The power of RESPONSE in a relationship..An article shared by MEGHANA

Response is a great weapon/a thing that is very important in the present day world in building great relationships.. The way we respond itself decides how good or how strong the relationship is going to be.. To know about them check out the article that is shared by one of our blog friend MEGHANA..Thnx a lot MEGHANA for sharing this with us :)
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Do Not Respond Defensively

Rather than trying to avoid criticism, expert performers welcome it. They seek out coaches and advisors who can give them constructive, sometimes even painful feedback. They then use this feedback as a guide for steady improvement. Here are some steps you can take to handle criticism effectively:

1. Acknowledge Your Error

Acknowledging a mistake is not the same as acknowledging that you are an inferior person/a failure. If you believe the criticism is accurate, take full responsibility. Don't blame something or someone else and don't make excuses. If appropriate, offer a diplomatic apology: I'm sorry that my actions led to that result. It certainly was not my intention. Again, if appropriate, ask for suggestions on how you can improve your performance the next time.

2. Take Corrective Action

After you ve heard the other person out completely, and listened to any suggestions for improvement, state/communicate your eagerness to improve in the future. If appropriate, describe any actions you will take at his time to counterbalance your previous error.

3. Acknowledge the other persons motive

Thank the other person for the feedback and make sure to state how valuable you consider it. This demonstrates your ability to use criticism as a way to improve an essential quality of a leader. In addition, let the other person know that you are open to receiving his or her feedback in the future.
Even when you don't care for the style in which criticism is presented, be thankful that the other person is willing to give you feedback, and along with it, an opportunity to improve.


Thnx a lot Meghana once again for sharing such a nice article.. Keep rocking..!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Comment on this soon.. Waiting for all your response...!!

Friends,here is a mail that i got just now..A friend needs help from all of us.. So please read it and respond with your suggestions..!!


Here goes the mail that i recieved...!!


hey sriram ..
once small problem .. need ur help .. i could solve this problem but sme kinda personal to me ... so, i cant take risk in it .. so, askin ur help
here i go . neeku simple ga chepesta..
na frnd okadu ma clsmate ammai ki propose chesadu .. she s frm kshatriya's .. intlo inter cast marriage's e chestaru anta .. she has a difftnt wrld totally ...
engg join ayindi kani tana interest's anni economics meede .. she wont be comin to clz regularly also .. matladadam anna no time asalu .. feelings express cheyali anna no time .. kani veedi tanu ante chala istam .. oka roju teginchesi chepisadu .. propose cheyale but direct marriage proposal chesadu .. adi em matladale .. she went away ... veedu response imani adigadu ... apdu adi em annadi ante .. tana life lo decisions anni vala parents ki vadilesindi anta ... she wont take any chance in lovin someone ani annadi .. enta matladina asalu convince avatle .. no response ... phone chesina lift cheyadu .. msg ki response undadu .. enni tyms call chesina no response . chala patience tho call chestadu epduuu .. max oka 2 or 3 tyms call lift chesindi emo ... tht to she wnt talk more thn 5 min .. kani veedki alanti ammai malli dorakadu ani feel avtunadu ... chala istam veedki .. nenu em gurantee ivagalanu ante.. veedu matram asalu vadaladu danini .. ah type ee kadu asalu ..
valla parents ki adagadame last chance veedki migilndi ... kani adi impossible .. rajulu asalu opkoru ..paruvu mukhyam vallaki family lo ..
ipdu chala critical position veedidi .. em cheyamantav nuvvu aite ?? oka sari mee frnds tho discuss chesi edo solution chepava .. plz .. nenu deal cheste ekadaina vadki against ga cheptanemo .. ala chepte maku malli problem vastundi .. for ga chepte malli expectations ekuvavtai .. malli last ki opkokapote vadi life waste avtundi .. neeku enduku adugutunanu ante.. inkokalu chepte kanisam aalochistadu ane opinion tho adugutunna ..
plz do reply ... :)
thanks :)


So friends,Please respond with your valuable comments.. Lets help this one side lover win his love/atleast understand with the present scenario..!!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Please read this and answer my doubt..!!

Friends,very recently I've uploaded Nirup's love story and many people have felt bad regarding me uploading like that...! So jus wanna give a brief explanation regarding this.. I've been uploading stories like that jus to make people aware of the situations happening around..So that none otherz wil try to commit the same mistake tat he might have done..And through every story tat i am uploading i feel that you all might try to take a small lesson for life and would never get into troubles unnecessarily.. Hope you all agree with me and encourage me as you did till now..!!

If you truely feel that what ever i did till now is correct then please comment with YES.. Else with a NO and a reason for saying NO...!!


Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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NAMELESS LOVE STORY (TELUGU VERSION)

Hey friends,here is a very heart touching,original love story of one of our blog friends.. Entho feel tho rasaadu.. Kasta peddadi ga untundi but please try to read it with patience untill the last line..!! Click read more..!!

My Love Never Ends…..Oka thikkalodi Story …

Na peru endukulendi..Chudadaniki peddaga attractive undanu. Inka cheppalante konchem blackga ..inka konchem lavuga unta …

Naaku chinnappati nundi ammayilu ante nacharu. Inka cheppalante Love ane word ante chiraku. Maa school days lo okariki okaru love ani chepthunte nalo nenu navvkunevadni.Antha maturega alochinchevadni. And Oka seniorla behave chesevadni. Maa class lo naakantu oka manchi impression undedhi. Assalu evvaritho ekkuva matladevadni kadhu. Naa pani nenu cheskunevadni. Inka ammayilatho assal matladevadni kadhu. Ammayilatho matladalanta chala bayam vesedi.Maa friends andharu ammyilu antunte…… nenu matram ammayilu waste ane vadni. Even maa Class girls natho matladadniki intrest pette vallu. But nenu asslu samadaname cheppevadni kadhu.

Ala naa school days gadichipoyayi.Appati varaku nenoka raayi type. Evvaitho matladevadni kadhu and chala innocent and bright student.
Tarwata nannu Inter hostel lo vesaru.akkada prabhavam valla nenu chala change ayyanu. Andharitho kalsipoyevadni.Tega allari chesevadni.Chala bubblyga undevadni.Nannu chusi maa parents shock tinnaru. Veedenti ila aayyadu ani. Off course results kuda shock itchai. Naa eamcet rank vini intlo vallu murcha poyyaru. Tarwata nenu engineering chennai lo chestha ani Intlo vallani oopincha. Kaani last momentlo Maa mummy edvadam valla cancel cheskoni councilling vellalsi vachindi. Councilling lo Naaku hyderabad ki 30 kms duram unna oka chetta college vachindi. Sarle edo oka college ani nen adjust aypoya. Maa college oka village lo untundi. Ma parents naaku ibbandi kalagakudadhani village lo oka room tiskoni naaku Vanta undadaniki maa amammani petti vellaru. A chinna palleturulo naaku chala chiraku puttedhi Daniki thodu maa college chendalanga undadam inka assal tattukolekapoya.

Maa Classlo 9 girls. 1st year mottam anni bunk’s.College antene nachedhi kadhu.Appudappudu velli vachevadni. Maa friends naa name gurthunchukolekha Pandu ani pettaru. Appati nundi andharu pandu ani pilichevaru. Ila first year ending ki vatchesindi.

Maa class mate peru Satya .Nenu ela attract ayyano naake gurthu ledhu. Classki vachinapudu chuse vadni. Nijam cheppalante thanu mari antha andhagatte em kadhu. Kaani naaku nachesindi .em nachindi ?eppudu nachindi ?ela nachindi ?ante matram …naaku telidhu.endhukante thana mayalo ela paddano kuda naaku gurthu ledhu.Chala maturega alochinche nenu edhi just oka attraction ani fix aypoyi Lite tiskunna. Cut chesthe 2nd year start ayyindi.Malli Nenu bunk’s start chesa.But vachina prathi sari a ammayini chusi vellipoyevadni. Anthaku minchi nenem cheyyalenu kada :P .

Satya chala manchi ammayi.inka chaduvu paranga naakante konchem better. Boys lo kondarithone matladuthundi.adi kuda chala limitga.Iddaru mugguru prapose chesina no ani cheppindi.thanu konchem laavuga untundi.But thana eyes and smile chuse nenu padipoya ankuntunna.
2-1 exams mundhu attendance lekha daily oka one month ravalsi vachindi. So ala roju vachi aa ammayini chusi fullaga Love lo padipoya.ala nenu a ammayini love chesthunna ane feeling naalo start ayyindi.Inka amani eppudu chudala ane excitementtho collegeki vellevadni.E matter gurinchi maa Gangki cheppalanukunna Kaani ikkada inko twist adi entante nenu chala lavuga unta then thanu lavuga untundi. So nenu e matter chepthe nannu comment chestharani Cheppaaledhu. Ala thanani moogaga aradhinchevadni.Kaani vere group friends sayayamtho tana phone num kaukkunna. Phonelo parichayam cheskundamanukunna but naa name cheppadame thanu reply ivvadam manesindi.Then ventane I LIKE YOU ani cheppa. Thanu intrest ledani simplega cheppesindi.Then Holidays…….

2-2 sem strated.Maa gang vallaki konchem konchemga nenu try chesthunna vishayam telsi comments start chesaru.Classlo okka gangtho matrame matladevadni. So nenu class andhariki daggara avvalane uddeshamtho Vere gangloki Jump ayya. Vallantha Racha gang.nenu valla gang lo easyga duresa.Ika appati nundi classlo Naanaa hungama chesevadni.Naaku fullga following perigipoyindi.nen class lo enter avvagane pandu…paNDU ani arichi gola chersevaaru. Inka mana level perigindi kada ani manam inka collegeki bike meeda vachevadni.

Oka fineday diryam techukoni thanani pilichi sorry ani cheppa. Maa friends andhru endhukura sorry annaru. Nenu thana numki msg chesa lera ani cheppa. Msg endhuku chesav ra ante..nenu thanani love chesthunna mama..ani cheppa… Inka appati nundi thanu lechina , kurchunna …Class andharu pandu ani arichevaaru.Nenu vaddura ala pilavoddu HOD ki complaint chesthundi ani entha cheppina vinaledhu.Maa kotha gang …Maa patha gang rendu kalsi Poti pettukoni mari aarichevallu.Thanu chinnaga nannu chusi navvedhi.maa friends andharu…chudu mama memu gola chesthunnam kabatti ammayi ninnu chusthundi anevallu.nenu matram eppudu vallani encourage chesevadni kadhu. Nenu b.tech joining lo naa weight 98kgs Than kosam tindi manesi. Jimki velli.Inka evado maa friend Rum tagithe taggutharu ante…adi kuda alavaatu cheskunna.Chala Side effects ..vachai naa Health antha padyipoyindi,then.Lastki 81kgs ki vatchesa.Nannu chusi maa parents kuda shock tinnaru. Ala a debbatho mana Facelo oka kala vachindi.Inka cheppalante full confidence vachindi.Inka appati nundi naalo oka kotta utsaham vachesindi anthe …thanatho three times exam ela raasav ? ani adiga …Thanu navvuthu baagane raasa ani cheppedhi.Ayna Manaki matladentha diryam ekkada sachindani :p e moodu mukkale ekkuva …. Ilage 2-2 kuda finish ..

Inka assalu gattam vachesindi.3-1 sem started.Inka nenu a ammayini chudakunda okka roju kuda undalekapothunna. Thana bus lo praveen ani maa friend vatchevaadu.vaadi num tiskoni thanu clgki vasthunda ravatledha ani kanukkoni mari vellevadni.Maa friends gola common thana smile common.Nenu common.

Oka fine day maa frinds andharu naa love story meeda chiraku puttindi. Inka yenni rojulu chusthav Velli prapose cheyara ani godava pettesaru.Inka thana venta Bus ekki mari bus stop lo face to face I LOVE You ani cheppesa.Thanu seriousga chusi am not Intrested ani cheppindhi.Nenu dissipointed Kaani maa firnds andhru arey lite mama girls andharu first ilane antaru ani nacha chepparu.Tarwaata oka one week thanani marchipodamanukunna…kaani kudarle.Inka appti nundi tha bus venakale velladam strat chesa.Okasari valla inti varaku follow ayyi vella.Than apartement chusi vatcha. Inka Holidays lo kuda nenu a aprtement chuttu tirigevadni.kaani eppudu thanu naaku kanipichedhi kadhu.Nenu eppudu thanani follow avvadam start chesano appude thanu naa vaipu ekkuva chusi navvedhi. Inka manam endhuku aagutham class antha rache.Malli naaku kotha asahalu chigurinchai.

But e lope Bad news …nenu drink chesthunna ani intlo telsindi.appude exams start avvabothunnai. Maa mom xamski nenu hydki vatchestha ani ikkadi vatchesindi.Maa dad and mom lanti parents inka evvariki undaru ani naa feeling.antha Baaga chuskuntaaru.Alanti vallani mosam cheyadam naaku badaga anipichindi.Mummy hydki vacharu kaani nannu emi analedhu.kaani nenu matram mummy ni kshaminchamani adiga .ippati nundi drink cheyanu amma ani bathimalada.Maa Mummy nannu excuse chesi inka eppudu ilantivi cheyyoddu ani edchukuntu chepparu.Even a scene naa kalla munde unnatlundi naaku.

So naa love story valla nenu chesina tappulento okkakkati naaku ardham avuthundi.Results nil. Maa frinds eppudu nenu chesedi tappu analedhu. Annitini encourage chesaaru.Frinds ante anthe ga mari.So nenu naa love storyki end pettadalchukunna…Thanani seriousga adagali love chesthunnava ? cheyyatledha ?? ani…
E vishayam telchadaniki eppati laane exam aypogaane thana bus venaka follow ayya …But thanatho matladalekapoya…
Next examki alane vella….e sari miss avvoddu anukunna.thanani follow avuthu vella suddenga vere apartementloki vellindi.Akkade wait chesthu kurchundi poya.Bike meeda oka abbayi And uncle vatcharu.ravadame maa bike keys lagesaaru.Evadra nuvvu ikkadem chesthunnav ani niladesaru.nenu alane chusthu undi poya.Maa friend edo covering chesthunnadu.e lopu thanu bayatiki vatchindi.a uncle e abbayena ani adigau ? thanu avunu andi.ventane….akkadiki police bike meeda vatchi mammlni tskelladu.Inka thanu and valla parents kuda PS ki vatcharu. Inka akkda naa gurinchi cheppindi chudandi

Veedu nannu 3yrs nundi naa venta paduthunnadu.
Eppudu classlo naa meeda gola chesi comment chesthu untadu
Pedda rowdy sir veedu…
Nenu roju clgki vasthunnano ledho praveen ani maa friend ni adigi mari clgki vasthadu…
Enni sarlu naa venta padoddu ani cheppina vinadu.
Nannu edipisthuntadu sir …

Ventane valla pedananna anukunta nannu bedirinchadu.nenu matram okka mukka kuda matladale.Inspecter nannu chempa chellumanipichadu.Daniki nenu feel avvale…kaani bike meeda vachina maa frndni matram chala darunanga kottaru.Thanu oka complaint raasi …vellipoyindi. Inka appati nundi..Tarwaata mammalni kottina constable vachi sorry babu mimmalni ila kottakapothe vallu mee meeda case pedatharu. Andhuke kottam ani challaga chepparu.

Inka nenu ela bayatapadalo ardham kale.Vachina prathi policeki naa story cheppadam vallu hyd porilu anthe babu..ani vellipovadam ..okkadu mammalni vadilipettaledhu.afternoon 2 nunchi evng 7 ayyindi.naa phoneki ma mummy phone chesi ekkada unnav ra….ani aduguthunnaru.nijam chepthe tattukoleru ani friend intlo ani cheppa.lastki main inspector vachi mee family nundi evvaru vachi sign pettina vadilestha annaru. Nenu maa frinds ki appudu phone chesi maa mummyki teliyakunda maa thammudni tiskocharu.kaani vaadu mammlni vadilipettale.Maa dad tho matladi vadilipedatha anaru.Maa dad ki phone chesi itcha.Maa daddy ni ela tittaro gurthu cheskunte…naaku ippatiki edupu vasthundi.A roju stationlo vinna titlu boothulu gurtechukunte naaku chachipovalani pisthundi.Last ki nannu vadilipettaru.
Roomki vellina nenu ma mummyki em cheppalo ardham kaledhu.Maa daddy next day vacharu hydki. appatiki maa dad emaindi ? ela jarigindi ani adagaledhu .Simplega collegeki vellaku ippati nundi only exams ee raayi annaru.Nenu maa dadni bathimilaadi oopincha clgki.
Next day a ammayi nannu collegelo kuda vadilipettaldhu.Principalki complaint chesindi.Then nenu diryange maa daddytho matladukomandi ani dircetga cheppesa.then maa dad and valla daddy kalsi agreement raskoni evari dhari vallu vellipoyaru.

Inka e vishayamlo naadhe tappu ani nenu anukuntunna.kaani maa frnds thande tappu antaru. Edhi emaina nannu konni vishayalu assalu ardham kaledhu .

Nenu thana venta 1 yr ee padda.E one yearlo nenu matldindhe 4 or 5 times.nenu eppudu comments cheyaledhu.Thanu eppudu nannu kopanga chudaledhu. And thanu emi innocent and siggu pade ammayi kadhu.

Okkasarina nenu na venta padoddu nenu maa parentski cheptha ani anochuga ??
Nuvvu ila gola cheyadam assalu baaledhu ani cheppochuga ??
Naa gurinchi oka rowdy la cheppi irikinchadam valla thanaki em labham ???

But nenu inka a ammayini marchipolekapothunna. May be thanu naaku first love kabatti emo…

Thanu chesina e adbhutham valla Turn avvalsina naa life Burn ayyindi..

Intlo naaku value lekunda poyindi.Naa meedha nammakam poyindi,Naa meeda oka rupai karchupettadaniki kuda intlo alochisthunnaru.Maa frinds nannu marchepoyaru. Naatho tirigina frinds naatho matladdame gaganam aypoyindi.Maa clglo nenoka road side romeo ga migilipoya.Maa college Girls drushtilo oka Physco laaga migilipoya.

E madhye naa valla intlo maa parents ki godavalu jaruguthunte …
Iddaru kalsi endhuku ila chesav ani nannu kottina bagundedhi kaani maa amma nanna nee valle ila ayyadu ante nee valle ila ayyadu ani kottukunnaru .Chusi tattukolekhapoya …Kattitho chey koskoni suscide attempt chesa…By luck bathiki ila naa story ni post chesthunna….

Enti Naa storylo comedy ledhu ani feel avuthunnaru kada andhuke oka comedy vishayam chepthunna …
Nenu a ammayini try chesthunnapudu maa friends andharu…adem nachindira dhani kante..nuvve baguntav ane vallu…Friends kada andhuke ala antunnaru…ani lite tiskunna…
Kaani Nenu Police stationlo paddapudu…naatho matladina prathi okka police…okate annaru …

“ ayna nuvvu a ammayi venakala ela paddav thammudu ?? adem nachindi neeku …e ammayi complaint itchindante navvosthundi . assalu neeku a ammayi lo em nachindi cheppu ??“
Ayna nenu ammayini chusana …thana kallani matrame chusa….Andhuke prema guddidhi antaru….


Enti naa meedha jali paduthunnara ??? vaddu ……..Naa story lo tappu naade kabatti shiksha naake padindi anukuntunna…Maari meerem antaru ?



MY LOVE NEVER ENDS
Peruleni thikkalodu,
With love :)

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MY solution for Bhavana garu's frnds problem

Hello friends,
Here is my suggestion or opinion regarding Bhavana garu's friend... Actually i took a lot of time to write something regarding this problem cozz if i say something tat might be a bit wrong to others,their relation might be much ruined..So please forgive me if i write something wrong..I jus wrote wat i felt...!!

Life lo adjustments anevi chala important.. Adjustment leni chota relation sariga undadu.. True love exist aye chance undadu..Konni special factors induku sahaaya padatayi... Vatilo naku telisinavi nenu pedutunna.. Tappuga matladite kshaminchandi..Idi kevalam na knowledge varake...!!




Trust: The key role in a relation is trust.Its like heartbeat in a relation.If trust is lost,it can never be gained.For example if in a relation,the guy committed some mistake which made his gal loose trust on him..Even after sometime in future,they tend to be a couple,she can never be as she was..She cant give her 100% love to him..It might be jus 99%. So trust once lost cant be won back completely..Its like a glass article broken.If a glass article is broken,it can jus be stuck by assembling the glass pieces but the cracks will remain for ever.. So never loose trust.. Be true always :)


Respect n compromise: Compromising is the key factor of maintaining a relation in the way we like..Its a common factor in a relation where either of the husband or wife may tend to become serious or may try to act as if you became serious on the other and would jus pretend to stop talking with them..But if this condition gets worse,it may lead to worst results like seperation..So either of the couple must compromise jus to maintain a smooth relation..If an argument is started,then either of the husband or wife should compromise else the situation may get worsen..!!


Unable to express: It might be in any matter,where you fail to express what you actually feel..this might lead to formation of gap at hearts.. A relation is something where it exactly needs true opinion about the other..For example she bought a new dress and you didnt like the way it looked...I mean it may have some flaw..You recognize that earlier itself but you didnt want her to feel for that by expressing it..Later it hurts her more when someone else points it out..!! There might be many other examples like this but feel free to express something before her..It might be hurting for some time but later when she realises the truth,she will feel happier..


Habbits: For example if the husband had the habbit of smoking/drinking or chitchatting with friends for late nights...it would be good before marriage bt after marriage,he should understand the situation and should try to adjust..same is the case with women where if they have the habbit of chatting with their friends,outing with her friends and all..even she should adjust according to the situation after marriage..Some couples have the feeling of over possessiveness...Like when they both are working,they should adjust to the situation where in they keep interacting with people of their opposite gender..So some situations are to be handled lite bt with proper care so as to make your relation a longlasting one


Income factor: A relation would last much longer with much sweetness when both feel that the income they have earned individually is combined and none think in an individualistic manner.. They should discuss now and then regarding the income,expenditure and the ways to save money for their future.. In such cases a relation would be just sweet and long lasting :)


Lack of sexual knowledge: Some people might be having unnecessary fears regarding their personal life where in they might have read something in books thatzz partially un true or might have heard somethings from friends that might be jus a rumour.. In such cases relationships tend to cease back its fragrance... When therezz mutual understanding between the couple,when there is a chance for both of them sharing their views regarding what actually the truth is,a relation would be much bounded.Else that would lead a very long distance seperation gap in between the couple




Egoistic Attitude: Its a common nature of a human to have some ego in his/her mind.But this ego will ruin the fragrance of your relation.So to have a smooth relation you should surely remove the egoistic nature at your heart and should be truthfully good to your loved ones.

Ivi kaakunda chala factors unnayi.Jus for time being ivi cheppa...So take care regarding these points and make your relation a happier one...!!

Keep rocking.,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Problem for which you should respond with a suggestion

Friends,here is a small problem that one of my blog friends Bhavana garu has posted.. Please respond it soon with your valuable comments..!!

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Hello Sriram

I'm Bhavana frm Vizag.. I've been following your blog articles since 5 months and am very glad to say that I became your big follower..Mainly for the articles tat you write..

With that leniance i am asking your help today.. To solve my friends personal life problem..
She lives in kolkata.. Telugu brahmins vallu..She is married to a guy recently but right from first day she isnt happy with her relation.. Some disturbances..But shezz nt clear about those..What and why anedi teliyatledu.. So can you tell me how to maintain a simple and cool smooth going relation..?? What are the necessary tips tat one should take in that..??

Asalu problem eantante she is unable to adjust with him nor he...Chinna disturbances anni pedda pedda godavala tho end avtunnai...Marriage ayina six months nundi vallu vidipodam ane chustunaru...Naaku emo vallani kalapaalane undi but eam cheyalo teliyatledu...
aa godavalu lekunda undali ante vellu teskovalsina jagrattalu eanti..??Vellani eam cheyamantaru..?Meerey eado okati cheyandi eadina chesi iddari madhya understanding ochela cheyandi please...!!Mee friends tho matladi ayina sare help cheyandi..!

Please friends eado okati suggest cheyandi...!!


Regards,
Bhavana



So friends,hope you try yyour best to suggest her the most possible ways to maintain a gud relation..!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Role of emotions in a woman's mind in a new relation

Oka ammayi vishayam lo emotions chala important role avutai.. To know how girls feel regarding emotions and this concept click read more...!!


Emotions play an important role in a relation.. Women mainly want to feel the emotion instead of listening or experiencing those emotions from you. Make her FEEL THINGS when she's with you.Women are suckers for emotion. They want to FEEL THINGS. They want to get INVOLVED. And when you are talking about 'dry' stuff like your job, the weather, and the dinner menu, she's not going to be feeling ANYTHING.
Do something to remove her boredom. If you want to be the kind of guy that she can't stop thinking about, you've got to involve her EMOTIONALLY ... and then SHE will do the rest.

And that doesn't necessarily mean 'talking about emotions'; it means being a fun, interesting guy who fills her up with all sorts of different feelings.
A good way to create emotions is to make her laugh. Be unpredictable. Talk to her about weird stuff.

So guys,try something different.. Dnt routinely try the same things... A girl is always precious..So make her happy with your words and make her feel great about you...!! Its your world,your relation and your time.. So rock on...!!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Live example to show WOMEN ARE REALLY VERY SPECIAL

A small live example to show how precious,special,how patient and how caring a woman is regarding her family...!!





Mum and Dad were watching TV when Mum said, "I'm tired, and it's
getting late. I think I'll go to bed."

She went to the kitchen to make sandwiches for the next day's
lunches. Rinsed out the popcorn bowls, took meat out of the
freezer for supper the following evening, checked the cereal box
levels, filled the sugar container, put spoons and bowls on the
table and started the coffee pot for brewing the next morning.
She then put some wet clothes in the dryer, put a load of clothes
into the washer, ironed a shirt and secured a loose button. She
picked up the game pieces left on the table, put the phone back on
the charger and put the telephone book into the drawer. She
watered the plants, emptied a wastebasket and hung up a towel to
dry. She yawned and stretched and headed for the bedroom.
She stopped by the desk and wrote a note to the teacher, counted
out some cash for the excursion and pulled a text book out from
hiding under the chair. She signed a birthday card for a friend,
addressed and stamped the envelope and wrote a quick note for the
grocery store. She put both near her bag.
Mum then washed her face with 3 in 1 cleanser, put on her Night
Solution & age fighting moisturizer, brushed and flossed her teeth
and filed her nails.
Dad called out, "I thought you were going to bed."
"I'm on my way," she said. She put some water into the dog's dish
and put the cat outside, then made sure the doors were locked and
the patio light was on.. She looked in on each of the kids and
turned out their bedside lamps and radios, hung up a shirt, threw
some dirty socks into the hamper, and had a brief conversation
with the one up still doing homework.
In her own room, she set the alarm; laid out clothing for the next
day, straightened up the shoe rack. She added three things to her
6 most important things to do list. She said her prayers, and
visualized the accomplishment of her goals.
About that time, Dad turned off the TV
and announced to no one in particular. "I'm going to bed." And he
did...without another thought.
Anything extraordinary here? *Wonder why women live longer...?
'CAUSE THEY ARE MADE FOR THE LONG HAUL.......
(and they can't die sooner, they still have things to do!!!!)WHY WOMEN ARE SO SPECIAL . . .

So never under estimate her or leave her to her own things..Try to take part in tat work so that she may feel a bit relieved of that work... Help your mom and she can never forget even the small help that you did...!!


Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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