Breakup...?? How long shuld u think before you break up..!!

Present days,break up has become a fashion... People find themselves out of a relation with in no time..It became a common culture that friends find themselves infatuated to the other gender,start a relation and in no time breakup.I've observed that girls take more time to comeout of this situation..So here is an article how girls should react if they are almost nearing the breakup situation.. You may be in love wid someone and one day all of sudden you find him ignoring you or you can feel his absence disturbing you all of sudden...Why and what should u do..
For all this time you feel that you are in the most beautiful love story with a man that you really love, everything seems perfect. But one day, unexpectedly, he suddenly disappears without any reason. He doesn’t reply your sms, he doesn’t pick up the phone, and his friends seem reluctant to tell you where he is now. You begin to wonder, what’s wrong with this relationship?

Man needs space..."John Gray, the author of the phenomenal book ‘Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus’, says that sometimes the Mars creature feels that he loses his identity when he has emotional closeness with a Venus creature".

Man is like a rubber band, sometimes he stretches away, but one day he will return to his previous place.However, in many cases woman often panics and thinks that the world will be ended when her dream man can’t be contacted. She will start to send hundreds of sms and call the man for many times. Well … actually if she could little bit calm down and stops to be a drama queen, she will get the answer why her boyfriend
stays away from her.


There are many reason why man wants to stay away from woman, such as he is really busy and doesn’t want to be disturbed, he is doing a long meeting, he forgets to bring his cell phone, or he needs time for himself etc. If you send many sms or call him for many times, he will feel being intimidated or becomes a suspect, and as a result, he will be reluctant to explain what actually happened when he was not with you. Rather than panic and stress,you better do some cool activities with your friends, choose activity that can be done together with friends, because friends can help to release your sadness, sometimes acting as if you were a single woman will be fun too ;)




So how long should you wait....??

You’ve tried to fill your spare time with various activities, but unfortunately he hasn’t come to you. Now the problem is, how long should you wait for him patiently? The answer is, it depends on your limit of tolerance and also your needs; it could be a day, a week, a month or even more than that. Every person has different character, there is a girl who wishes that her boyfriend should call her at least three times in a day, but in other hand, there’s a girl who doesn’t mind if her boyfriend calls her only at the weekend.


If your relationship is still new, it is possible if you’ve not had opportunity to talk about this matter with him, so no wonder if there’s misunderstanding between you and him.



Maybe you wish that he wants to call you every day, while on the other hand he thinks that he doesn’t need to send ‘breaking news’ about his daily activities everyday.

If one day he comes back to you again, you better discuss about this matter to him, say honestly that you mind if he rarely contacts you. If he is really busy, ask him to send you sms at least once in a day, so you won’t feel worried about him. But if he feels objected to meet your request, it could be that you and he have different wish and expectation about love relationship.

Is he serious with this relationship..?

You have waited for him for long time, but he still doesn’t come and explain about his absence from your life, even he is increasingly difficult to be reached. If this happens, maybe it’s time for you to review about your relationship with him. Does he have the same feeling with you? Does he consider you as a girlfriend? Do you both have conflicting expectations?
For example: you want to get married as soon as possible, while he just wants to do casual relationship.


Ideally if one of the couple wants to end the relationship, he has to do it with ethic, he can’t ignore you just like that. But in the reality, there’s always someone who hasn’t grown-up enough and chooses to run away from his responsibility. If this happens to you, you do not need to spend a lot of time to analyze about what he has done to you and make you more miserable. Just believe if he is not the right guy and he doesn’t deserve to get your love.

Your life is too precious to be given to someone who doesn’t have any responsibility. Am very sure that "You will be fine without him if you really think that YOU ARE PRECIOUS" :)
So keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Why are Women so Special

Did you ever wonder why women are so special..?? Want to know whats the reason for why people keep saying that WOMEN ARE SO SPECIAL..?? Go ahead and read a small story which explains why women are so special..!!

Mum and Dad were watching TV when Mum said, "I'm tired, and it's getting late. I think I'll go to bed." She went to the kitchen to make sandwiches for the next day's lunches.
Rinsed out the popcorn bowls, took meat out of the freezer for supper the following evening, checked the cereal box levels, filled the sugar container, put spoons and bowls on the table and started the coffee pot for brewing the next morning.
She then put some wet clothes in the dryer, put a load of clothes into the washer, ironed a shirt and secured a loose button. She picked up the game pieces left on the table, put the phone back on the charger and put the telephone book into the drawer. She watered the plants, emptied a wastebasket and hung up a towel to
dry.

She yawned and stretched and headed for the bedroom. She stopped by the desk and wrote a note to the teacher, counted out some cash for the excursion and pulled a text book out from hiding under the chair. She signed a birthday card for a friend,addressed and stamped the envelope and wrote a quick note for the grocery store. She put both near her bag. Mum then washed her face with 3 in 1 cleanser, put on her Night Solution & age fighting moisturizer, brushed and flossed her teeth
and filed her nails.

Dad called out, "I thought you were going to bed."



"I'm on my way," she said. She put some water into the dog's dish and put the cat outside, then made sure the doors were locked and the patio light was on.. She looked in on each of the kids and turned out their bedside lamps and radios, hung up a shirt, threw some dirty socks into the hamper, and had a brief conversation with the one up still doing homework.In her own room, she set the alarm; laid out clothing for the next day, straightened up the shoe rack. She added three things to her 6 most important things to do list. She said her prayers, and
visualized the accomplishment of her goals.



About that time, Dad turned off the TV and announced to no one in particular. "I'm going to bed." And he did...without another thought.


Anything extraordinary here? *Wonder why women live longer...?
'CAUSE THEY ARE MADE FOR THE LONG HAUL.......
(and they can't die sooner, they still have things to do!!!!)

This is the reason WHY WOMEN ARE SO SPECIAL...!!

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Facebook founder(Mark Zuckerberg) love story

I believe most of you use facebook in your day to day life.Did you ever try to know about the founder of facebook,Mark Zuckerberg's personal life...?? This young billionaire has a wonderful lovestory as well..So why delay..?? Read it in detailed
The founder of the facebook and also the billionaire of the company updated his status in social networking site that he is married to Prischilla Chan. This event occurred when the facebook went public through initial public offerings and started his company's share in the market. The ceremony took place at his Palo Alto home with just fewer guest approximately to 100. He was loving his girlfriend for more than 9 years. Facebook started in 2004 Zuckerberg and they met at the Harward and began their relationship and his girlfriend Priscilla Chan completed her graduation from University of California and now she is a doctor of pediatrician. In the facebook timeline of Mark Zuckerberg he has written that he is very much proud of Dr. Priscilla Chan

Nothing is more special than the bond two people share when they are in love with each other. Mark Zuckerberg’s is a sweet story about a couple who came to see their dreams, of being with each other, come true. And it’s not just any love story either. It involves one of the youngest billionaire in the world, and his long-time girlfriend, Priscilla Chan. As you all might know, Mark Zuckerberg is owner of the world’s most popular social network, Facebook. The couple tied the knot on 19th May 2012, just a day after Facebook went public. This very fact has sparked countless controversies all over the internet regarding Zuckerberg’s intentions of side-stepping California’s communal property law. Be that as it may, this has been one of the most romantic marriages, and also one of the most talked about. Already, Zuckerberg’s wedding event has more like than Facebook’s IPO.



About the couple (in short):

Mark Zuckerberg, who just turned 28, is one of the world’s youngest billionaire, and is the CEO of Facebook. Since Facebook’s Initial Public Offering on 18th May, Zuckerberg has become a $20 billion man. He is the largest individual shareholder with 28.4% of common stocks, and he also has 56.9% of the voting power, which effectively makes him CEO of the company, and one of the most influential CEOs at that.

Zuckerberg’s wife, Priscilla Chan 26, is an american with Chinese origin. The two were fellow students and they met back in 2003 at a party. And they have been dating ever since. Chan is a pediatrician recently graduated from University of California, San Francisco school of medicine. This decade-long love story finally came to its zenith on saturday this weekend.
The ceremony itself wasn’t much. It was held in Zuckerberg’s backyard, and with fewer than 100 guests present. Only close friends and family were present. They were lured there on the pretense of celebrating Chan’s graduation from medical school. Little did the guests knew they were going to attend the wedding of the decade! What makes this marriage so special is the love between the couple, despite the difference in ethnicity. And of course, it involves a man who is a billionaire twenty times over! It’s a real wonder how the two managed to keep their relationship from the ever gossip-hungry paparazzi!

According to people close to the couple, the two wrote down their own vows. And their pet dog Beast, a sheepdog whose pictures they couple has been sharing, walked the bride down the aisle. Isn’t that cute? It was nothing like a conventional, bombastic wedding. It was unique and one of its kind, perfect for showing the love the couple has for each other

This is the video regarding their marriage that most of you might have seen on youtube

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3pWq-abk_U&feature=player_embedded#!


Hope the couple would have a wonderful life ahead and lets all wish him a very happy married life ahead.
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Adolf Hilter's love story

Did anyone ever thought that a dictator..one of the most serious personz of the history,ADOLF HITLER ever had a love story..?? Interesting isnt it..??
I believe its tough to imagine a rock hearted person like Hitler(famous during the world wars) would have a love story and there would be a beautiful girl who loved him madly..??
Yes,its true. Somethings are hard to believe/digest..isnt it..? but they exist and are true. she was a model and fashion photographer too..she was madly in love with him and followed him till his death. See how fortunate the German dictator was to have a such a soul mate , OK with out having to wait let see who she is ?
Her name is EVA BRAUN.
They first meet:




Eva Braun met Hitler in Munich when she was 17. She was working as an assistant and model for Hitler's personal photographer and she soon wrote a letter to Hitler saying , it was just a love at first sight.

" From our first meeting I sware to follow you anywhere - even unto death - I live only for your love "



Initially Hitler was not much impressed with her, but when she tried to committed suicide twice, he realised her love towards him and had taken him with her and they were living together, but Hitler kept their relation a secret and she was confined to the house itself.
But still she continued to love him desperately for 15 years before they got married ,, waiting him for him and thinking of him was her life,, one such letter is here, written by her to Hitler

"Geliebter,

I am beside myself. I am dying of anxiety now that I know you are in danger. Come back as soon as possible. I feel as if I am going insane.

The weather is beautiful here and everything seems so peaceful that I am ashamed of myself ... You know I have always told you that I would die if anything happened to you. From our first meeting on, I have promised myself to follow you wherever you go, even to death. You know that I live only for your love.

Yours Eva"





She was passionate of modelling, photography,Pet Dogs,Yoga & Sun bath, she used to spend her lonely days at house by taking photographs, playing with her pet dog and writing letters to Hitler. she was very good human being and a adorable lover to Adolf Hitler.

It is understood that she loved him madly, but what about Hitler? Did he love her ?
That's an interesting question which pops up.. yeah he did.. though he did not love here as madly as she did, but he loved her .he cared for her and you can see a portrait of Eva braun sketched by ADOLF HITLER, I guess you people are aware that Hitler is a good Painter, but could not get admission into Academy of Fine Arts - Vienna, had he got admission into the arts college the story would have been different


After 15 long years, her wait was over and Hitler decided to marry her and that was the most unforgettable moment in her life. when she was at the age of 33 and he was 57, finally they got married on April 30, 1945 and 48 hours later they both committed suicide , she had taken cyanide and Hitler took cyanide and shot him selves with pistol as they don't want to die in hands of enemies.She did what she had mentioned in the letter she followed him to death too.

" From our first meeting I swore to follow you anywhere - even unto death "

Hats off Eva, Undoubtedly Eva is one among the world's greatest lovers. she deserves to be , what do you say..??
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Comparision Bwn a guy's words n eyes

Here is a small comparison between a guy's words and what his eyes feel.. His words mean something but his heart feels something different.. So to know more click read more..!!

He says.."I don't love you..."
His eyes.. say"I'm crazy about you.. ? .."

He says.."I'm happy without you.."
His eyes say.."I'm nowhere without you.. ? .."
...
He says.. he has many to take care of him..
His eyes say.."But.. no one cares like you do .. ? .."



He asks me to hold some one else's hand..
His eyes say.."never leave me.. ? .."

He says.."you're just a good friend.."
His eyes say.."I can't see you to be someone else's.. ? .."

He says.."Go away"
His eyes say.."stay till my last heartbeat.. ? .."

He says.."Don't kiss me.."
His eyes say.."Don't follow my words.. ? .."

He says.."wait for now.."
His eyes say.."let's fall for each other.. ? .."

He says.."I'm confused.."
His eyes say.."I JUST LOVE YOU.. ?.. ?

So finally a girl who can read what his heart feels and what his eyes say can easily be splendid..!! She would become the true love of that guy..!!

Keep loving,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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