Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Symptoms of Infatuation or Attraction

Many pass the stage of INFATUATION or also called as ATTRACTION in some stage of life.... What actually might be the reasons of it..?? Am listing a few Symptoms of Infatuation here that came to my mind.. If you know any others then please do list them in the comments section..!!





There are some feelings we have when infatuated that we don’t have when we’re feeling love. Some of the “symptoms” of infatuation are; feelings of panic, uncertainty, overpowering lust, feverish excitement, impatience, and/or jealously.

When infatuated, we are thrilled, but not happy, wanting to trust, yet suspicious. There are lingering, nagging doubts about our “partner ininfatuation ” and their love for us. We’re miserable when they’re away, almost like we’re not complete unless we’re with them. It’s a rush and it’s intense. It’s difficult to concentrate. And mostinfatuation relationships have a high degree of sexual charge around them. Somehow being with them is not complete unless in ends in some type of sexual encounter.
Do any of these “symptoms” resemble feelings of love? Hardly. So why do we become infatuated? Where does it come from? Perhaps it’s biological.

When infatuated we experience a surge of dopamine that rushes through the brain causing us to feel good. Norepinephrine flows through the brain stimulating production of adrenaline (pounding heart). Phenylethalimine (found in chocolate) creates a feeling of bliss. Irrational romantic sentiments may be caused by oxytocin, a primary sexual arousal hormone that signals orgasm and feelings of emotional attachment. Together these chemicals sometimes override the brain activity that governs logic.

The body can build up tolerances to these chemicals so it takes more of the substance to get that special feeling of infatuation. People who jump from relationship to relationship may be craving the intoxicating effects of these substances and may be “infatuation junkies”.

When the chemical flood dries up, the relationship either moves into a loving romantic one or there is disillusionment, and the relationship ends...!


So dear readers,please try to differentiate your relationship status in your minds before taking any decisions....Enjoy the fragrance of the relationship thats named LOVE...!

Keep rocking,
Regards,
SriRam Mallik

Friday, June 17, 2011

9 Tips for Guys for letting his girl knw how PRECIOUS she is..Love Tips for GUYS


Hello people....... This article is dedicated to all the dynamic guys in my blog. Last week i have written an article and dedicated it to girls.. So its time for a dedication to the guys nw :D





# Make a CD of your and her favorite love songs, then record (in your voice) a special, romantic message at the end!

# Write her a poem (Google for the best Romantic Poetry for inspiration)

# Leave little notes around telling her things you love about her.

# Let her rest her head in your lap/on your chest very close to heart.

# If she's feeling stressed out, give her a massage and help her work out a better way to do things.

# If she makes dinner, offer to do the dishes.

# Always be a gentleman--hold the door for her.

# Give her the same respect you enjoy from her.

# Make an effort to get to know (and if you can, love) her family.

Do not neglect her or ignore her even in ur worst times..A girl always loves to be treated as a kid(AGREE WITH ME..?? ) So treat her as your own child ..Keep making her Happier at every stage and enjoy your life....
Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

10 tips to girl readers :)


Ten small tips for girls..... Hope you will surely like them for sure.. Jus to make her guy feel that none will be as special to him as she is..!!




My dear buddies,Mainly Girls[:D]


# Do something he would probably never expect - Send "Him" flowers!

# Spend intimate time with him. No television, no telephone, no computer, just you and him.

# Always respect him. Respect is one of the things men treasure the most in relationships.

# Touch him affectionately: put your hand on the small of his back, run your fingers through his hair, using your fingertips, lightly trace the inside of his forearm.

# Tell him he is "handsome," "rugged," and "strong", try not to use "cute."

# Surprise him with a candle-lit dinner.

# Tell him that you feel safe when you're in his arms.

# Encourage him in whatever he does-sports, work, whatever.

# Watch sports with him, even if it isn't your thing.

# Forgive him when he messes up.


Please avoid the feeling of EGO and care him as if he is a small kid awaiting for your love,affection and care...!Plzzz have the feeling of forgiveness and take care about your relation...Hope you have a happy life...!
Keep Rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.




Sunday, June 12, 2011

Tips to be followed while Proposing a girl.. How to propose a girl..??


How to Propose to a Girl The million dollar question.....!! Proposing a girl is not an easy task...For all the rocking Guys visiting my blog,herez a wonderful article for you all..Click read more..!





How to propose a girl. As hard as it is to understand a woman's heart and mind, so it is hard to prepare for one of the beautiful moments of your life: asking your lover to accept your love.

What is actually important is the way you plan it up..!!

When approaching this exciting and romantic event you might want to take into account a few points to think of:
• What do you enjoy doing together – throughout your relationship you've sure realized what she enjoys doing, and places she enjoys visiting. These experiences should give you excellent ideas of how to propose to your girl.

• Things she told you during your relationship such as: I love bouquets of yellow flowers, I am crazy about chocolate, I think Paris is the prettiest place in the world. All these hints can come as useful guide-lines for you while planning how to propose to a girl.

• Your image of the 'perfect love or marriage proposal' – you are part of the proposal too! It’s not only about her, but about two people uniting as one. Note that you like your idea of how to propose your girl. It’s a beautiful moment and you should both enjoy it.

• Give her a surprise.Dont try a routine method..Think of something innovative and plan in such a way that she will be really excited on getting the plan revealed and should feel that no one is ellgible than you..Hope you will have a wonderful relation that lasts for ever.....

Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.


Friday, June 10, 2011

A technique to get out of Depression..AFFIRMATION


To all those people who are feeling depressed at regular intervals of time,or who are in depression...Here is a small technique to get out of tat depressed situations... This is my personal feeling cozz i daily say this to myself when ever i feel depressed..Hope it will be helpful to you also :D






This post is just to guide u in the suitable path just to have a better day,a colorful week,a sweetened month,a wonderful year and an awesome life...Correct ga follow ayite you can have a better future…..Its regarding the AFFIRMATION that one has to take as an oath everyday morning..

According to Ralph Waldo Emerson who has accurately said that "One of the illusions of life is that the present hour is not the critical, decisive hour. Write it on your heart that every day is the best day of the year." We can observe that TODAY is always an important day. That problem you solve, that decision you make, that time you enjoy can shape your whole life. The way you and I ap¬proach today, and each day, is crucial. Our lives are built by a series of days like today.





I discovered an affirmation that can help in living each day fully:


1. Today I will live through the next 24 hours and not try to tackle all of life's problems at once.
2. Today I will improve myself, body, mind and spirit.
3. Today I will refuse to spend time worrying about what might happen if...
4. Today I will not imagine what I would do if things were different. They are not dif¬ferent. I will do my best with what material I have.
5. Today I will find the grace to let go of resentments of others and self-condemnation over past mistakes.
6. Today I will not try to change, or improve, anybody but me.
7. Today I will act toward others as though this will be my last day on earth.
8. Today I will be unafraid. I will enjoy what is beauti¬ful, and I will be¬lieve that as I give to the world, the world will give to me.

Whether these are the best of times or the worst of times, these are the only times we've got.. Live each day fully and you will look back on a life that made a difference.
Please let me know the feedback regarding this article..!
Keep rocking,
Regards and With lots of Love,
SriRam Mallik.


Tuesday, June 7, 2011

LOVE LETTER of a TEEN AGE guy(In Q/A format).... TIT for TAT reply by the GIRL


A teenage college guy sent a love letter (in Q/A format) to his classmate. Read the complete thing and see how the girl answers him in the same format..!!
Thnxx Ammu for such hilarious mail :D




A teenage college guy sent a love letter (in Q/A format) to his classmate.

My Dearest Reshma,
Please answer the following questionnaire. Select (a), (b) or (c)

1) Whenever you enter the class room, your sight always falls on me because:

(a) of love
(b) you couldn’t control seeing me
(c) really … am I doing it?

2) Whenever professor cracks joke, you laugh and turn and look at me because:

(a) you always like to see me smiling
(b) you are testing whether I like jokes
(c) you are attracted by my smile

3) When you were singing in the class, I entered and immediately you stopped singing because:

(a) you are so coy to sing before me
(b) my presence influenced you
(c) you feared that whether I’ll like your song

4) When you were showing your childhood photo, when I asked for it, you hide it because:

(a) you felt ashamed
(b) you felt uneasy
(c) you don’t know

5) During trekking, myself and my friend gave you hand for lifting you and you took only my friend’s because:

(a) you enjoyed my disappointment
(b) you won’t feel leaving my hand after grabbing
(c) you don’t know

6) You were waiting yesterday for bus and didn’t get into your bus…

(a) you were waiting for me
(b) you were dreaming about me and didn’t notice the bus
(c) that bus was crowded

7) You introduced me to your parents when they came to college because:

(a) I am going to be your groom
(b) you just want to know what your parents think about me
(c) just you felt like introducing me to them

8) I told that I like girls wearing roses. Next day, you came with a rose on your head because:

(a) to fulfill my wish
(b) you like roses
(c) by chance you got a rose

9) On that day, it was my birthday. you too came to temple early at 6:00 A.M because:

(a) you want to pray along with me
(b) you want to meet me before any one could meet on my birthday
(c) you want to wish me at temple because you are spiritual.

Your score:
For Options
(A) 10 marks,
(b) 5marks and
(c) 3 marks.
If you have scored more than 40, then you are loving me. Don’t delay in expressing it.

If you have scored between 30 and 40, love is budding in your heart and it’s getting ready to bloom. If you have scored less than 30, you are in confusion whether to love me or not.

Eagerly awaiting your reply..

Love, Aakash


Reshma’s reply letter was also in Q/A format……

Aakash,
Please answer the following Yes/No questionnaire.

1) If somebody sits in the first row, normally people entering the class, sees them.

(a) Yes (b) No

2) If a girl laughs and looks anyone, is it love?

(a) Yes (b) No

3) While singing, if somebody forgets lines of the songs, will he/she stop singing or not?

(a) Yes (b) No

4) I was showing to my friends (who are all girls) my childhood photo.

You poked your nose inside….. right ?

(a) Yes (b) No

5) I avoided to hold your hand during trekking. Couldn’t you understand yet?

(a) Yes (b) No

6) Should I not wait for my best friend (Anjali) at the bus stand?

(a)Yes (b) No

7) Shouldn’t I introduce you to my parents as a friend?

(a) Yes (b) No

8) You have said you also like Lotus, cauliflower, banana’s flower. Is it true ?

(a) Yes (b) No

9) Oh was that your birthday. That’s why I could see you in temple. I come daily to Temple. Do you know ?

(a) Yes (b) No

If you have answered “Yes” to any of the question, then I am not loving you. If you have answered “No”, then you don’t know the meaning of Love.

Hope everything is clear to you!







Hahahaha jus loved this mail... Hope you all have enjoyed it too...
Thnx once again to my frnd Ammu(Ammajee) for sharing this with us..
Keep rocking..!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

Saturday, June 4, 2011

QUESTIONS BY SAI PREM(In Both languages)

Hey friends,one of our blog friends' SAI PREM has sent me a mail with a few questions that he got.. So please try to answer them with your comments.. I've posted the questions in both the languages so as to make it easy for you to understand..!!





Telugu Version:
1) Prema jeevitham lo manishiki okkasare kalugutunda..??

2) Devudiki pray cheste mana talaraatha maaruthunda..??

3) Meeru denini ekkuva ga nammutaru..LOVE OR FRIENDSHIP...??

4) Meeku jeevitham lo edina pedda korika unda..??

5) Meeru jeevitham lo eadi lekunda bratakalevu..??

6) Addam lo mimmalni meeru chuskuni eam anukuntaru..??

7) Okavela ivala mee jeevitham lo aakhari roju ayite eam koorukuntaru..??

8) One side love best aa kaadha..??

9) Asalu enduku preminchali..??

10) Prema ni evaru kanipettaro telusa..??

11) Meeru preminchina abbayi/ammayi pelliki meeru veltara..??

12) Premisthe eam vastundi..eam raadu..??

13) Ee rojullo prema elantidi..??Appati prema ki ippati prema ki teda unda..??

14) Ammayilu ekkuva premistara leka abbayila..??

15) Premisthe praanam istam ani antaru kada.adi nijamena..?Eam batiki saadhinchalera aa premani..??

16) Asalu prema ante eanto 3 mukkallo cheppu..!!

17) Prema-Aakarshana-Kaamam...Veeti madhya teda ni manam kanipettakalama?? Okavela kanipettakaligite ela..??



In English
1) Does LOVE encounter with a human being jus once in a life time??

2) Does praying to God change our fate..??

3) Which do you trust the most..Is it love or friendship..??

4) Do you have any big desire in your lifetime..??

5) Without which essential thing,you cant survive or what is the thing that you cannot live without??

6) Looking at yourself in the mirror what do you feel..??

7) If its your last day on earth then what would you feel like asking/wat would you ask god..?

8) Is one sided love the best thing ever..??

9) Why exactly should we LOVE..??

10) Who is the founder or inventor of LOVE..??

11) Will you attend the marriage function of your loved one..??

12) What do you gain by loving..and what do you loose by loving..??

13) How is today's generation love..??Is there any difference in between the love of today's generation and the older generation..??

14) Who loves the most..Is it the women or the men..??

15) Many say that they will sacrifice their life for LOVE..But why cant they really try to succeed in their life for that LOVE..??Why dont they live to win that love..??

16) Define LOVE in jus three words..!!

17) Can we differentiate between LOVE-ATTRACTION-PHYSICAL INFATUATION..?? IF yes then how..?