My Suggestion for Pradeep for his problem posted earlier

Dear friends,thanks a lot for posting your valuable suggestions for Pradeep's problem...Finally after thinking all these days,I have come to some part of the conclusion and i am posting here..Click read more...!



Hai pradeep....Sorry baga late ga na opinion post chestunna..Took lots of time to think what to say....Chala alochincha...Firstly cheppestunna,na opinion few sectors ga divide chestunna kindly check it out...Hurting ga unte plzz forgive me...

First Category : Ladies first antaru kada,so let me start thinking from the Girl's side...!

8th class lo love anagane matladatam manesindi ani cheppav kada,naku telisi nekanna tana mind chala matured ga alochistondi ani cheppali...ila antuna ani hurt avvaku but tanu future ni foresee chesindi aa age lo ne but aa vishayam lo nuvvu fail ayav ane cheppali...8th ending daka nuvvu duram ga unnav,nuvekkada hurt avutavo ani alochinchi tane netho matladindi avuna??So as a wellwisher ne gurinchi alochinchindi aa time ki..propose chesindi mottaniki,so chance kottav, bagane undi..And generally ammayilu lo konta mandi BBC la untaru(BBC ante generally British broadcasting corporation or something like dat..But kontamandi Bharat broadcasting corporation la spread chestu untaru..idi evarini uddesinchi ee mata anatledu but 30%ammayilu matram untaru ee category lo :D ) and the rest of them expect secracy in some matters,mainly love matter ante kasta jagratta padataru...alantidi nuvu valla akka ki ala cheppeyatam emina bagunda..?Mari hurt avvada cheppu??Andulo just 10th class lo family lo ilanti vishayalu teliste emina unda??Think from her point of view..enta badha padi untundo...family indirect torture tattukovatam kashtam..But ivanni overcome chesi nee meeda ishtam toh tane oka greeting pampindi..Malla ekkada feel ayipoyi leniponi feelings toh mind paducheskuntavo ani name rayaledu..family situations telisayi kabatte inka nuvvu propose chesina oppukoledu...Okasari alochinchu tana frnds entaga aatapattistaro,nalugurilo tanu ela normal ga untundo..just think of her once..

Well ippatidaka ne mail chadivi reply chesa line to line...Now thinking abt the indepth matter,aa ammayiki nuvventa ishtam ayina tanani entagano support chestu,chadivistu penchutunna parents meeda inkentha ishtam undali..??Vallani hurt chese uddesam tanaki leka neto ala cheppindi...But ne medaishtam ayite undi..!! As of now tana father mentality telisi inka committments oddu antondi..But who knows next minute lo eam avutundo ani..So payiki cheppakapoyina she needs you a lot..She expects you to be on top of everything anduke liquor tagaddu ani bratimaladi mari manpinchindi..she likes you to be the best...so win back her trust by proving yourself...! And obvious ga she needs her family more than what she needs you as of now..So tanaki alane undani konta kalam...Let her achieve her goals first..Dont disturb her again with the name of love..be friendly with her and i feel thats what shez expecting from you right nw..!



Second Category : Peddavallaki baga respect ivvali antaru kada...So valla dad view nundi alochinchudam...!

Ea father ayina tana daughter gurinchi chala goppaga alochinchatam common...general ga chinnappatinundi allarumudduga penchina ammayiki vallaki ishtam ayina vallake ivvali anedi oka father casual thought..alantidi atani thought ki reverse ga oka abbayivalla behave chestondi ani teliste ea father ki ayina kopam undadaa?so okarakam ga aayana bhayam and thoughts correct ea anali...Atani expectations ni reach ayite kanuka i think definite ga he will change...And valla ammayini baga chuskuntavu,ani aayana mental ga confirm ayite then defnite ga atane daggarundi mee idarni kaluputaru
Aayana expect chestunna situation ki baga chadivi reach avvu and approach him with all the humbleness you have..that too in the future and then i hope he himself would unite you both :D



Third Category : Let me think from your side and answer...!

Being a supporter of Love,i wouldnt oppose your thoughts but mari 8th class lo LOVE ani fix ayipovatam,thats really foolish...Infatuate ayina mata ni nuvvu accept cheyali...Somehow you tried to keep in contact wid her and thats very gud on your part..And nee side konni mistakes unnayi kada,avi nenu already cheppesa kada personal ga...So think out of the world and try to LOVE wid all your heart,not wid all your mind....Try not to repeat the same mistakes again in your relation...Manchi friend ga aa ammayi expectations ni complete cheyi...Dont loose her trust at the same time dont break her trust...Affectionate ga undu baga...Make her feel that you have immense love in your heart towards her....Dnt just tell her in words but try to make her feel your love...Friend ga daggara avvu,dnt cross your limits,remembr that you are her friend(only)and act according to that untill you encounter a stage where she would feel that none can love her as you do..!



My conclusion :

Well brother,ippatidaka andaru different suggestions icharu...Maximum people said that nuvvu career lo settle ayite kanuka everything will follow you ani...I agree with them...As of now give your complete concentration on your studies,career and try to get into one of the best jobs that you can get...Basing on your eamcet score and IIT entrances i easily conclude that you are really well talented so put your talent in practical usage and give your best to your parents..First parents ni proud ga feel ayela cheyi..later on when you get into a job and reach a perfect position,then her father would say that THIS GUY CAN TAKE CARE OF MY DAUGHTER VERY WELL...HE HAS A GUD JOB AND HE CAN LOOK AFTER MY DAUGHTER'S WISHES...EA LOTU RAKUNDA CHUSKUNTADU ani ataney feel avutaru...So give your best and reach the best position that your gal expects...Forget abt the caste system and all....They have nothing to do in these days,evo time being bhayapedataru but when you win their confidence,they doesnt matter at all..So dont give up...Try your best and win her by reaching your target...Dont get into serious commitment at mind..Prastutam eadi jarigina TAKE IT EASY POLICY alavatu chesko(Confined only to this matter)..Wish you great luck for your future as well as your personal life...!

Well if my words might be a bit hurting,but thats strictly my opinion..So neku help cheyalani ila alochinchi rastunna...
Keep rocking..!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.