctor…. (Happily she went to her home)
(She enters the home very happily and went near to him)
She: Hey do you know within some months you’re going to become Dad…. I’m very happy today darling…..
(He is not in the position to understand this….)
(After some months she gave birth to a baby… The baby is boy)
One day He comes to normal from coma……
He wake up from his bed and saw a baby playing near to him…..
He don’t know where he is… what happen to him these days…. After some minutes he thought about that game and cried very badly….
He: God where is she….
He: How many days I’m like this…. (He shouted)
He turned and saw a photo hanged in the wall… He started crying… In that photo He and She is posing near “TAJ MAHAL”…. He is sitting in a wheel chair…. Then he remembered, One day while playing that game he told that definitely I’ll go “TAJ MAHAL” once in my life with my lovable wife… She noted that and took him there… Suddenly a girl came to his room and called her husband….
Girl: Hubby see ur father came to normal… I think he is cured… (That is his daughter in law)
Son: dad… dad…. Are you k…?
He: Who r you….?
Son: dad I’m ur son….
(Son introduced all persons to him)
Son: Dad she is ur daughter-in-law…. He is ur grandson and she is ur granddaughter…..
(Son told all the things which happened… and he gave a diary written by mom to his dad)
(After finish reading diary he asked)
(He was in coma for 40 years)
He: Where is ur mom….? I want to see her….. I want to see her… (He shouted)
Son: K dad…. Come with me…..
(He eagerly went with his son to see her)
Son: (Son lifted his hand and showed) See there dad….
He: Yeah she is sitting there… (He ran towards her)
Son: Dad…. Dad… wait….
Son: That is the wax model of mom…. It’s a statue dad….
(He suddenly stops and come back to his son)
He: Where is ur mom…. Where is ur mom…. (He cried and shouted)
Son: Dad….. come with me I’ll tell you
(Son takes him near to the statue and said)
Son: 2 years back mom died… when she is in death bed , she called me and told ur wish…
He: what r you saying….?(He cried very badly)
(when they played game, once she asked what is ur last wish when you’re in death bed… For that he told I want see my girl’s face when I die….)
Son: Mom noted all ur wishes and made it true dad….. (son cries)
(He went near to the statue…. He saw a CD in the hand of the statue…)
He: What is that CD…?
Son: that is mom’s speech dad… She want to tell you something… When she is death bed we recorded this….
(When he went to take the CD he saw a heart placed in the statue….)
He: what is this son….
Son: That is the heart which lived for you for the last 38 years…. Which beats for you only… Where ur love is placed…. Mom heart dad…..(Son cried)
(By seeing that He cried very badly)
(He played that CD)
She: Hi darling…. How r you…? I know you’ll be normal one day and will see this… I think I fulfilled some of ur wishes… Do you know I’m a lucky person in this world…. God gave chances to show my love to you…. God Gave chances to fulfill ur wishes…. I’m very happy to die… but the only sad thing is I can’t able to say “I Love You” when you’re normal…. “I LOVE YOU” darling…..
(Her heart waits for her to finish “I Love You” and its stops….. she died)
(He cried very badly while seeing this video…..)
He: You gave me all the things…. You gave me a family…. B4 I Saw you, No one is there to take care of me… but now, there is my son, daughter in law, grandson, granddaughter….. all r there.. But without you now I’m feeling like an orphan… you’re a very lucky person showed all ur love, care on me…. But me I didn’t do anything for you…. Without you this is like a hell for me…..
( He cried very badly….)
(After that he lived with his family…. But always he’ll think about her and the game played with her… One day he was serious due to some health problem. He knows that, he is going to die in some minutes…. He slowly moves to her statue)
He: Hi darling… I’m very happy now….In some minutes I’ll come to you… I’m going to see you after a long time… I want to say one thing darling….. I lOVE YOU…. I LOVE You darling ( By seeing her heart in that statue he told)
(This is the first time he is saying that to her… Her heart is waiting for this word only till now….After hearing that her heart starts to beat… yeah that is the power of love…. He took that heart in his hand…. He can able to feel, that heart is beating for his words… after some minutes he died… Both heart beats stopped at same time….. )
Last word spoken by both of them is “I LOVE YOU”…
Their true love still exist in this world….
In ur life also whatever happened to ur loved ones… Don’t leave them or break with them…. Take it as the chance given by the god to show ur love on them….
Love – a nice feeling in this world… Don’t spoil that feeling by ur lust…..
THERE IS NO PAIN IN TRUE LOVE!!!!
Feel it and Live for it!!!!
*****THE END*****


Hope you might have like it.. Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Rest in peace Sandeep :( We miss u :(

Its really disheartening or rather shocking news for me... My friend D.Sandeep,who has been suffering with blood cancer and has been getting treated for the same along with dialysis for his kidneys has expired two days back... It took me a lot of pain to digest this news and finally i'm left out in a shocked state with the pics that i had with him two days back...
Dedicating a poem on his loss...!!
P.S. In the pics inside,it is my cousin Praveen with me and sandeep.

Like a sea-bird I’m leaving all flying on the sea,
I will fly and fly till I blend into the far horizon,
It aches to leave you all but death hugged me,
From now I’ll live alone in the sky, sleep on stars,
I hate this life I want to die than flying life alone,
But your tears remind me that I’m already dead.

Thnxx for Suman bro.for sending me this poem.
Miss u Sandeep... U will be always in our hearts....May ur soul rest in peace...!!
With a heavy heart and water filled eyes,
Sriram Mallik.

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Sorry for no updates these days.. Reason for this situation..??

Hey friends, sorry for no updates. I've been to hyderabad for a week just to meet my friend Sandeep who is suffering with blood cancer since two years.. I will provide you the complete details regarding him in a short while... Hope you understand my situation.. Thanks for your support..

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Cute story-The meaning of true love

A small story depicting the meaning of true love.. Awesome meaning,perfectly written..And overall..you will enjoy reading this post. Click read more..!!



Perfect Meaning of love :

[Kid]: Daddy Daddy...

[Dad]:Yes Timmy !

[Timmy] : Daddy, I've got an assignment to write for school. Will you help me? Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

[Dad]: Oh ! Okay !! What's yr assignment on?

[Timmy] :Love !

[Dad] :Wow ! You have an assignment on it ? In my days, the teachers were against our er... assignments ;)

[Timmy] :No Dad, we are supposed to write something on the meaning of love...its Valentines day, na !

[Dad] :Love...hmm lemme see !

[Timmy] :wait. Wait... Lemme write it down... :)

[Dad] :Love... Love is about Lies !

[Timmy]: Lies ???

[Dad] :You see, Timmy... All my life, i have said lies in love & i've found it to be the best gift you can give a person.

[Timmy] :How, Dad?

[Dad] :Well, the first time i met yr mom for a Valentines day 7 yrs ago. She was not the hottest of chicks in college, if you know wt i mean...

[Timmy] :Hot chick ?

[Dad] :You get it in due time, son... ;)

Anyways... i saw this cute girl standing at a corner of the dance floor. I heard one of my friends say that she couldn't get any date for the party.

So here i was, cursing my luck as my date's grandmom expired n that left me in the same predicament ?

[Timmy] :Pedica ??

[Dad] :Predicament...means..eh, problem !

[Timmy] :Oh...

[Dad] :So i went up to yr Mom n told her.."Hey, How come such a beautiful lady like you does not have all the guys crooning over you?"

Now, i knew very well that even i wouldn't have asked her to dance if i had a choice, but it was that one little lie that got us together !

[Timmy]: But Dad, aint it bad to lie ?

[Dad] :Son, sometimes you have to lie to make the ppl you love happy !

Every Valentines day after that, i used to tell yr mom that she was the most beautiful girl in the whole world.

Now yes, i think she's cute & pretty in a special kind of way, but you tell me...Do you think she has the legs of Sharon Stone and the figure of Alicia Silverstone ?

[Timmy] :Eh... I dont know any of these stones, dad !

[Dad] :Hmm.. ok...Lets just say that yr mom was just an ordinary Wilma from the Flintstones !

[Timmy] :I know Wilma ! I know Wilma !!

[Dad] :Hehe... & then again...

When yr mom was pregnant with you... she used to ask me every day how she looked ? Did she look fat ?

Now frankly, she had gained about 30-40 pounds... & was always in one of her moods..

But i'd tell her.."Nooooooooooooo Honey, you are glowing ! You look fabulous !!

Now if i told her she looked like a fat cow, it would have hurt her !

[Timmy] :Ya...

[Dad] :So you see son...Love is when you say those little lies to keep someone happy !

ok... i've gotta go now... All the best with yr assignment...

[Timmy] :Bye Dad !

............................

[Timmy] :Love means lying ??? Maybe i'll ask Mom

Mommyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy?yyy...

[Timmy] :Mom..Mom... i have an assignment for school...you will help me, na !

[Mom] :Timmy, you know i'v to go out with daddy in another 1/2 hr

[Timmy] :Pleaseeeeeeeee Mommy !

[Mom]: ok...Timmy. wts the topic ?

[Timmy]: Eh... Love !

[Mom] :Love...Love is about knowing the goodness of a person's heart, honey !

[Timmy] :Goodness of heart ? huh ?

[Mom] :It’s like this...

When i was in college, yr Dad used to tell me i should be in hollywood. Now i knew he was just lying, but i also knew that he dint want me in hollywood, but rt next to him!

& when i was pregnant, i used to look so fat i looked like Santa Claus ! But yr Dad would say i was looked weak n would feed me everything he could find !

His lies were so dumb, i even thought i had married a stupid...but the truth is that this stupid cared enough to lie...just to make me happy !

[Timmy] :But... he was lying, rt ?

[Mom] :Well honey...he was just being a guy !

& i knew everytime that he was lying to me... but every single time, i also knew that he said those lies coz he loved me !

[Timmy] :Hmm...

[Mom] :Ok honey... i'v to go get ready now. byeeeee

........................

Assignment

Topic : Love

Author : Timmy

Love... When someone lies to you n you smile... coz you know the person cares enough for ur happiness to lie to you !!!

The End..........

Hope you liked it...
Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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The Beauty of Rain (Not jus to be read,but also to be experienced by everyone)

Its rainy season right ???
Have you ever wondered how good it will be if you have the first few rain droplets on yourself ??
Awesome isnt it ??
So collecting all such sweet and sensitive expressions,we have a wonderful article related to the beauty of rain :)



The bloated clouds came like dancing angels,
These angels darkened like graphite sheets,
Robe of darkness spread over within moments,
The fragrance of humid earth fused in the air,
The trees looked like kids waiting for parents,
Fierce thunders cracked ablaze like silver strings,
The first drops of untainted water fell to earth,
The dust on trees flowed down glittering green,
Puddles of dark water started off into rivulets,
Wind blew so hard like drizzling chill icicles,
Fields started swaying on the waves of wind,
Peacocks opened their gorgeous bright plumes,
Flowers glowed like scented and painted pearls,
Huts bright like castles tinted in bubbling gold,
Sweltering lands turned flowering fields with rain,
The barren lands started sprouting green shoots,
Frogs threw slogans flicking in the brown ponds,
Rain brought the beauty, paradise down to earth.

Special thanks to a friend of mine,a very nice blogger,photographer and a multi talented person Suman (http://silverquiver.blogspot.com/) for such a nice collection.

Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Happy friendship day

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Reason for celebrating friendship day every year

Why do we actually celebrate friendship day ??
Any idea ?? If not then see this post.. Its accepted from the UNO people.. This is the reason that the UNO has given for celebrating frndshp day.. Click read more..!!



Friendship Day was originally promoted by Joyce Hall, the founder of Hallmark cards in 1919, and intended to be a day where people celebrated their friendships by sending cards. The first Sunday in August was chosen as the centre of the largest lull in holiday celebrations. Friendship Day was promoted by the greetings card National Association during the 1920's but met with consumer resistance - given that it was rather too obviously a commercial gimmick to promote greetings cards. By the 1940's the number of Friendship Day cards available in the US had dwindled and the holiday largely died out there. There is no evidence to date for its uptake in Europe, however it has been kept alive and revitalised in Asia where several countries adopted the tradition of dedicating a day to friends. Today, Friendship Day is enthusiastically celebrated in a number of countries across the world. In honor of Friendship Day in 1998, Nane Annan, wife of Secretary-General Kofi Annan, named Winnie the Pooh as the world's Ambassador of Friendship at the United Nations. The event was co-sponsored by the U.N. Department of Public Information and Disney Enterprises, and was co-hosted by Kathy Lee Gifford. Many friends acknowledge each other with exchange of gifts and cards on this day. Friendship bands are very popular in India, Nepal, Bangladesh and parts of South America. With the advent of social networking sites, friendship day is also being celebrated online. The commercialization of the Friendship Day celebrations has led to some dismissing it as a "marketing gimmick".

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Friendship days for the next decade

Do you want to know when is the friendship day in the next few years to come.. ??
Here is the info regarding the dates of friendship days for the next decade that is from 2011-2020 :)

P.S.: Special thanks to Swaroop for keeping this info.. And thnx for permitting me to share this info in my blog too :D



When Is Friendship Day?

2011---August 7
2012---August 5
2013---August 4
2014---August 3
2015---August 2
2016---August 7
2017---August 6
2018---August 5
2019---August 4
2020---August 2

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Poem dedicating to all my friends regarding Friendship week

A small poem that i found while surfing on the net.. Dedicating this to all my dear friends :)
Wish you all a very happy friendship week :)




Friendship week comes but once a year,
It is nice to remember my friend's I hold most dear, and I want to give them all a very loud cheer.

It is a time to tell my friends I love them and cherish them and to have them near, also that I hold them very close and near they are most dear.

Friends that I love and cherish forgive my mistakes that I may make, they will never judge me or make me feel bad because loyalty and trust is what we sure have.

Friends I can trust with all my heart also I can share my hopes and dreams that I hope to realise soon.

Friend's I never doubt also friend's can help me grow throughout the years and they do beleive in me.

Friends are angels in disguise and they help to dry those tears from my eyes they help me to keep sane with that smile on my face.

Friends support and encourage me through when my life is being rough and tough on me.


Friends they give me so much inspiration, they lift my spirits up when I am feeling down they help to lift those big dark daunting black clouds.

Friends are like shining star's that shines so bright at night they always try and bring me happiness and such delight..!!!

Happy friendship week :D
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Tips to be happy all the time :D

An article dedicated to everyone who wants to be happy.. Here are 100 small tips using which you can be always happy :D
Click read more..!!

1. Never put yourself last.
2. When you extend a helping hand to one person, be careful not to kick
someone else in the teeth.
3. Always own a pair of old, faded jeans.
4. Count your blessings every day.
5. Acknowledge your successes along with your downfalls.
6. Burn the candle that has been in storage for the last two years.
7. Strive for progress, not perfection.
8. Remember, the voice telling you that you cannot do something is always
lying.
9. At least once a day sit and do nothing.
10. Don't close your heart so tightly against life's pain that you shut out
life's blessings.
11. Celebrate all your birthdays no matter how old you get.
12. Examine your life for limitations and ask yourself why you put them
there.
13. Plant a tree, pull weeds, or get your hands dirty.
14. Diminish your wants instead of increasing your needs.
15. Cry when you feel like it.
16. Rejoice in other people's triumphs.
17. Don't wait for someone else to laugh or express joy.
18. Forgive yourself for any mistake you make, no matter how big or small.
19. Keep good company.
20. Never take a pill for a pain you need to feel.
21. Use your enthusiasm to put yourself in forward gear and give yourself a
spark to move ahead.
22. Look in the eyes of the ones you love when you are talking to them.
23. Remember that one is a whole number.
24. Walk in a summer rain shower without an umbrella.
25. Do a kind deed for someone else.
26. Keep your eyes and ears open to get the messages you need from people
and events in your daily life.
27. Be patient.
28. Eat something green.
29. Change what you can and leave the rest alone.
30. Walk hand and hand with truth.
31. Make laughter and joy a greater part of your life than anger and grief.
32. Embrace solitude instead of running from it.
33. Be zealous, not jealous.
34. Forgive anyone you've been holding a grudge against.
35. Slow down and enjoy the present.
36. Walk in others' shoes before judging them.
37. Send yourself a kind message.
38. Remind yourself that the company you keep is a reflection of what you
think of yourself.
39. Go on a picnic.
40. Accept your fears, no matter how crazy they seem.
41. Don't let other people's opinions shape who you are.
42. Say a prayer.
43. Never attribute your accomplishments to luck or chance.
44. Know when to say no.
45. Look at the positive side of negative situation.
46. Remember that you are a spiritual being in a physical body.
47. Avoid seeking out other people for constant approval, because it make
them the master and you the slave.
48. Go fly a kite.
49. Avoid fads and bandwagons. 50. Accept the things you cannot change.

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Saying I LOVE YOU in different languages of the world

Hi friends,its a general fashion to say I LOVE YOU while proposing.. Jus try saying the same in a different language that will fascinate your lover ??
Here are the different languages in which the most loved sentence I LOVE YOU has been translated into all the major languages of the world..!!








Afrikaans »» Ek het jou lief
Albanian »» Te dua
Arabic »» Ana behibak (to male)
Arabic »» Ana behibek (to female)
Armenian »» Yes kez sirumen
Bambara »» M'bi fe
Bangla »» Aamee toma ke bhalo baashi
Belarusian »» Ya tabe kahayu
Bisaya »» Nahigugma ako kanimo
Bulgarian »» Obicham te
Cambodian »» Soro lahn nhee ah
Cantonese Chinese »» Ngo oiy ney a
Catalan »» T'estimo
Cheyenne »» Ne mohotatse
Chichewa »» Ndimakukonda
Corsican »» Ti tengu caru (to male)
Creol »» Mi aime jou
Croatian »» Volim te
Czech »» Miluji te
Danish »» Jeg Elsker Dig
Dutch »» Ik hou van jou
English »» I love you
Esperanto »» Mi amas vin
Estonian »» Ma armastan sind
Ethiopian »» Afgreki'
Faroese »» Eg elski teg
Farsi »» Doset daram
Filipino »» Mahal kita
Finnish »» Mina rakastan sinua
French »» Je t'aime, Je t'adore
Gaelic »» Ta gra agam ort
Georgian »» Mikvarhar
German »» Ich liebe dich
Greek »» S'agapo
Gujarati »» Hu tunney prem karu chu
Hiligaynon »» Palangga ko ikaw
Hawaiian »» Aloha wau ia oi
Hebrew »» Ani ohev otah (to female)
Hebrew »» Ani ohev et otha (to male)
Hiligaynon »» Guina higugma ko ikaw
Hindi »» Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae
Hmong »» Kuv hlub koj
Hopi »» Nu' umi unangwa'ta
Hungarian »» Szeretlek
Icelandic »» Eg elska tig
Ilonggo »» Palangga ko ikaw
Indonesian »» Saya cinta padamu
Inuit »» Negligevapse
Irish »» Taim i' ngra leat
Italian »» Ti amo
Japanese »» Aishiteru
Kannada »» Naa ninna preetisuve
Kapampangan »» Kaluguran daka
Konkani »» Tu magel moga cho
Korean »» Sarang Heyo
Latin »» Te amo
Latvian »» Es tevi miilu
Lebanese »» Bahibak
Lithuanian »» Tave myliu
Malay »» Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu
Malayalam »» Njan Ninne Premikunnu
Mandarin Chinese »» Wo ai ni
Marathi »» Me tula prem karto (to female)
Mohawk »» Kanbhik
Moroccan »» Ana moajaba bik
Nahuatl »» Ni mits neki
Navaho »» Ayor anosh'ni
Norwegian »» Jeg Elsker Deg
Pandacan »» Syota na kita!!
Pangasinan »» Inaru Taka
Papiamento »» Mi ta stimabo
Persian »» Doo »» set daaram
Pig Latin »» Iay ovlay ouyay
Polish »» Kocham Ciebie
Portuguese »» Eu te amo
Romanian »» Te ubesk
Russian »» Ya tebya liubliu
Scot Gaelic »» Tha gradh agam ort
Serbian »» Volim te
Setswana »» Ke a go rata
Sindhi »» Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan
Sioux »» Techihhila
Slovak »» Lu`bim ta
Slovenian »» Ljubim te
Spanish »» Te quiero / Te amo
Swahili »» Ninapenda wewe
Swedish »» Jag alskar dig
Swiss »» German »» Ich lieb Di
Tagalog »» Mahal kita
Taiwanese »» Wa ga ei li
Tahitian »» Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
Tamil »» Naan unnai kathalikiraen
Telugu »» Nenu ninnu premistunnanu
Thai »» Chan rak khun (to male)
Thai »» Phom rak khun (to female)
Turkish »» Seni Seviyorum
Ukrainian »» Ya tebe kahayu
Urdu »» mai aap say pyaar karta hoo
Vietnamese »» Anh ye^u em (to female)
Vietnamese »» Em ye^u anh (to male)
Welsh »» 'Rwy'n dy garu
Yiddish »» Ikh hob dikh
Yoruba »» Mo ni fe


Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Crossed 1 lakh hits from 2010 May till today.. Thanks everyone

Hey friends,thanks a lot for all your loving support.. My blog has crossed 1 lakh visits..This wouldnt have happened without your valuable support..
2010 May nundi na blog statistics ni and pages ni link cheyatam start chesa.. Till then i didnt know about tracking the pages.. So from 2010 May till today,our blog has crossed 1 lakh hits :D

Some stats regarding our blog :
Total Hits:1,03,132
Unique Visitors crossed 62,500
No.of posts 238
No of Followers 69
Seriously I felt tat my blog is basically a conceptual blog that might be a big failure.. But you have made it a big success...
Thanks a lot each and everyone who visited my blog till now :)
Hope you would encourage me like this forever :)
Love you all from the bottom of my heart :D
P.S: Design is by HKR(HARI KRISHNA RAJU) annaya from Bangalore,our blog regular visitor,my well wisher..HKR annayi Love you loads annaya:)
Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Few signs of falling in love... Check out with these points

Jus test yourself if you are falling in love..






***13 signs of falling in love***

13. When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang Up...but you miss them already when it was just two minutes ago..

12. You read their texts over and over again...

11. You walk really slowly when you're with them...

10. You feel shy whenever you're with them...

9. When you think about them, your heart beats faster and faster...

8 . You smile when you hear their voice...

7. When you look at them, you can't see the other people around You...All you see is him/her...

6. You start listening to slow songs, while thinking of them...

5. They become ALL you think about...

4. You get high just from their scent...

3. You realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think About them...

2. You would do anything for them...

1. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole time....


So test yourself and do what your heart says... God will see the rest :P
Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik

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Do's and Don'ts in LOVE. RULES for a perfect relationship

In love,we certainly need to follow somethings to have a better relation.. Thr are not exactly a set of rules but some certain things we should know exactly.. Thnx for Ammu for the mail..Remembering those and executing them would make your relation a wonderful one.. Keep reading about them :D



There are no set rules for love. Only certain things to be understood!!
* Never allow your partner or yourself to denigrate the other.

* You must have personal respect and consideration for yourself.

* Everyone deserves respect and love, but you can't expect to get it unless you give it.

* If you allow your partner to disparage you, expect to hear other damaging words.

* Whatever you are willing to accept is exactly what you're going to get.

* Be compassionate, understanding, forgiving and merciful.

* Patience, kindness, consideration and thoughtfulness can never be in short demand.

* Never let a person use names or words to hurt or degrade you or your partner.

* Vow to protect yourself from thoughtless, rude, mean or punishing behavior.

* If destructive words are being used, for whatever the reason, it must Stop. If not, a relationship can't survive.

* Once you've reacted you can then be proactive.

* A controlled mouth shows a controlled mind. Use words for empowerment, encouragement and positive recognition.

* Ask for respect. Quietly demand it. If your lover, partner, parent or friend can't exhibit self control over their mouth, seriously consider looking elsewhere for a relationship.

* Pick an appropriate time to discuss important issues. This is particularly true if there is an emotional charge where feelings of anger or vexation need to be vented.

* Never enter into discussion of personal, private or intimate issues in public. Wait until you have privacy and the time to tackle issues.

* If a person makes a mistake, or does something that disappoints or angers you, belittlement or badmouthing them in front of others will only lead to further resentment, anger and frustration.

* Trying to discuss anything when the other person won't cooperate or take the time to talk is a waste of time.

* If necessary make a date to talk.

* If the person keeps on delaying or avoiding conversation or discussion on issues that are important or significant to you, you may need to put it in writing and place it in their hands.

* Talking is good for closure of some issues. And, unless allowed, will create a wound that won't close.

* You can never truly waste your thoughts and words on the separated or departed. Life and thought continues.

* Romance doesn't just exist, you must make it happen. You must make a sincere effort to keep it alive to help your relationship flourish.

* Little things count, it doesn't have to be a dozen roses and champagne all the time. A favorite piece of candy in a pocket or a little note can mean a lot.

* Commit yourself to do something romantic every day. Show it. Demonstrate it. It's the accumulative total of all the little things that in end adds up to a super special love and romance.

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Symptoms of Infatuation or Attraction

Many pass the stage of INFATUATION or also called as ATTRACTION in some stage of life.... What actually might be the reasons of it..?? Am listing a few Symptoms of Infatuation here that came to my mind.. If you know any others then please do list them in the comments section..!!





There are some feelings we have when infatuated that we don’t have when we’re feeling love. Some of the “symptoms” of infatuation are; feelings of panic, uncertainty, overpowering lust, feverish excitement, impatience, and/or jealously.

When infatuated, we are thrilled, but not happy, wanting to trust, yet suspicious. There are lingering, nagging doubts about our “partner ininfatuation ” and their love for us. We’re miserable when they’re away, almost like we’re not complete unless we’re with them. It’s a rush and it’s intense. It’s difficult to concentrate. And mostinfatuation relationships have a high degree of sexual charge around them. Somehow being with them is not complete unless in ends in some type of sexual encounter.
Do any of these “symptoms” resemble feelings of love? Hardly. So why do we become infatuated? Where does it come from? Perhaps it’s biological.

When infatuated we experience a surge of dopamine that rushes through the brain causing us to feel good. Norepinephrine flows through the brain stimulating production of adrenaline (pounding heart). Phenylethalimine (found in chocolate) creates a feeling of bliss. Irrational romantic sentiments may be caused by oxytocin, a primary sexual arousal hormone that signals orgasm and feelings of emotional attachment. Together these chemicals sometimes override the brain activity that governs logic.

The body can build up tolerances to these chemicals so it takes more of the substance to get that special feeling of infatuation. People who jump from relationship to relationship may be craving the intoxicating effects of these substances and may be “infatuation junkies”.

When the chemical flood dries up, the relationship either moves into a loving romantic one or there is disillusionment, and the relationship ends...!


So dear readers,please try to differentiate your relationship status in your minds before taking any decisions....Enjoy the fragrance of the relationship thats named LOVE...!

Keep rocking,
Regards,
SriRam Mallik

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9 Tips for Guys for letting his girl knw how PRECIOUS she is..Love Tips for GUYS

Hello people....... This article is dedicated to all the dynamic guys in my blog. Last week i have written an article and dedicated it to girls.. So its time for a dedication to the guys nw :D





# Make a CD of your and her favorite love songs, then record (in your voice) a special, romantic message at the end!

# Write her a poem (Google for the best Romantic Poetry for inspiration)

# Leave little notes around telling her things you love about her.

# Let her rest her head in your lap/on your chest very close to heart.

# If she's feeling stressed out, give her a massage and help her work out a better way to do things.

# If she makes dinner, offer to do the dishes.

# Always be a gentleman--hold the door for her.

# Give her the same respect you enjoy from her.

# Make an effort to get to know (and if you can, love) her family.

Do not neglect her or ignore her even in ur worst times..A girl always loves to be treated as a kid(AGREE WITH ME..?? ) So treat her as your own child ..Keep making her Happier at every stage and enjoy your life....
Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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10 tips to girl readers :)

Ten small tips for girls..... Hope you will surely like them for sure.. Jus to make her guy feel that none will be as special to him as she is..!!




My dear buddies,Mainly Girls[:D]


# Do something he would probably never expect - Send "Him" flowers!

# Spend intimate time with him. No television, no telephone, no computer, just you and him.

# Always respect him. Respect is one of the things men treasure the most in relationships.

# Touch him affectionately: put your hand on the small of his back, run your fingers through his hair, using your fingertips, lightly trace the inside of his forearm.

# Tell him he is "handsome," "rugged," and "strong", try not to use "cute."

# Surprise him with a candle-lit dinner.

# Tell him that you feel safe when you're in his arms.

# Encourage him in whatever he does-sports, work, whatever.

# Watch sports with him, even if it isn't your thing.

# Forgive him when he messes up.


Please avoid the feeling of EGO and care him as if he is a small kid awaiting for your love,affection and care...!Plzzz have the feeling of forgiveness and take care about your relation...Hope you have a happy life...!
Keep Rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Tips to be followed while Proposing a girl.. How to propose a girl..??

How to Propose to a Girl The million dollar question.....!! Proposing a girl is not an easy task...For all the rocking Guys visiting my blog,herez a wonderful article for you all..Click read more..!

How to propose a girl. As hard as it is to understand a woman's heart and mind, so it is hard to prepare for one of the beautiful moments of your life: asking your lover to accept your love.

What is actually important is the way you plan it up..!!

When approaching this exciting and romantic event you might want to take into account a few points to think of:
• What do you enjoy doing together – throughout your relationship you've sure realized what she enjoys doing, and places she enjoys visiting. These experiences should give you excellent ideas of how to propose to your girl.

• Things she told you during your relationship such as: I love bouquets of yellow flowers, I am crazy about chocolate, I think Paris is the prettiest place in the world. All these hints can come as useful guide-lines for you while planning how to propose to a girl.

• Your image of the 'perfect love or marriage proposal' – you are part of the proposal too! It’s not only about her, but about two people uniting as one. Note that you like your idea of how to propose your girl. It’s a beautiful moment and you should both enjoy it.

• Give her a surprise.Dont try a routine method..Think of something innovative and plan in such a way that she will be really excited on getting the plan revealed and should feel that no one is ellgible than you..Hope you will have a wonderful relation that lasts for ever.....

Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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A technique to get out of Depression..AFFIRMATION

To all those people who are feeling depressed at regular intervals of time,or who are in depression...Here is a small technique to get out of tat depressed situations... This is my personal feeling cozz i daily say this to myself when ever i feel depressed..Hope it will be helpful to you also :D






This post is just to guide u in the suitable path just to have a better day,a colorful week,a sweetened month,a wonderful year and an awesome life...Correct ga follow ayite you can have a better future…..Its regarding the AFFIRMATION that one has to take as an oath everyday morning..

According to Ralph Waldo Emerson who has accurately said that "One of the illusions of life is that the present hour is not the critical, decisive hour. Write it on your heart that every day is the best day of the year." We can observe that TODAY is always an important day. That problem you solve, that decision you make, that time you enjoy can shape your whole life. The way you and I ap¬proach today, and each day, is crucial. Our lives are built by a series of days like today.





I discovered an affirmation that can help in living each day fully:


1. Today I will live through the next 24 hours and not try to tackle all of life's problems at once.
2. Today I will improve myself, body, mind and spirit.
3. Today I will refuse to spend time worrying about what might happen if...
4. Today I will not imagine what I would do if things were different. They are not dif¬ferent. I will do my best with what material I have.
5. Today I will find the grace to let go of resentments of others and self-condemnation over past mistakes.
6. Today I will not try to change, or improve, anybody but me.
7. Today I will act toward others as though this will be my last day on earth.
8. Today I will be unafraid. I will enjoy what is beauti¬ful, and I will be¬lieve that as I give to the world, the world will give to me.

Whether these are the best of times or the worst of times, these are the only times we've got.. Live each day fully and you will look back on a life that made a difference.
Please let me know the feedback regarding this article..!
Keep rocking,
Regards and With lots of Love,
SriRam Mallik.

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LOVE LETTER of a TEEN AGE guy(In Q/A format).... TIT for TAT reply by the GIRL

A teenage college guy sent a love letter (in Q/A format) to his classmate. Read the complete thing and see how the girl answers him in the same format..!!
Thnxx Ammu for such hilarious mail :D




A teenage college guy sent a love letter (in Q/A format) to his classmate.

My Dearest Reshma,
Please answer the following questionnaire. Select (a), (b) or (c)

1) Whenever you enter the class room, your sight always falls on me because:

(a) of love
(b) you couldn’t control seeing me
(c) really … am I doing it?

2) Whenever professor cracks joke, you laugh and turn and look at me because:

(a) you always like to see me smiling
(b) you are testing whether I like jokes
(c) you are attracted by my smile

3) When you were singing in the class, I entered and immediately you stopped singing because:

(a) you are so coy to sing before me
(b) my presence influenced you
(c) you feared that whether I’ll like your song

4) When you were showing your childhood photo, when I asked for it, you hide it because:

(a) you felt ashamed
(b) you felt uneasy
(c) you don’t know

5) During trekking, myself and my friend gave you hand for lifting you and you took only my friend’s because:

(a) you enjoyed my disappointment
(b) you won’t feel leaving my hand after grabbing
(c) you don’t know

6) You were waiting yesterday for bus and didn’t get into your bus…

(a) you were waiting for me
(b) you were dreaming about me and didn’t notice the bus
(c) that bus was crowded

7) You introduced me to your parents when they came to college because:

(a) I am going to be your groom
(b) you just want to know what your parents think about me
(c) just you felt like introducing me to them

8) I told that I like girls wearing roses. Next day, you came with a rose on your head because:

(a) to fulfill my wish
(b) you like roses
(c) by chance you got a rose

9) On that day, it was my birthday. you too came to temple early at 6:00 A.M because:

(a) you want to pray along with me
(b) you want to meet me before any one could meet on my birthday
(c) you want to wish me at temple because you are spiritual.

Your score:
For Options
(A) 10 marks,
(b) 5marks and
(c) 3 marks.
If you have scored more than 40, then you are loving me. Don’t delay in expressing it.

If you have scored between 30 and 40, love is budding in your heart and it’s getting ready to bloom. If you have scored less than 30, you are in confusion whether to love me or not.

Eagerly awaiting your reply..

Love, Aakash


Reshma’s reply letter was also in Q/A format……

Aakash,
Please answer the following Yes/No questionnaire.

1) If somebody sits in the first row, normally people entering the class, sees them.

(a) Yes (b) No

2) If a girl laughs and looks anyone, is it love?

(a) Yes (b) No

3) While singing, if somebody forgets lines of the songs, will he/she stop singing or not?

(a) Yes (b) No

4) I was showing to my friends (who are all girls) my childhood photo.

You poked your nose inside….. right ?

(a) Yes (b) No

5) I avoided to hold your hand during trekking. Couldn’t you understand yet?

(a) Yes (b) No

6) Should I not wait for my best friend (Anjali) at the bus stand?

(a)Yes (b) No

7) Shouldn’t I introduce you to my parents as a friend?

(a) Yes (b) No

8) You have said you also like Lotus, cauliflower, banana’s flower. Is it true ?

(a) Yes (b) No

9) Oh was that your birthday. That’s why I could see you in temple. I come daily to Temple. Do you know ?

(a) Yes (b) No

If you have answered “Yes” to any of the question, then I am not loving you. If you have answered “No”, then you don’t know the meaning of Love.

Hope everything is clear to you!







Hahahaha jus loved this mail... Hope you all have enjoyed it too...
Thnx once again to my frnd Ammu(Ammajee) for sharing this with us..
Keep rocking..!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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QUESTIONS BY SAI PREM(In Both languages)

Hey friends,one of our blog friends' SAI PREM has sent me a mail with a few questions that he got.. So please try to answer them with your comments.. I've posted the questions in both the languages so as to make it easy for you to understand..!!





Telugu Version:
1) Prema jeevitham lo manishiki okkasare kalugutunda..??

2) Devudiki pray cheste mana talaraatha maaruthunda..??

3) Meeru denini ekkuva ga nammutaru..LOVE OR FRIENDSHIP...??

4) Meeku jeevitham lo edina pedda korika unda..??

5) Meeru jeevitham lo eadi lekunda bratakalevu..??

6) Addam lo mimmalni meeru chuskuni eam anukuntaru..??

7) Okavela ivala mee jeevitham lo aakhari roju ayite eam koorukuntaru..??

8) One side love best aa kaadha..??

9) Asalu enduku preminchali..??

10) Prema ni evaru kanipettaro telusa..??

11) Meeru preminchina abbayi/ammayi pelliki meeru veltara..??

12) Premisthe eam vastundi..eam raadu..??

13) Ee rojullo prema elantidi..??Appati prema ki ippati prema ki teda unda..??

14) Ammayilu ekkuva premistara leka abbayila..??

15) Premisthe praanam istam ani antaru kada.adi nijamena..?Eam batiki saadhinchalera aa premani..??

16) Asalu prema ante eanto 3 mukkallo cheppu..!!

17) Prema-Aakarshana-Kaamam...Veeti madhya teda ni manam kanipettakalama?? Okavela kanipettakaligite ela..??



In English
1) Does LOVE encounter with a human being jus once in a life time??

2) Does praying to God change our fate..??

3) Which do you trust the most..Is it love or friendship..??

4) Do you have any big desire in your lifetime..??

5) Without which essential thing,you cant survive or what is the thing that you cannot live without??

6) Looking at yourself in the mirror what do you feel..??

7) If its your last day on earth then what would you feel like asking/wat would you ask god..?

8) Is one sided love the best thing ever..??

9) Why exactly should we LOVE..??

10) Who is the founder or inventor of LOVE..??

11) Will you attend the marriage function of your loved one..??

12) What do you gain by loving..and what do you loose by loving..??

13) How is today's generation love..??Is there any difference in between the love of today's generation and the older generation..??

14) Who loves the most..Is it the women or the men..??

15) Many say that they will sacrifice their life for LOVE..But why cant they really try to succeed in their life for that LOVE..??Why dont they live to win that love..??

16) Define LOVE in jus three words..!!

17) Can we differentiate between LOVE-ATTRACTION-PHYSICAL INFATUATION..?? IF yes then how..?

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The power of RESPONSE in a relationship..An article shared by MEGHANA

Response is a great weapon/a thing that is very important in the present day world in building great relationships.. The way we respond itself decides how good or how strong the relationship is going to be.. To know about them check out the article that is shared by one of our blog friend MEGHANA..Thnx a lot MEGHANA for sharing this with us :)
Click read more..!!





Do Not Respond Defensively

Rather than trying to avoid criticism, expert performers welcome it. They seek out coaches and advisors who can give them constructive, sometimes even painful feedback. They then use this feedback as a guide for steady improvement. Here are some steps you can take to handle criticism effectively:

1. Acknowledge Your Error

Acknowledging a mistake is not the same as acknowledging that you are an inferior person/a failure. If you believe the criticism is accurate, take full responsibility. Don't blame something or someone else and don't make excuses. If appropriate, offer a diplomatic apology: I'm sorry that my actions led to that result. It certainly was not my intention. Again, if appropriate, ask for suggestions on how you can improve your performance the next time.

2. Take Corrective Action

After you ve heard the other person out completely, and listened to any suggestions for improvement, state/communicate your eagerness to improve in the future. If appropriate, describe any actions you will take at his time to counterbalance your previous error.

3. Acknowledge the other persons motive

Thank the other person for the feedback and make sure to state how valuable you consider it. This demonstrates your ability to use criticism as a way to improve an essential quality of a leader. In addition, let the other person know that you are open to receiving his or her feedback in the future.
Even when you don't care for the style in which criticism is presented, be thankful that the other person is willing to give you feedback, and along with it, an opportunity to improve.


Thnx a lot Meghana once again for sharing such a nice article.. Keep rocking..!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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