QUALITIES & CHARACTERISTICS OF TRUE LOVERS IN THIS GENERATION

Hiiiiiiiiiiii readers,Today I am presenting an article about two people,who are basically true lovers...The best part of this article lies in analyzing the qualities of true lovers,their characteristics and the way they think and act accordingly..Click Read More..!!

P.S. : This post might lead to a few controversies at some points so please feel free to write your opinions as comments.Whole hearted comments are always welcome :)


They are two people who choose to come together to share minds and thus realities: to enrich their experiences of life.
They are mindful in their relationship and find reasons to come together rather than excuses to be apart.

They are clean, meaning they are not dragging any 'old partners' around with them. They realise that everyone else in their lives are only there because they want them to be there; otherwise they would be a distant memory.

They take responsibility for themselves, individually, and care for each other: leaving behind any compromises for financial advantage.

They live for their own truth and thus are not concerned by the opinions of others.

They have a sharing attitude - "what's mine is yours."

They never use or abuse each other but only give to one another.

They constantly move forward in their lives, individually and together.

They trust each other because they are brutally honest with each other.

They help each other grow and encourage each other, delighting in each other's achievements.

They work at letting go of controlling one another in favour of loving one another.

They view lovemaking(physical activity) as the natural extension of the joy they experience from sharing on all levels rather than the reason for the relationship itself.

They value their intimacy(for married people only :P) and keep it sacred, excluding all others.

They know that when one can genuinely forgive then one can always find love whether for the other or for self.

They are committed and loyal to each other because they know that without that any words spoken are empty.

They are flexible and tolerant because they understand that becoming absolutely truthful is a journey that doesn't 'just happen' overnight.

They are the people who truely love each other.

Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik...!!

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Do you agree if i say Mother's love is Unconditional..?Check out my views

Hi friends.howzz you all..??This article is specially dedicated to all the motherzz who are reading this blog..I took these many days to analyze and to present all my feelings in this article..Dont forget to read it till the end...Click read more..!

For most mothers, the love they feel for their children is a strong and powerful bond that will continue throughout their lives. The love that a mother feels for her child is the same whether the child was grown in their own body or in their heart, as when a mother adopts a child.

Do you know how a mother always feels..?? She would always say this to herself..."My children are dear to me and I find it hard to see them in pain. I feel like a mother hen watching over her baby chicks. Children are tough in some areas, but always need to know they are loved, wanted and are priceless to us, at any age. Even when our children don't need us any longer to tie their shoestrings or to wipe their noses, they still need to know that we care. Often a child will not feel the impact of their mother's love until they become a parent themselves or their mother is no longer living. Then, the power of a lifetime of love their mother provided sets in". These words are often heard here and there by any parent..I have re-collected them in my mind and have mentioned only a few of them..If you ask the same question for your mother then you would get almost the same answer that might differ in the way they express..!

To love and accept your children, even when they are driving you nuts and when their behavior is horrid is most challenging. But the mix of unconditional love and loving limits are the most important duties and responsability a mother can have. Hugs and kisses are a necessity. Love can be expressed in many other ways too, including the discipline and responsibility we give to our children. Eye contact and a simple touch on the shoulder or a love pat on the back mean so much and cost so little. Try today to think of ways you can show your children how much you love and value them.

Here are a few demonstrations of love I have found from many people of my age,many children are fond of. You can adapt these suggestions according to the ages of your child.

Children often tend to share their feelings with their friends rather than sharing them with their parents.This is because of the communication gap that you are creating between yourselves..So let this not happen..Try to become their best friends and stay close to their hearts,not only as a friend but also as a mother..!!

Outward expressions of affection for your husband such as holding hands and warm hugs are good examples of love and security you can give to your children.

Tuck little thoughtful love notes in their lunches, written on a napkin or notepaper or under their pillow.

Saying a simple, "I love you!" A smiley face or you're the greatest!

Ask them to read to you - whatever they want - for 10 minutes.

Spend time listening - this is sometimes hard with an active lifestyle,but more important than ever. Even 5 minutes can do wonders for a child's self image. Remember good eye contact is one of the keys. Pull yourself away from the computer or desk and sit with them face to face. Mirror their body language, moving forward as they do, or sitting on the floor with them.

For younger children even up to 10 years old, holding them on your lap for a minute or two might seem silly, but most kids miss the times when they were younger and were just held and comforted.


Share in their hobby or interest. Look at what they can do - kids love to show off to their parents, so watch. Listen for, "Watch this mom!" Put down what you're doing and really watch and praise them for their effort. Encourage them to keep trying. Smile and verbally respond.

Surprise them by buying their favorite magazine without being asked to. Just put it in their room with a little note - Thought of you today! Love, Mom

In some occassions,try to be silly for atleast a few seconds,for example where parents eat finishers like ice creams/salad first and then the main course; kids love it when their parents are silly at times.

Let the children make their own family photo scrapbook - try color copying some of photos in your photo albums - this way you are not losing valuable photos if they cut them up. Old cards and gift-wrap can make nice backgrounds and borders.

The best way to let them know you care is to hear it from you. Even the big kids need to hear this. They might act as if they are annoyed, but it is sinking in.

Whichever way you choose to share your feelings remember to do something each day. Experts agree that if a child receives their nurturing inside of the family, they are less inclined to look outside to others that might have other motives. Create a home where love is shown. Any parents, whether rich or poor, can afford this.

These simple and free actions can have a significant influence on our children's daily lives that will last for a lifetime. The cycle of love between you as a mother and your child will be passed on to their children all over again. Stop and enjoy them now. Before you know it, they will be grown and this time will be lost.I would always term MOTHER's LOVE as UNCONDITIONAL LOVE..So let this terminology be as such...Keep loving,keep rocking..!!

Start today!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Awesome message regarding the topic NEVER DELAY IN EXPRESSING YOUR FEELINGS..!!

One of the best messages that I have ever got...Tells us how important it is to convey our love and feelings to our loved ones..! Click READ MORE

Her diary

Today was the last day we met..
i thought he would propose he didnt..
he doesnt love me,crazy me..
how could i even assume dat..
i didnt look back i didnt want to show my tears to him..
the pain broke my heart when he walked away..
want him to be happy frever bcoz thinking abt old time,i can spend the rest of my life...!



His diary

I saw her beautiful face last time..
saw her smile and wanted to tell her that she means more than my life,bt she didnt even give me a glance...
she is really pretty i dnt deserve her..
i let go my angel today..
bt she will be burried in my heart till my last breath...!!


Conclusion

TEARS


So always convey your feelings to the ones you like or love...Might be a difficult task but remember Swami Vivekananda's words...
OPPORTUNITIES KNOCK YOUR DOOR VERY RARELY...IT DEPENDS ON YOU WHETHER YOU WILL OPEN THE DOOR OR NOT...SO friends,be wise and act wise..Keep loving,Keep rocking..!!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Special Moments of life..!!

Hiiiiiiiiiii friends.....Sriram Mallik is back with a bang...Sorry that I couldnt update the blog for two weeks...Took time and came back for you all..I promise that I will update my blog regularly from now...!!Click read more..!!

I dedicat this article to all of you..To everyone of you :D Click read more..!!

In life there are moments,
when you miss someone so much, that you wish you could grab them out of your dreams and hug them tight!
When a door closes, Another one opens, But often we stand there so long looking at the closed door, That we do not see that one that’s opened.

Do not look at physical appearances, they can be deceiving.
Do not look at riches, For they are only temporary.

Look for someone who makes you smile.
Because sometimes it only takes a smile to brighten up a very dark day.
Look for someone who makes your heart sing.
Dream what you want to dream;
Go where you want to go;
Try to be who you really are;

Because life is short, and often only gives one chance to do things..

I wish you in life a lot of luck to feel good;

Many trials to remain strong;

Some tears to remain human;

Lots of hope, to become happy.

The really lucky people do not necessarily have the best of everything;

They are the ones who make the most of whatever life throws at them.
The most splendid future will always depend upon the necessity to release the past;

You cannot move forward in life unless you learn from your past mistakes and move on.

When you were born you were crying,
while everybody around you was smiling.

Always live your life smiling even when other people around you are crying.






Let people whom u care know this article..I dedicate this
…to those who have made an impact on me in some way or another.
…to those who made me smile when I really needed it;
…to those who made me see the positive side of everything just when i've hit rock bottom.
…to those whose friendship and care are there/were there with me.
…to those whom I can’t do without.


Life is not measured with the quantity of breaths you take, but with the quantity
of moments that took your breath away!

Therefore…
Hang in there baby !! Keep an eye out for
The adventures in life
That await you.
And always remember that Life is beautiful…And so you are...!

Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Planning to stop writing anymore articles..What do you all say??

Sorry friends,because of some reasons I am unable to write any articles/upload anything these days...There are certain factors for it...Let me enlist a few of them here..!!Please respond after reading completely.!!


Hectic schedule...!!
Not in a gud mood to think of writing articles..!!
Not finding the right topics at the right time..!!
Some health issues...!!
Mental disturbances...!!


Last but not the least,am facing a lot of criticism regarding my blog and articles.....I find many people mailing me regarding their personal issues,asking me to clarify their doubts and all...I tried my best in justifying their doubts,I work day and night thinking abt how to justify them,how to keep up their trust and othr issues......But more than that I am facing worst criticism from many others...Nenu eado help cheyali anukuntuna by guiding them or by expressing my opinions along with asking others to respond their own opinions and all...But i have been facing hard times these days...Am getting wrong mails,sms that would criticize me in the worst manner,lots of teasing frm my frnds regarding this blog ....Although i could successfully solve many personal issues like RAKESH,PRADEEP etc,still many are talking ill abt me and my blog writings..Never thought tat my writings are dat worse to be criticized....Am almost vexed up and depressed of writing anymore....So i wish it would be better for me to stop writing articles and to be silent...So i need ur feedback regarding this..Hope you respond with your whole hearted opinions...!

Keep rocking..!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Donate money,help this girl to survive..Please react quickly :(

Please help this small kid whozz needs donation for her operation..Click read more to knw what her problem is..!!


Lakshmi Priyanka, (age 9 years old) she is studying V standard in a private school at Jaggayyapet, Krishna (Dist) baby is suffered from severe headache, neck pain and nausea continuously for one week in the first week of September.

On 17-09-2010 she was rushed to Amaravathi Medical Institute, Guntur in an emergency condition. She was subjected to CT, MRI Brain revealing growth of left cerebellar mass.

On seeing the reports the doctors informed that the condition of the kid was very serious and she had to undergo surgery immediately for the survival. They expressed their inability to perform the surgery there itself at Guntur due to unavailability of microscopic equipment. They suggested to shift her either to Hyderabad or Chennai for immediate surgery.

Baby parents shifted her to Hyderabad and admitted her in Apollo Hospitals, Jubilee Hills, Hyderabad. The doctors at Apollo after subjecting her numerous medical tests decided to go ahead with surgery to remove the tumor as far as possible. The surgery was performed on 21/09/2010 but only 60% of the tumor could be removed as the rest of the tumor was adherent to vascular and vital structures. A piece of mass has been sent for biopsy which showed the tumor as Polycystic Astrocytoma (WHO Grade-I Cancer). She was evaluated with Radiation Oncologist and now she is undergoing radiation therapy.

Baby is in serious condition, for treatment charges are around Rs 10 Lakhs. Please help this baby. Guys, lets join and help Priyanka. Please show your kindness towards the baby. Even small amount makes difference when we collect as a whole.

Here are the Bank Details To Whom You Have To Transfer:-

A/c No: 30043104858,
State Bank Of India,
Amberpet Branch,
Hyderabad.
Account holder name: Venkata Ramana Potturi
Contact Phone Number:- 9963662217

If you need US Bank details, please send email to afdbteam@gmail.com . I will provide you BOA details for dollar transfer. All this money will be sent to the concerned's account.

Save the life of the baby...She has loads of future....Dnt let a young citizen,a future talent of India to evaporate...Help her please...Keep rocking..!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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LOVE IS SWEET...Cute love letter by a kid :D

Friends,here is a small but a very cute love letter written by a kid....See how sweet the gal replies him...Click read more...!!

Keep rocking..!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Happy Diwali :)

Naaku atyanta priyamayina frnds andariki haardhika deepavali subhakankshalu...!!
Wish you all a very happy and a safe Diwali...!!

Hope this festival of lights would enlighten your lives....Hope it would bring light into your lives...Burn your ego,ignorance with the heat of the crackers and enlighten yourself with the light from them...!!

Stay safe...Enjoy well...And keep visiting my blog and bless me :)

Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Recharge your mobile every month for free..!!

Recharge ur phone every month freely by following this process:

Its a little length but its worth it.. waste of few seconds but saves loads of money.. trust me.. i tried it this month an it works....Click read more...!!

Please follow the instruction & you can recharge your SIM card absolutely free. Yes it is possible, see how technology can be used to make technicians fool.

I just got a mail from a friend of mine, whose friend is B.Tech.(ETC) from IIT Powai, teaching me how to reload my hand set every month for free. Engineered by a group of rebel programmers. I am going to share this to all for you.

Please follow the instructions as stated below before you start it:

Applicable for ORANGE (HUTCH),AIRTEL, Spice & BSNL users only,sorry for idea,BPL and reliance users and is done illegally of course. But there are many things that are illegal , who cares. Don't worry nobody can trap you. No legal action can be taken on you for this. So go ahead without worrying.

You can only do this every 15th & 16th of the month as the network system is under upgrade.

1.) ** Dial "1415007" using your h/phone and wait for 5 second

2.) ** after 5 second, you will hear some funny noise (like sound from
TV when the station is finish)

3.) ** Once the noise stop, immediately dial 9151 follow by your phone number

4.) ** A recorded message "please insert your pin number" will follow


5.) ** punch in the pin number "011785 45227 00734" and wait for the
operator finish repeating the above pin number.



6.) ** After the pin number has been repeat,
dial "0405-for AIRTEL,

404-for ORANGE (HUTCH)" .

404 for Spice

404-for BSNL" .

7.) ** you will hear a message "for air time top-up press 1723" you just have to follow the instruction



8.) ** After you follow the instruction, the noisy sound will re-appear for about 5 second


9.) ** once the noise stop, dial "4455147" follow by "146"



10.) ** after about 5 second, dial "1918" after 3 second dial "4451"


11.) ** after you done that, punch in the serial number "01174452271145527" you will hear dial tone.



12.) ** once the dialing tone stop, dial "55524785933" you will hear "
please key in your password"



13.) ** the password is " ****2+253+7891*+546322 " wait for the
message "your password accepted"



14.) ** you will hear " please insert your emey number " now you have to be fast to dial your own h/phone number



15.) ** you will hear a dialing tone, when the call is answered, dial "1566" and you will hear "re-confirm emey number"



16.) ** once you hear that message, dial "6011556 2245334 follow by your h/phone number"



17.) ** after a while, you will hear a message "your pin number is accepted" you have to dial "1007"



18.) ** after you done that you will hear "your emey number is accepted"



19.) ** continue dial "4566" you will hear "your password is accepted"


20.) ** once the second message finish, immediately dial your own h/phone number


21.) ** Now you will receive a message saying


............

22.) "NOTHING IS FREE IN THIS WORLD, . SO, GET BACK TO WORK AND DON'T WASTE TIME !!"

Now Get back to your work,or make others smile by passing this message :D

Hope you laughed for a while and nw dont look for me....I was effected like this toooooooo ;)

Keep rocking,

Regards,

Sriram Mallik.

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Please post your opinions in the form of comments :)

Friends,please respond to this love problem that a frnd has requested for your all solutions...seeing the way you all have responded earlier,he has requested us...so please do respond...!!Click read more..!



hi dude.this is akshay.from last 3 years i lve a girl.its one sided.we were in same school bt now in diferent.she was ma junior.i nvr talked her in school coz of some reasons.now tat day i msged her on facebook.we chated a bit then i told her everything....she said i respect your love...bt she cnt have boyfriend till she becomes 21.so i said i ill w8.we chated a lot n then she stopped talking with me.she also said tat she was proposed by many ppl so she cnt guarantee tat she ill pick me up....
..wat should i do now?reply soon.........



My solution :

Hi Akshay,
What ever might happen,being a guy having loads of love,dont give up.....
I believe that loving someone is not just for living with them..........love means accepting them for what they are,having a desire to see them happy,in whatever state of life they are and with whom ever they wish..........
Let me explain.....You are loving that girl since three years.....it is upto her whether to accept you or not...dont force her at any instant of time.....you continue your love...dnt let love leave ur mind...even if she doesnt accpt you,you keep loving....untill she realises that none can love her as u love...
Let me give you a practical example of what true love is.......
I know a person,very familiar to everyone...a normal guy,nothing special to say abt him...he is just like all others...he is in love with a gal since 4years....knw what...that girl has been physically molested by her relative,nt jus once..bt for three months...she has lost the desire to live...but this guy has promised her to takecare of her and he is doing the same....at one instant of time,she introduced him to her frnd who was very gud,and he used to care for the girl as her lover does...everytime she used to boast about his frnd while she was having time to have a chat wid her lover....so her lover asked her,do u like that guy..?are u sure he will take a gud care of you..??he started enquiring....the girl asked him why the hell is he asking such questions...then her lover said,if anyone loves and cares u morethan what i do,and if u really like that person i will be the first one to help you in uniting both of you..he then said love means having a desire to see our loved ones happy forever no matter where they are and with whom they live...And knw what...the girl has doubled the affection towards her lover after listening to this....!She began trusting him very much...she felt that none can love her as he did..!
So why cant you do the same??

Do see that this letter that i give you nw reaches her...by anymeans..!
what ever might happen,keep loving...dnt try impressing her...jus make her feel that you love her verymuch,you care her like no other person does....jus make it sure that ths msg reaches her
HONEY,WHERE EVER YOU ARE,WHATEVER YOU DO,HOW EVER YOU WANNA BE IN YOUR LIFE,DO AS YOU WISH,I ONLY NEED YOUR HAPPINESS...LOVE IS WHAT I HAVE IN MY MIND REGARDING YOU..I WOULD NEVER GIVEUP THIS LOVE,EVEN IF U ACCEPT ANYOTHER..UNTILL I DIE,YOU WIL BE IN MY LAST BREATH...I CAN NEVER FORGET YOU,YOUR CARE,YOUR AFFECTION AND YOUR SMILE...I WILL BE THE LUCKIEST IF U ALLOW ME IN YOUR LIFE BUT WILL BE THE SAME EVEN IF U WONT,BUT ON A CONDITION THAT THE PERSON WHO COMES IN YOUR LIFE WILL TAKECARE OF U LIKE A PRINCESS...IF I WERE TO TAKECARE OF YOU IN MY LIFE,I WOULD NEVER GIVE A CHANCE FOR YOU TO FEEL DISHEARTENED..YOU ARE SO PRECIOUS TO ME...PLEASE DONT KEEP ME AT A DISTANCE...IT HURTS WHEN YOU DO THAT...I WISH I COULD BE WITH YOU TOGETHER..
YOURZ EVERLOVING,
Akki..!!
Dont force her to love you,at the same time dont pressurise yourself to love her......Be contented with whatever happens...Leave this matter for the time and get adjusted with whatever happens...First plz do concentrate on your career cozz its time to get settled first..later on you can convince her if u get a very gud job..Be practical sometimes dude...!!
At the same time love her so much that none in the world would love her like you.......anymore help,do contact me
keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
www.loveguru-srm.blogspot.com

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Special article on request of a reader...To test yourself regarding yourself abt love

Just check these qualities to test if you are in love or not....Specially for the person who asked me how to test about himself...Click read more..!!


When you are together with that special someone,you pretend to ignore that person.
But when that special someone is not around,you might look around to find them.
At that moment, you are in love.

Although there is someone else who always makes you laugh,your eyes and attention might go only to that special someone.
Then, you are in love.

Although that special someone was supposed to have called you long back, to let you know of their safe arrival, your phone is quiet. You are desperately waiting for the call!
At that moment, you are in love.

If you are much more excited for one short e-mail from that special someone than other many long e-mails, you are in love.

When you find yourself as one who cannot erase all the emails or SMS messages in your phone because of one message from that special someone, you are in love.

When you get a couple of free movie tickets, you would not hesitate to think of that special someone. Then, you are in love.

You keep telling yourself, "that special someone is just a friend", but you realize that you can not avoid that person's special attraction. At that moment, you are in love.

While you are reading this , if someone appears in your mind, then u are in love with that person...

So go and let your loved onez know how special they are to you..Also do convey this LOVE GURU SRM's wishes to them :)
Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Happy Dussehra buddies

Wish every reader of this blog a very Happy Dussehra....Hope you achieve great success,happiness,victory in every work you start...Happy Vijaya Dashami...!!

Thnxx for every visitor who visited my blog and encouraged me in writing many articles...Hope you continue visiting and promoting my blog...!I got many frnds,few gud frnds like ashok annaya,hkr annaya,anu garu,swaroop,sudhakar,sunny,raj and many more through my blog..Hope our relation continues like this forever and ever..!!

Keep rocking...!!

Regards,

Sriram Mallik

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How to impress a girl who has touched your heart...? Tips to win a girl,Tips to become Mr.Perfect :D

To all those single guys,here is a small article dedicated to you all..I am mentioning a few ways to impress a cute/sweet gal that has touched your heart...Read them,follow the best points that you like and win her...Keep rocking....But before that,click read more to read the article...!!



Be well-groomed : Brush your teeth, floss, shower, wash your hair, and apply acne medicine (if you have a problem with your skin) daily. Don't wear your pants off your butt, often called "sagging", it's not that attractive to the majority of girls. This is essential if you are even going to approach an attractive girl. Wear clean, attractive clothes that fit (if in doubt, get an older sister or close female friend to help you in this department). Don't wear skin tight clothes, but don't wear clothes that are too baggy.
Have a great attitude : Be fun to hang around with, easy to laugh with, and be outgoing. Just don't be full of yourself. A girl may like an overly cocky guy at first, but eventually, she will find it selfish. Don't try to impress everyone - girls like humble guys. At the same time, a sense of humor is always a plus. Girls love it when guys can make them laugh.
Show respect : If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you. With girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting pushed around while you're at it, they will be reassured that you will treat them right. Be kind to all.
Have good conversations Don't talk about how you beat the King Black Dragon in Run escape... unless you know them well enough that you know they are at least semi-interested (otherwise, it's just a big jumble to her). Try to aim for you both to be speaking 50% of the time, but make sure that you are saying something worthwhile; it's not attractive when only one person talks endlessly. Another thing to watch for is her attention. If she isn't paying complete attention, do not repeat yourself several times. This makes girls feel you are desperate, and usually annoying.
Show interest in her - let her talk The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about common interests. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. but not in that stalker kind of way. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. This engages her in the conversation. When in doubt, compliment her. Even if a girl does not like you yet, complimenting her will make her feel good about herself and think positively about you.
Try flirting : don't be obsessive! If you both make eye contact, do not be the one to look away, but do not stare for too long. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight smile. She may look away and she might blush a little. Be careful though; you don't want to stare her down. A good move is to look away, and if she likes you she will shoot you glances. Watch for that. And be courteous. Open doors. Give Gifts. Do kind things. Girls love that.
Respect her friends and their ideas and opinions : Always speak highly of her and never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation and yours and she'll possibly dump you. Of course, her friends are going to tell her that you trash talked her. Hopefully then it will work both ways - she will be tolerant of your friends. Be careful not to compliment her friends too much, however. Example: You may say "Your friends seem cool. We should hang out with them and my friends some time, I think they'd get along". You may not say "Sally is so hot. She has the nicest eyes". You may think getting her jealous is a good idea, but it just makes them angry.
Have your friends be nice to her It's a fantastic thing when your friends don't make a total fool of you Warn them ahead of time and avoid topics pertaining to embarrassing moments of your past or awkward jokes that make very little sense.
Be polite to her parents : Be kind to everyone, especially them. Don't be too over-the-top charming with the parents, however, or they'll think that you have something to hide.
Don't criticize her Unless she asks for constructive criticism. And even then she probably wants you to compliment her.
Be romantic, but not over the top : If you've been dating for a while you may attempt a grand romantic gesture (note: "A while"=a month MINIMUM) otherwise, you'll look like a stalker. It's also okay to be a little cheesy, like giving her a bouquet of roses and a loving poem. It may sound like a bad idea, but girls will find it thoughtful if it came from your heart
Start talking to her casually If you don't know her, make friendly conversation. Ask for the time, and/or compliment her watch.
Do not play "hard to get" Sure, you'll get their attention for a day or two then after a while, the girl will end up frustrated or think that you hate her for whatever reason, and she'll think you don't find interest in her anymore. Or if she likes a guy who's like that, her friends might not like you because you're acting like a jerk (this happens way too much).
Be careful with what you say Remember, Hotty McHotterson is not your pal Lenny. Do not discuss bodily functions in her presence, or make jokes of a sexual nature unless she starts doing so. Also, don't discuss anything gross or raunchy. Don't talk about bathroom jokes or sexual jokes. She'll get grossed out, and anyway, you're going to find that pretty girls and gross things don't mix... at all.
Hum a few bars of a song she likes around her She might think of you whenever she hears that song. And she'll probably be impressed by your good taste in music. Some girls have actually dumped guys or stopped liking guys when they insulted the music they like. So, it's OK not to like her music, but don't be insulting her favorite singer/band! Try to agree with her as much as possible but not so over the top that she knows your not being yourself ("I know, they are the best band EVER!"). Make sure the song is not overtly feminine however.
Start an inside joke with her : She will feel included and become closer to you. It also gives you an easy-to-come-up-with conversation starter. Try not to overuse it and kill the joke.
End later meetings with a hug or plans to meet some other time, if you can.
Tell her that you "like her" Ask her out.
Try to get her attentions to your plus and away from minus, but be original
Touch her occasionally like on the shoulder or hand.(but be sure do not touch the sexual parts like vagina,breast, or hips)!
Opposites attract : Be a courageous gentleman, not coy like a lady might be. Stand up for her if something is wrong.
Show your funny side : A lot of women look for sense of humor in a partner. You should however be mindful of their reactions to your jokes and avoid offensive humor. Unless they like that. Find out if she likes comedy. If she watches Comedy Central, find out her favorite comedian or favorite impression and try it out for her.
Make Her Feel Good : This is a really good thing that impresses girls. They love it when you let them know you care for them. If she's sad, just simply put your arm around her neck. Make her happy : Make sure she is ALWAYS happy. Or at least as much as you can.
Don't ever make fun of your friends around her If you do, it might make her think that your a jerk. Even people that are not your friends, don't make fun of anyone around her(Unless they absolutely hate them too). And if you are making fun of someone and she thinks it's funny (for whatever reason) don't go over bored..


So guyzzzzzzz........Hope these points would help you atleast in grabbing the attention of a cute girl in your life...Keep rocking...!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Some answers-my opinion regarding love,trust and many more :)

Recently one of my friend's cousin asked me a few questions....She asked me what is LOVE and I said The desire for seeing our loved ones happy where ever and which ever condition they are is LOVE....She wasnt satisfied with my answer and in addition to this question she asked me to define a few phrases..So i am demonstrating my opinions...Click read more...!!


A good relationship is not a game that we play or an ego trip we take. It is about love and two people. Loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever know but it can also hurt us more that we can ever believe. If we love someone we should be ready to experience not only happiness but heartache as well. That's the reward and risk that it takes. Unless we are willing to experience it, we will never really know what it's like to love and be loved.

Sharing love is probably the most valuable and meaningful experience a person can ever have. And there is a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. It's the difference between a love that's fickle, wild and short-lived and a love that's tender, passionate and lasting. The first is easy. The second, the one that really matters to us all, takes work ---- because it's about keeping the relationship.

Loving someone takes efforts. We have to be able to communicate with each other. Nobody can read anyone else's mind. We always presume that our partner knows what we think and feel. Maybe in time we might be able to predict or sense each other's thoughts but it's never perfect and it takes time to develop.

Getting the chance to love and be loved by someone is a blessing. Respect him/her for who he/she is, and not what you want him/her to be No one is perfect. It's true love that closes the gap of imperfectness to form a smooth surface of acceptance for each other. True love sees and accepts a person for who he/she is. It is also true love that makes a person change for the better.

Although the power of true love is undeniable, a relationship needs commitment too. What is love without commitment from each other anyway? It's like principles and values. Everyone has them but they only mean as much as we are willing to stand for them. The same goes for our commitments to relationships and to the person we love.

"Love is like an antique vase. It's hard to find, hard to get, yet easy to break."

Everyday, everywhere...people fall in love. But just how many of these relationships are self-sacrificing love, and not just relationships which are formed only for the intense feeling of falling in love? I know hundreds of friends who say the magical words "I love you"...but more often that not, the truth is just --- I am IN love with you. There is a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone.

If a person says he/she is in love with you, he/she means that he/she likes you for who you are now and he/she fell in love with you because of the present you. This kind of love is temporary and will only lasts as long as the fairytale lasts. When fairy godmother comes in at night to whirl us back in reality, we see the heartache of such a relationship.

But if a person says he/she loves you, he/she means that he/she loves you unconditionally for who you are now, who you were you in the past and who you might be in the future. When he/she says he/she loves you and really means it, you have to ask yourself if you love him/her too or if you are only in love with the idea of being in love. It is very hard to see the difference through logical thinking.

May you be blessed on your soul-mate searching journey.



TRUST...
"It takes years to build trust and a few seconds to destroy it"

VALUE...
"What is most valuable is not what you have in your life but who you have in your life".

MONEY...
"Money can buy everything but happiness".

DON'T HURT ANYBODY...
"It only takes a few seconds to hurt people you love, and it can take years to heal".

LIVE TODAY...
There are two eternities that can break you down. Yesterday and Tomorrow. One is gone and the other doesn't exist... So live today".

MARRIAGE...
Do not marry a person that you know that you can live with; only marry someone that you cannot live without".

SHARERS...
"A successful relationship is not built on givers and takers only, but on people who also become sharers".

Dear Sarath,hope your cousinzz doubts are fulfilled...!Keep rocking...!!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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How to make a long lasting relationship....?

Hie friends,firstly am sorry for not uploading any article since ten days....I was hospitalized and so was away from you all these days...On the request of our blog reader,a sisterly person for me,Padmavathi garu,i have uploaded this article...How to make a relationship last and grow...Click read more...!




How to make a relationship last and grow?

Many couples wonder how to make their relationship last for ever. Studies show that more than 50% of marriages end up in divorce. Did you ask yourself why that is the case? What happened to the old times where people used to stay together for ever? Time has changed and now there are many issues that contribute to the failure of a relationship.

To make a relationship last, follow the below guidelines:

1. Learn to communicate with your partner-

Learn to listen to he/she says without judgment. Your partner might have different opinion than you and that is fine. You can’t make your partner accept your opinion if he/she does not want to. Be interested and sympathetic because you should care about your partner concerns.

2. Appreciate the other person-

If your partner does something special for you, thank him/her. If your partner makes you a special meal, appreciate the effort. This is a simple thing, but it shows that you appreciate your partner.

3. Trust-

Building trust between you and your partner is essential to making the relationship work and last. You have to be honest with your partner about your intentions and actions. Don’t try to hide things because remember truth will always comes out. Always remember “honesty is the best policy.”

4. Spending time together-

Couples must spend time together alone at least once a week. I know you say you are busy with work, children, house errands among other things and there is not much time. The truth of the matter is there is always time. We all have 24 hours every single day. Why don’t you get up half an hour earlier than usual and eat breakfast together? What about running errands together? I know many families where the wife takes care of the household chores and the husband does the grocery shopping. It is best to collaborate and do the house chores together and go do the grocery shopping together.

5. Keep things private-

All couples argue and quarrel. This is the spice of life. There is not one single relationship that does not have arguments. Remember to keep all arguments private

between you and your partner. A lot of couples when they have arguments, they start telling parents or friends about their arguments. This is not healthy because if you tell your mother for example, the chances are she will interfere in your relationship and your relationship with your partner becomes worse. If you have an argument, agree to solve it between both of you in your own home, not in front of people.

6. Don’t change your partner-

Many couples try to change something about their partner that they don’t like. If you don’t like something about your partner, tell him/her about your concerns, but don’t force him/her to do something they don’t want. If you don’t like the fact that your partner doesn’t exercise for example, you can talk to him/her about it. You can explain the benefits of joining the gym, but you should not force him/her to exercise. Another example, if your partner dresses sloppy and you want him/her to pay more attention to the way he/she dresses, suggest that to them and then it is up to them to take your advice or not.

Hope these tips would be of some help or the other...Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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PLEASE STOP ALL THESE INCIDENTS :(

Dear friends,
PREMA (LOVE) ante champatamo,chavatamo kaadu....Bratakatam,bratikinchatam...
Please try to stop love suicides,acid attacks,killing the ones whom we love etc...Am deeply shocked after knowing the incidents that are taking place in the state,on women..Plzz stop them and try to protect the girl child...Please make it sure that
LOVING SOMEONE MEANS JUST HAVING A DESIRE TO SEE OUR LOVED ONES HAPPY FOREVER,WHERE EVER,HOW EVER THEY ARE...MAKE IT SURE THAT THE ONES WE LOVE FEEL THE MOST SECURED IN OUR PRESENCE,RATHER THAN DESERTING THEM AND KILLING THEM AFTER HAVING A PHYSICAL INTERCOURSE/TIMEPASS RELATION...HOPE ALL YOU PEOPLE WOULD SUPPORT ME IN PASSING ON MY MESSAGE LIKE A CHAIN SO THAT IT REACHES EVERYONE AND EVERYONE WOULD ATLEAST GET SOME FEELINGS ABOUT THIS MATTER AND GETS A CHANGE...HOPE YOU WOULD HELP ME IN CIRCULATING THIS MESSAGE,
REGARDS,
SRIRAM MALLIK,
c/o www.loveguru-srm.blogspot.com

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Short yet another interesting story

Hi friends,today i am sharing a small story which has a great meaning in it...Short but yet a message giving story..Click read more..!




I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me.

Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it before me, and said this: "You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love."

This was how I saw it: As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds.



This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love...they try to posses it, they demand, they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you .

For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings.

Give and don't expect.
Advise, but don't order.
Ask, but never demand.

It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring."

Passing thought... Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take; but by the moments that take our breath away.....

Life is beautiful!!! Live it !!! Love it!!!!!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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AA VOICE THAT NOW RESTS IN PEACE

Friends.this is a post dedicated to a wonderful singer Swarna Latha garu who has expired today....Got this information from my wellwisher and our blog regular visitor,H.K.Raju annaya from Bangalore...Firstly thnx for the info annaya bt I was deeply disheartened after hearing this...Of all the songs she sang,i really love KUCCHI KUCCHI KUNAMMA,KUNDANALA KUNAMMA from BOMBAY...! Music maestro ILAYARAJA garu feels that she is his favorite singer of all the younger generation singers....
She was born in the year 1973 and everyone of her family member felt that God gifted her a wonderful voice...Every Indian felt the same but God wanted to hear her voice closely...So he took her to his presence...India will surely miss her voice..A very young talented star has fallen and I am one of the persons who really miss her voice..May her soul rest in peace..My deepest condolences to her family members..Thnx HKR annaya for intimating me regarding this..!

Some Info regarding her...!!!]
One of the most popular voices of the 90’s, Swarnalatha passed away today morning (September 12) at a private hospital, due to lung problems. The singer was just 37 at the time of her death

The Chitoor in Palakkad district of Kerala born singer has been a favourite of AR Rahman and Ilayaraja and has sung some of their early chartbusters. Harris Jayaraj tweeted- “I was shocked hearing the sudden demise of Swarnalatha. May her soul rest in peace and god bless her family”

Her major plus was that she could sing a melody for AR Rahman like Poralle Ponnuthayi in Bharathiraja’s Karuthamma for which she got the National Award for the best playback singer (1995) and at the same time belt out a fast peppy Mukabala, Mukabala in Kathalan . She has sung some of ARR’s hit numbers in the 90’s

Similarly under Ilayaraja, she has sung the fast and peppy Aattama Therottama in Captain Prabhakar a rage during those days. Remember earlier Swarnalatha has sung the melodious Povomma Oorkolam in Chinna Thambi for which she got the Tamil Nadu State Award for best playback singer. In short Swarnalatha was one of the most versatile singers of her times. During the later half of 2000, she faded out due to lung complications. She has also sung songs in Malayalam, Telugu and Hindi.

Wikipedia link regarding her :
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swarnalatha



Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Two big festivals on a single day..Here is my hearty wishes :)

Its a great auspicious occasion that two of our big Indian festivals are being celebrated on a single day...We may be one of the rare people to have such an occasion..Eid(Ramzan)Mubarak and wish you all a very happy Ganesh Chaturthi...!

It feels great to celebrate two awesome festivals on a single day.....This occasion proves the unity in diversity of the Indian culture...We should be united forever just like the festivals that coincidentally fell on a single day...Hope this is what God wanted everyone to know and hence made the festivals appear on a single day :)

Well,Ramzan....A prominent festival of the Muslims...Which shares the love,care and relationship between any two individuals..That is what they believe regarding this festival...

Vinayaka chavithi,also known as Ganesh Chaturthi in the north...A celebration as a mark of rebirth of Lord Ganesh...Also celebrated as his birthday :)

It really feels great to be a part of both the celebrations because,am gonna meet my close friend,Irfan and wish him and his family regarding his festival....!


Hope you have great times ahead..! May the blessings of Lord Ganesh and Allah be wid u forever..Let me pray to God to keep showering his blessings on everyone equally and let all our frndshp continue like this...Keep rocking..!!

Regards,
Sriram Mallik



P.S: For everyone here,am posting a video regarding vinayakachavithi special photos...See that video for wonderful pics of Lord Ganesh :)

Video:

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Secrets of some successful relationships

What are the secrets of a successful relationship..??To know those click read more...!



Human Relationships can be enlightening and supporting but can also cause drama and trauma. This is also and especially the case of male-female relationships. You can see such a relationship as a special kind of interaction where two different physiologies and two different biological strategies meet. They come from a different origin and they aim at a different target but meet at a crossroad. When they meet the same nature of their biology dictates union.

A union between male and female biology can generate a state of enthusiasm, joy passion and relaxation that no other relation could instil. This is probably due to the biological prospect for a new life that can be born from this bond. The union of what the Chinese philosophers were calling “Yin” and “Yang” is creating harmony and wellbeing.

A fully opened and relaxed state exists when one can let go of all social, psychological and emotional restraints and is generally associated with specific hormones released in the body. In order to reach this condition, it is necessary for the regions of the brain associated with behavioral control and anxiety to be deactivated, thus leaving the person in a state of blissful affective drive for life.

Many studies have already shown a correlation between oxytocin plasma levels and affective social bonding which increased trust and decreased fear. In many mammals oxytocin evokes feelings of affection, reduces anxiety and increases feelings of security. Studies also confirmed a positive relation between oxytocin plasma levels and adult romantic attachment.

A long-lasting and meaningful relationship must therefore consider the biological and instinctive needs of the other in order to maintain continuous mental and physical aperture and a regular release of hormones, including oxytocin, that come from love and trust alone.

Because male and female biology provoke two very different survival needs, disregarding the necessities of the other can render a quarrelsome and unraveling relationship.

A man instinctively searches a source of stability in a woman, whereas a woman biologically seeks security in a man. When the searched values are not found or found and later lost a deep discontentment can arise in a couple.

Ultimately, any miscommunication or quarrel that may arise in a couple is a basic attempt to expose the original lack of the fundamental biological prerogatives mentioned above. It all comes down to: is he man enough and is she woman enough?

Male biology developed through the ages engaging into activities that focus on locomotion, hunting, attacking and defending, thus basically magnifying the natural fight or flight instinct with the activation of specific areas such as the amygdala. For thousands of years, male bodies have been exposed to the rule win or die that still lies harbored deeply within their instincts.

To better understand a man, a woman should consider this biological tendency in a man and comprehend that rushed instinctual decisions, stubbornness, intense activity alternated with complete relaxation is part of male natural makeup. What made a male a male through the ages was the ability to locate sources of survival and defend them. It was the mono-tasking ability to concentrate on one goal, save all energy for it and achieve it at all costs.

Female biology developed through the ages in challenging and rough environments in a very different way: using the tend and befriend instinct. It adapted to threats and dangers developing diplomatic behavior, esthetical desirability, emotional recognition through facial expressions, healing abilities, gathering and nurturing abilities, territorial mapping, multi-tasking managing and educating. It thus activates other specific brain areas such as the hippocampus, related with short term memory.

To better understand a woman, a man should consider that appearances and pleasant environments are highly desirable to females and loud noises, violent reactions, and illogical behavior are seen as threats to a woman, leaving them less kind and mostly anxious. Moreover, the mono-tasking tendencies of a man to concentrate obsessively on their goals to achieve might put a female partner into a state of disheartening dissatisfaction, thus causing a drop in oxytocin levels.

Due to a different stress managing system males can often minimize events that are significant and important to women, while a woman can appear often using an apprehensive and anxious conduct to a man. Males and females vary greatly in behavior and reaction to stress but follow general biological guidelines based neither on culture nor education but on genetics.

A male biology would have a general tendency to function hierarchically, just like a military system whereas a female one would rather operate like a political system, considering more points of view and always weighing the best option out of a collection of possibilities.

In evaluating a possible partner a man would be overwhelmed by an indefinite state of attraction with an intense physical drive to be with the chosen person, while a woman will often ponder factors as physical attraction, age, social status, geographical location, language, dressing style before accepting to engage into a partnership. Male mentality would often operate on a binary base of yes or no, whereas a female mind would rather find many grey areas in between.

A typical male problem-solving approach would try to find the quickest and most effective solution to a problem regardless of the effort, pain and damage involved. This is also indicated in male suicide rates being extremely more frequent in many countries than female, according to statistics provided by the WHO. Female mentality, on the other hand, would tend to compromise and to politically adapt to requests, necessities and points of views, trying to find a common goal and a conflict-less solution to a problem.

Should the individuals in the relationship fail to meet the instinctive needs in the other, they usually result in a growth apart, needing to take separate paths in order to find a different suitor who can provide the biological needs sought for. This is often associated with the feeling of having “outgrown” the other and needing to go “separate ways”.

In the end it is important to remember that in all relationships, especially between men and women, a general biologically-based behavior is dictated. No culture or social rule can completely over-ride this conduct, no matter how modernized and civilized a society may be.

Keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Hurt your loved ones by saying the truth rather than making them happy by saying lies

Dear friends,sorry for not writing any article since a week days...Its due to my hectic schedule and also a fewer problems that have contributed for this delay..Click read more...!

Hai friends,chala days ga ea article upload cheyalekapoyanu...Due to few reasons and hectic schedule ila jarigindi..Am xtremely sorry for that...!
Recent ga naku ochina thought ni ikada upload chestunna....


Ee sandharbham ga oka chinna proverb share cheskovalani undi...

HURT ME WITH THE TRUTH RATHER THAN MAKING ME CONTENTED WITH THE LIES THAT YOU TELL...cOZ THE LIES THAT YOU TELL WILL MAKE ME HAPPY AND CONTENTED FOR A FEW MINUTES ONLY BUT THE PAIN THAT I WOULD FEEL AFTER KNOWING THE TRUTH IS ENORMOUS AND NOTHING CAN LESSEN THAT PAIN...SO PLEASE DONT MAKE ME HAPPY BY TELLING LIES BUT HURT ME WITH THE TRUTH,THAT HURTED FEELING WILL LAST ONLY FOR A FEW DAYS...!

Usually LOVER ni happy ga unchatam kosam manam chala abaddhalu cheptu untam..."Idi nenu oppukonu","nenu abaddham cheppaledu okkasarina na lover toh" ani anukunevallu asalu undaru...Unna ippudu oppukokapote ippudu kuda abadham cheptunaru anukondi chaalu :D

Konnisarlu ila abadham cheppi temporary ga vallani happy ga unchachu anukondi but eado okaroju nijam bayata padutundi kada....aaroju evaru alochincharu....abaddham cheppi vallani mosam chesam ane antaru tappa vallu aa time ki enta happy ga feel ayyaro ane thought mind lo undadu appudu...Chala guilty ga feel avutaru...So here is my sincere advice...Rather than abaddham cheppi happy ga unchatam kanna try to search for other alternative ways to make them happy...!

So friends,be frank in every matters...no matter what others feel...If the other person truely loves you,he/she would keep loving no matter what flaws that you have...No matter how bad they would feel when you speak frankly instead of telling lies...They will understand you for sure...

Keep rocking..Have a great time...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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My Suggestion for Pradeep for his problem posted earlier

Dear friends,thanks a lot for posting your valuable suggestions for Pradeep's problem...Finally after thinking all these days,I have come to some part of the conclusion and i am posting here..Click read more...!



Hai pradeep....Sorry baga late ga na opinion post chestunna..Took lots of time to think what to say....Chala alochincha...Firstly cheppestunna,na opinion few sectors ga divide chestunna kindly check it out...Hurting ga unte plzz forgive me...

First Category : Ladies first antaru kada,so let me start thinking from the Girl's side...!

8th class lo love anagane matladatam manesindi ani cheppav kada,naku telisi nekanna tana mind chala matured ga alochistondi ani cheppali...ila antuna ani hurt avvaku but tanu future ni foresee chesindi aa age lo ne but aa vishayam lo nuvvu fail ayav ane cheppali...8th ending daka nuvvu duram ga unnav,nuvekkada hurt avutavo ani alochinchi tane netho matladindi avuna??So as a wellwisher ne gurinchi alochinchindi aa time ki..propose chesindi mottaniki,so chance kottav, bagane undi..And generally ammayilu lo konta mandi BBC la untaru(BBC ante generally British broadcasting corporation or something like dat..But kontamandi Bharat broadcasting corporation la spread chestu untaru..idi evarini uddesinchi ee mata anatledu but 30%ammayilu matram untaru ee category lo :D ) and the rest of them expect secracy in some matters,mainly love matter ante kasta jagratta padataru...alantidi nuvu valla akka ki ala cheppeyatam emina bagunda..?Mari hurt avvada cheppu??Andulo just 10th class lo family lo ilanti vishayalu teliste emina unda??Think from her point of view..enta badha padi untundo...family indirect torture tattukovatam kashtam..But ivanni overcome chesi nee meeda ishtam toh tane oka greeting pampindi..Malla ekkada feel ayipoyi leniponi feelings toh mind paducheskuntavo ani name rayaledu..family situations telisayi kabatte inka nuvvu propose chesina oppukoledu...Okasari alochinchu tana frnds entaga aatapattistaro,nalugurilo tanu ela normal ga untundo..just think of her once..

Well ippatidaka ne mail chadivi reply chesa line to line...Now thinking abt the indepth matter,aa ammayiki nuvventa ishtam ayina tanani entagano support chestu,chadivistu penchutunna parents meeda inkentha ishtam undali..??Vallani hurt chese uddesam tanaki leka neto ala cheppindi...But ne medaishtam ayite undi..!! As of now tana father mentality telisi inka committments oddu antondi..But who knows next minute lo eam avutundo ani..So payiki cheppakapoyina she needs you a lot..She expects you to be on top of everything anduke liquor tagaddu ani bratimaladi mari manpinchindi..she likes you to be the best...so win back her trust by proving yourself...! And obvious ga she needs her family more than what she needs you as of now..So tanaki alane undani konta kalam...Let her achieve her goals first..Dont disturb her again with the name of love..be friendly with her and i feel thats what shez expecting from you right nw..!



Second Category : Peddavallaki baga respect ivvali antaru kada...So valla dad view nundi alochinchudam...!

Ea father ayina tana daughter gurinchi chala goppaga alochinchatam common...general ga chinnappatinundi allarumudduga penchina ammayiki vallaki ishtam ayina vallake ivvali anedi oka father casual thought..alantidi atani thought ki reverse ga oka abbayivalla behave chestondi ani teliste ea father ki ayina kopam undadaa?so okarakam ga aayana bhayam and thoughts correct ea anali...Atani expectations ni reach ayite kanuka i think definite ga he will change...And valla ammayini baga chuskuntavu,ani aayana mental ga confirm ayite then defnite ga atane daggarundi mee idarni kaluputaru
Aayana expect chestunna situation ki baga chadivi reach avvu and approach him with all the humbleness you have..that too in the future and then i hope he himself would unite you both :D



Third Category : Let me think from your side and answer...!

Being a supporter of Love,i wouldnt oppose your thoughts but mari 8th class lo LOVE ani fix ayipovatam,thats really foolish...Infatuate ayina mata ni nuvvu accept cheyali...Somehow you tried to keep in contact wid her and thats very gud on your part..And nee side konni mistakes unnayi kada,avi nenu already cheppesa kada personal ga...So think out of the world and try to LOVE wid all your heart,not wid all your mind....Try not to repeat the same mistakes again in your relation...Manchi friend ga aa ammayi expectations ni complete cheyi...Dont loose her trust at the same time dont break her trust...Affectionate ga undu baga...Make her feel that you have immense love in your heart towards her....Dnt just tell her in words but try to make her feel your love...Friend ga daggara avvu,dnt cross your limits,remembr that you are her friend(only)and act according to that untill you encounter a stage where she would feel that none can love her as you do..!



My conclusion :

Well brother,ippatidaka andaru different suggestions icharu...Maximum people said that nuvvu career lo settle ayite kanuka everything will follow you ani...I agree with them...As of now give your complete concentration on your studies,career and try to get into one of the best jobs that you can get...Basing on your eamcet score and IIT entrances i easily conclude that you are really well talented so put your talent in practical usage and give your best to your parents..First parents ni proud ga feel ayela cheyi..later on when you get into a job and reach a perfect position,then her father would say that THIS GUY CAN TAKE CARE OF MY DAUGHTER VERY WELL...HE HAS A GUD JOB AND HE CAN LOOK AFTER MY DAUGHTER'S WISHES...EA LOTU RAKUNDA CHUSKUNTADU ani ataney feel avutaru...So give your best and reach the best position that your gal expects...Forget abt the caste system and all....They have nothing to do in these days,evo time being bhayapedataru but when you win their confidence,they doesnt matter at all..So dont give up...Try your best and win her by reaching your target...Dont get into serious commitment at mind..Prastutam eadi jarigina TAKE IT EASY POLICY alavatu chesko(Confined only to this matter)..Wish you great luck for your future as well as your personal life...!

Well if my words might be a bit hurting,but thats strictly my opinion..So neku help cheyalani ila alochinchi rastunna...
Keep rocking..!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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Please help Pradeep with his personal problem..Pass on your comments

Friends,I received this mail from one of our blog visitors seeking our help..So please read this patiently and post your valuable suggestions to him in the form of comments..Please help him with his personal problem...Click read more..!


This is the mail i got frm him...!

Hi bro..This is pradeep, presently studyin engg. 2nd yr in IIT Bombay. Comparing to other love stories my story usually normal but i faced many sweet problems in it. Actually nenu 8th class lo oka school lo join ayya akkada ma classmate oka ammayi ni chusi e ammayi ni pelli chesukunte i vl b happy anukunna. Endukante tanu antha manchidi,kind hearted inka... so i jst fell in love vth her on d first day of my class in dat school ,.. meeru cheppochchu aa age lo neeku love ki ardamaina telusa ani bt.. emo i seriously fell in love vth her.
Chala baaga matladedi ala ala mottaniki tanaki telisipoindi nenu tanani love chesthunani.. so war .. matladadam manesindi.. i felt very bad atleast frnds ga aina vundama anna (bt ala kuda nenu tanani love chesa... ela drop avvagalam bro) bt tanu antha free ga vundedi kaadu nenu matladina antha pattinchukonattu undedi.. so i decided tanaki natho matladadam e istam ledu inka manam balavanthama chesi badha pettakudadu ani nenu tanani disturb chese vadini kaadu..... 8 th class aipoindi.. madyalo summer holidays..

now we entered into 9 th class ...( i thought dat tan ippatiki alane matladadu anukunna) konni rojulu gadichayi tane vachchi natho matladindi enduku nuvvu natho matladadam ledani so everything normal malli mamulugane matladedi bt tanu ante nau inka istame bt emo tanato ela matladalo ardamayyedi kaadu.. ala malli natho baaga amtladedi ph chesukunevallam n one f9 day in early days of new year when v r talkin each othr in ph. she proposed me..

OMG I never expected tanu cheppadam n naa anandaniki haddulu levu... so everythin is goin in a good manner.. ee tym lo tanu valla akkani parichayam chesindi valla akka kuda chala frndly ga atladedi... naaku konchem noti D ekkuvale... abaddalu cheppanu.. na santoshanni andariki panchudamane type .. adey tym lo valla akka ki nenu me chelli lov chesukuntunnam ani cheppesa...
so ma gf na meeda fire enti nuvvu enduku ma akka ki enduku cheppav ani godava... bt naa daggara emi matalu levu so na answer mounam matrame.. n she said ma akka intlo bro ki amma ki cheppindi full tittaru andi inka ippati daka jarigindi chalu bye ani cheppi matladadam manesindi... idantha na 10 th class middle lo jarigindi....

antha aipoindi anukunna...

two nd half months matladale appudu new yr.. so tanu oka greetin ichchindi naaku ma frnd chetha vth out a name.. k i felt happy
malli 1 month gap bt tarvatha matladam bt i donno whether she is lovin me r not... adugudam anukunna bt ma frnds urey ippudu matladutundio santoshinchu mellaga tarvatha adugu ani aapesaru...
inter tanu vere col nenu vere col... timings diff n naaku extra class lu vundevi daily so kalavadaniki veelundedi kaadu ph kuda eppudo 1 month ki okasari chesevadini.. ala inter 2 nd yr dakka ayyindi appudu malli nenu ph. chesi propose chesa tanu ilantivi ma intlo istam vundavu n idi ganaka ma intlo sevalu lechipotayi andi... inka ededo chebutundi naku aa badha lo ph pettesa...
malli eppati laage war laane matladale kanipinchina matladale...
enterance exams aipoyayi
nenu parle konchem baane chaduvutha..
i jst want to get a seat in JNTU adi chalu anukunna manchi rank in eamcet vachndi n jee crack chesa n IIT lo chaduvuthunna ippudu..

bombay vachchi appudu ph chesa tanu matladindi bt konni incidents dwara malli matladadam aapesindi tattukoleka poya liquor ki baisa ayya ...

chala badha padevadini enduku tanu hate chesthundi...
monne summer lo 10th class frnds reunion appudu kalisam matladukunnam inka ala msgs lo mottam cheppindi
tanaki appatiki ippatiki istam i lov u bt ma dad ki caste feelin oppukoru n deeni valla manam iddaram badha padatham anduke ninnu hate chesthunattu natincha anthe kaani inkem kadu ra mandu aapu ani mottam cheppindi
nw everythin is good iddaram amtladukuntunnam n sms...
bt ippatiki inka caste feelin enti bro tanu rajulu anta nenu sc so wat ee kulam oka roju tindi kooda pettadu..
tanaki valla dad ante istam ma dad oppukokunda ninnu chesukolenu antundi
i jst said i need 3 yrs tym appudu naku job vasthadi den i vl come n i vl ask ur dad abt us antunna bt she is sayin oppukoru ra antundi.. and ippudu li8 ra avvadu atleast vunna konchem tym lo aina navuthu matladukundam and future gurinchi matladi badhapadadam enduku antundi..
ento naakem ardam avvatam le..... nenu 1 yr oka course chesi IIT ki vella thanu nw 3rd year nenu 2nd year (age okate iddaridi) thanu 2012 may ki thana engg. aipothadi n nadi 5yrs (dual degg.)(btech cum mtech 5yrs course) naadhi 2014 lo avuthadi. So thanu antundi eelogane na marriage aipothademo ani :(
wat i hav 2 do bro???
(ela cheppalo ardam kale anduke na love stry/badha mottam cheppa length ekkuvaiunte sry)
waitin 4 ur ans......


Please friends,tanaki ela ayina sare help chesi Friendship value ni chupinchandi...And meevanthu sayam tanaki chesinavallu avandi...Please pass on your suggestions and opinion in the form of Comments..Plzz reply..Keep rocking...!
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Sriram Mallik.

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Happy Rakshah Bandhan...Stories behing this Celebration

Raksha Bandhan - the Indian festival of tying the knot of amity, brotherhood and long life, is a symbol of seeking divine bliss. Not for the 'self'. But for man on whose wrist the thread is tied. 'Raksha' is the word for protection. 'Bandhan' is the bond. So it signifies the bond of protection. The protection is from the dark hands of the evils and against all perils. The protection that connotates - not just physical, but the spiritual one as well.Click read more for stories on Rakhi..!

P.S: Special thanks for my loveliest sister Pujitha for sharing these articles..!

Rakhi: The Thread of Love
In India, festivals are the celebration of togetherness, of being one of the family. Raksha Bandhan is one such festival that is all about affection, fraternity and sublime sentiments. It is also known as Raksha Bandhan which means a 'bond of protection'. This is an occasion to flourish love, care, affection and sacred feeling of brotherhood.
Not a single festival in India is complete without the typical Indian festivities, the gatherings, celebrations, exchange of sweets and gifts, lots of noise, singing and dancing. Raksha Bandhan is a regional celebration to celebrate the sacred relation between brothers and sisters. Primarily, this festival belongs to north and western region of India but soon the world has started celebrating this festival with the same verse and spirit. Rakhi has become an integral part of those customs.
An insight of Rakhi Rituals
On the day of Rakhi, sisters prepares the pooja thali with diya, roli, chawal, rakhi thread and sweets. The ritual begins with a prayer in front of God, then the sister ties Rakhi to her brother and wishes for his happiness and well-being. In turn, the brother acknowledge the love with a promise to stand by his sister through all the good and bad times.
Sisters tie Rakhi on the wrist of their brothers amid chanting of mantras, put roli and rice on his forehead and pray for his well-being. She bestows him with gifts and blessings. In turn, brothers also wish her a good life and pledges to take care of her. He gives her a return gift. The gift symbolizes the physical acceptance of her love, reminder of their togetherness and his pledge. The legends and the reference in history repeated, the significance of the festival is emphasized.
Unconditional Bond of Love
Raksha bandhan has been celebrated in the same way with the same traditions for many years. Only the means have changed with the changing lifestyle to make the celebration more elaborate and lively. This day has an inherent power that pulls the siblings together. The increasing distances evoke the desire to be together even more. All brothers and sisters try to reach out to each other on this auspicious day. The joyous meeting, the rare family get-together, that erstwhile feeling of brotherhood and sisterhood calls for a massive celebration.
For everyone, it is an opportunity to reunion and celebrate. People also share tasty dishes, wonderful sweets and exchange gifts. It is a time to share their past experiences also. For those who are not able to meet each other, rakhi cards and e-rakhis and rakhis through mails perform the part of communicating the rakhi messages. Hand made rakhis and self-made rakhi cards are just representation of the personal feelings of the siblings.

Every year brothers and sisters all over India celebrate Raksha Bandhan. The occasion is meant to sanctify and reaffirm the relationship
that they share. The sisters will tie a colored thread, known as a rakhi, on the right hand of the brother to let him know that she appreciates and values the care and love that he provides her with. The ceremony includes the sister tying a rakhi on her brother’s hand and saying a short prayer on his behalf. Once the prayers are done the brother usually gives the sister a gift at the end of the ceremony.
The whole sentiment of the meaning of Raksha Bandhan can be seen as being very prevalent throughout Indian history. The whole tradition of tying the rakhi as a symbol is believed to have been started by the Hindu god Indra who had a similar string tied on his wrist by his wife when he lost his fight with Vritra. It is said that she tied the thread on his wrist to bestow upon him, the power he needed to defeat Vritra.
Apart from this there are other mentions of the role played by the sentiment of rakhi in Indian history. There is the record of lord Krishna and Draupadi during the Mahabharata, when Draupadi used a strip of cloth from her sari to stem the flow of blood from Krishna finger. This gesture had such a profound influence on Lord Krishna that he dedicated the next 25 years to Draupadi.

There are also accounts of Alexander the Great, the king of Greece, having married an Indian woman to improve relations with the kingdoms in Asia. He was later involved in war with the king Porus who was about to deal the final blow and end Alexander when he saw the rakhi Alexander’s wife had sent him while requesting him not to harm her husband. In keeping with a sacred Indian tradition, Porus stayed his blow and reframed from, personally, becoming Alexander’s executioner.
Earlier the ‘standard operating procedure’ was that the sister would tie the rakhi and then the brother would give her gift. The tradition has changed a bit now; these days, both the brother and the sister give gifts to each other. If you are wondering what to gift you brother or sister on this occasion then the best thing to do would be to look back at the experiences you have had with your brother or sister and you are bound to find all the clues that you are look for. if you still are not able to find what you want then you can also visit rakhi gift sites that provide lots of advice and samples.


Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

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History behind RakshaBandhan

Today is RakshaBandhan...My special wishes to everyone here...Click read more for History of Raksha Bandhan...Click read more...!

P.S: Special thanks to my dearest sister Pujitha for sharing this article...Love u so much chelli :)




The origin and the legends:

The festival nurtures a rich heritage of legendary traditions, some rooted back to the ages of the great epics. In the Hindu tradition the Rakshaa has indeed assumed all aspects of protection of the forces of righteousness from the forces of evil.

According to the Mahabharata, Yudhishthira, the eldest of the Pancha Pandyava (the five brothers belonging to the family of king Pandu), asked Sri Krishna, an incarnation of lord Vishnu, how best he could guard himself against impending evils and catastrophes in the coming year. Krishna advised him to observe the Rakshaa Ceremony. He also narrated an old incident to show how potent the Rakshaa is. It went like this.

Once, Indra, the king of heaven was confronted by the demon king - the Daitya-raaja - in a long-drawn battle. At one stage, the Daitya-raaja got better of Indra and drove him into wilderness. Indra, humbled and crest-fallen, sought the advice of Brihaspati, the Guru of Gods. The Guru told him to bide his time, prepare himself and then take on the mighty demon. He also indicated that the auspicious moment for sallying forth was the Shraavana Poornima. On that day, Shachee Devi, the wife of Indra, accompanied by Brihaspati tied Raakhi around Indra's right-wrist. Indra then advanced against the Daitya-raaja, vanquished him and reestablished his sovereignty.

This is how Raksha Bandhan came into being in the ages of old Hindu mythology and has transcended into the modern ages acquiring more of new and modified customs with itself.

The bond beyond:

Though in principle raksha bandhan is an observance between biological siblings of the opposite sex, the legends and history of India are rife in stories where a woman has tied the knot of Raakhi to a stranger man.

A story is told of Alexander's wife approaching his mighty Hindu adversary Porus and tying Raakhi on his hand, seeking assurance from him for saving the life of her husband on the battlefield. And the great Hindu king, in the true traditional Kshatriya (those who belonged to the brave warrior class) style, responded; and as the legend goes, when Porus raised his hand to deliver a mortal blow to Alexander, he saw the Raakhi on his own hand and restrained from striking.

More poignant instance is the story of the princess of a small Rajput (those who belong to the state of Rajasthan) clan. It glorified the spell that the Raakhi had cast even on people of alien faiths. The princess sent a Raakhi to the Moghul Emperor Humayun to save her honor from the onslaught of the Gujarat Sultan who seized her kingdom. The emperor, then engaged in an expedition against Bengal, turned back and hastened to the rescue of his Raakhi-sister. But, alas, to his utmost sorrow, he found that the kingdom had already been perished by the invador and the princess had committed 'Jauhaar', i.e., leaped into the burning flames to save her honor.

The Nobel laureate poet Rabindranath Tagore used the occasion of the Raksha Bandhan as a community festival to spread the nationalist spirit among people from different ethnic backgrounds. Thus siblings or not, the spirit of the thread of brotherhood and chaste love extends far beyond the biological association. Today it's common to see females tying a rakhi around the wrist of boys and men without sisters. Even a number of women may tie the rakhi around the Prime Minister's wrist (unless the Prime Minister be a woman), and similarly soldiers can expect to have women tie rakhis around their wrists. Thus Raakhi has become a social recognition of a man acquiring a sister or the other way round. Sister or brother in every respect, except in biological fact. And this is what the spirit of Raksha Bandhan today has turned out to be. A symbol of universal brotherhood and goodwill. So if you are a sensible girl with an inclination of seeking male friends yet not intending to tie the nuptial knot, this knot of brotherhood is an excellent idea to be indulged in.

This is how the society can live and prosper amidst all kinds of challenges either from within or without. Especially, various types of internal stresses and strains which are generated in the body-politic of a nation because of ever-changing economic, political and other factors can be overcome only on the strength of this inner flow of mutual affection and amity.

So come and exploit the auspicious occasion to recharge your sense and sensibility towards the society at large with the true spirit of service and sacrifice. For it is where lies spiritual fulfillment of human life.

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