Be the change!! Love your parents!!

Hello readers,

Hoping this post would be read by you all in your good health. It's quite normal that we see people in their early thirties or forties yell at their parents for silly things. I agree that they might annoy us to a certain extent with repeated questions, unnecessary doubts, few messy things which they might have done because of their helplessness due to age factor etc. But think honestly, how many of us might have done the same when we were kids? Do you really think they should be apologized for such behaviour towards them? If your answer is NO, then undoubtedly you're a stone hearted person. For such people, "SORRY PALS!! THIS ARTICLE ISN'T FOR YOU GUYS". 

To be much precise, I feel very bad whenever I have a quarrel or whenever I yell at them. It takes time for me to understand whatever I've done was wrong. I know that most of us feel like apologizing to them immediately but there's something that stops us.. It might take time but one day you'll realize that it's nothing but EGO. You'll definitely be happy, the day you learn to apologize them. As they are the people who taught you what life is, they are the ones who had faced the worst situations just to see us grow. Our parents stopped eating just to feed us better. They worked hard to earn a better livelihood so that we don't face any problems in our lives. And is it not minimal to apologize them for being rude and to love them more?

For all those who have been waiting for the right moment, go ahead and tell your parents how much you love them. Re-think all the moments which we've spent from our childhood, the hardships they faced for us and probably it's the right time we share the moment of LOVE with them. Make sure we do it even before it's late. Few of them might not be that lucky to share their feelings after reading this article but try not to be rude with them from now on. Remember that we might not be like the way they dreamt of but definitely, we could be better than what we are now.

So my dear readers, be the change. Few might be in a desperation to show the world about their status and wellness but just before doing it, do ensure your parents are the first to notice the change. Their love and blessings would definitely count. Please don't ignore them by leaving them at old-age homes etc. They would have left us in day cares like the way most of us are leaving our parents in old-age homes. But they wanted us to be a part of their love and caring. So why not give them the same love which they gave? Or probably a bit of more love than what they showered on us from their childhood? Take time and recollect few important aspects of your life and the presence of your family.

If you feel that you'd like to tell your parents how much you love them, it's never late. Walk to them and tell them how important they are. I'm going to do the same right now. And don't forget, do let us know  now you felt, either by commenting on this article or write to us at sharewithsrm@gmail.com
Any stories that you'd like to share about your family, your love life, any good friendship messages that  you'd like to let our readers know, please do write to us.


Remember, world changes only when we change. So BE THE CHANGE! NEVER IGNORE YOUR PARENTS!! LOVE THEM MORE & BE THE WORLD FOR THEM TILL THEIR LAST BREATH.

Thanks for your time & regards,
Sriram Mallik. 

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Tips to maintain good friendship

Hello visitors.. Hope everyone's doing well.. It's quite natural that we get to make a lot of friends and we also know that friendship starts when communication is built between two people who later share few common interests.. However we also often see few opinion differences, misunderstandings between friends which might end up in bringing a permanent, uncovered distance between people. So here are few tips to keep up friendship and not to break the bond. 

P.S : Special thanks to Ammu for this wonderful article. 

1. FOCUS ON WHAT YOU CAN GIVE TO A FRIEND, NOT WHAT YOU CAN GET OUT OF A FRIENDSHIP.
- If being happy is your only motive for wanting someone to be your friend, then you are not being a real friend. Don't get caught up in keeping tabs on who has given most in the friendship. Give to your friends regardless of how much they give to you.

2. ENCOURAGE YOUR FRIEND.
- Real friends inspire and push each other to be the best that they can be, rather than drag each other down. They are happy when other people achieve their goals.

3. BE WILLING TO FORGIVE.
- Don't let hurt turn to grudge. This is one sure way to destroy a friendship. Forgive your friend and move on.

4. TACTFULLY POINT OUT THEIR MISTAKES.
- This is one way to show concern for others. If you really care, you will tactfully point out a specific example for his own good. But once you've brought the problem to your friend's attention, don't harp on it all the time. Don't walk away from a friendship when you see some of your friend's faults. Be patient with a friend as he or she tries to change. Realize that nobody is perfect.

5. BE RELIABLE.
- When you say you are going to be there, be there.

6. DON'T TRY TO CONTROL YOUR FRIENDS. 
- Real friendship does not mean you always have to be together. It may be tempting to have a fun person all to yourself, and feel threatened when your friend spends time with others. If you are afraid to let your friends out of your sight, you are probably afraid of losing them. Good friendship will endure time spent apart. You and your friends may learn to appreciate each other even more.

7. BE THERE FOR THE GOOD AND THE BAD TIMES.
- Celebrate with them if your friends are excited about something. But don't be there just for the good times. When your friend is upset about something, give them your full attention. Most of the time, what friends really need is a sympathetic ear, someone who understand their feelings.

8. LEARN TO ACCEPT PERSONALITY DIFFERENCES IN YOUR FRIENDS. 
- Be careful not to evaluate other people by how you react in a particular situation. Do not automatically take your friends' behavior personally.

9. DON'T BE A BLABBERMOUTH. 
- Learn and be willing to keep each other's secrets.

10.DON'T LET ARGUMENTS DESTROY YOUR FRIENDSHIP. 
- Suppose you're having a discussion with a friend and after you've said what you think is true, they still disagree. Don't keep arguing until you get mad with each other. Just drop it. Your desire to win the argument may ruin your friendship.

Hope you guys liked this article.. Do keep visiting us for more and do feel free to write to us at sharewithsrm@gmail.com

Love and be loved

Thanks and regards,

Sriram Mallik.

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Be the writer!!

Hello people,

Hope everyone's doing well. Very sorry for not updating anything.. Not finding the time to do.. However I am planning to launch a series of articles very soon.. Will keep you all updated with the postings. And here's a chance to  be a writer yourself. Do send me any articles which you've written or which you like that you saw on the internet or which you'd like to share with others to my email. Will post it tagging you.

You can write to me at sriramthecupidofvizag@gmail.com or sharewithsrm@gmail.com and we shall post it tagging your name. This would also be shared to FACEBOOK & TWITTER too.

Will be waiting for the emails. C'mon people gear up and keep sending whatever you'd like to let the fellow readers read.

P.S : No offensive posts please.

Regards,
Sriram Mallik Mocherla. 

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