Friends,please respond to this love problem that a frnd has requested for your all solutions...seeing the way you all have responded earlier,he has requested us...so please do respond...!!Click read more..!
hi dude.this is akshay.from last 3 years i lve a girl.its one sided.we were in same school bt now in diferent.she was ma junior.i nvr talked her in school coz of some reasons.now tat day i msged her on facebook.we chated a bit then i told her everything....she said i respect your love...bt she cnt have boyfriend till she becomes 21.so i said i ill w8.we chated a lot n then she stopped talking with me.she also said tat she was proposed by many ppl so she cnt guarantee tat she ill pick me up....
..wat should i do now?reply soon.........
My solution :
Hi Akshay,
What ever might happen,being a guy having loads of love,dont give up.....
I believe that loving someone is not just for living with them..........love means accepting them for what they are,having a desire to see them happy,in whatever state of life they are and with whom ever they wish..........
Let me explain.....You are loving that girl since three years.....it is upto her whether to accept you or not...dont force her at any instant of time.....you continue your love...dnt let love leave ur mind...even if she doesnt accpt you,you keep loving....untill she realises that none can love her as u love...
Let me give you a practical example of what true love is.......
I know a person,very familiar to everyone...a normal guy,nothing special to say abt him...he is just like all others...he is in love with a gal since 4years....knw what...that girl has been physically molested by her relative,nt jus once..bt for three months...she has lost the desire to live...but this guy has promised her to takecare of her and he is doing the same....at one instant of time,she introduced him to her frnd who was very gud,and he used to care for the girl as her lover does...everytime she used to boast about his frnd while she was having time to have a chat wid her lover....so her lover asked her,do u like that guy..?are u sure he will take a gud care of you..??he started enquiring....the girl asked him why the hell is he asking such questions...then her lover said,if anyone loves and cares u morethan what i do,and if u really like that person i will be the first one to help you in uniting both of you..he then said love means having a desire to see our loved ones happy forever no matter where they are and with whom they live...And knw what...the girl has doubled the affection towards her lover after listening to this....!She began trusting him very much...she felt that none can love her as he did..!
So why cant you do the same??
Do see that this letter that i give you nw reaches her...by anymeans..!
what ever might happen,keep loving...dnt try impressing her...jus make her feel that you love her verymuch,you care her like no other person does....jus make it sure that ths msg reaches her
HONEY,WHERE EVER YOU ARE,WHATEVER YOU DO,HOW EVER YOU WANNA BE IN YOUR LIFE,DO AS YOU WISH,I ONLY NEED YOUR HAPPINESS...LOVE IS WHAT I HAVE IN MY MIND REGARDING YOU..I WOULD NEVER GIVEUP THIS LOVE,EVEN IF U ACCEPT ANYOTHER..UNTILL I DIE,YOU WIL BE IN MY LAST BREATH...I CAN NEVER FORGET YOU,YOUR CARE,YOUR AFFECTION AND YOUR SMILE...I WILL BE THE LUCKIEST IF U ALLOW ME IN YOUR LIFE BUT WILL BE THE SAME EVEN IF U WONT,BUT ON A CONDITION THAT THE PERSON WHO COMES IN YOUR LIFE WILL TAKECARE OF U LIKE A PRINCESS...IF I WERE TO TAKECARE OF YOU IN MY LIFE,I WOULD NEVER GIVE A CHANCE FOR YOU TO FEEL DISHEARTENED..YOU ARE SO PRECIOUS TO ME...PLEASE DONT KEEP ME AT A DISTANCE...IT HURTS WHEN YOU DO THAT...I WISH I COULD BE WITH YOU TOGETHER..
YOURZ EVERLOVING,
Akki..!!
Dont force her to love you,at the same time dont pressurise yourself to love her......Be contented with whatever happens...Leave this matter for the time and get adjusted with whatever happens...First plz do concentrate on your career cozz its time to get settled first..later on you can convince her if u get a very gud job..Be practical sometimes dude...!!
At the same time love her so much that none in the world would love her like you.......anymore help,do contact me
keep rocking,
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
www.loveguru-srm.blogspot.com
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many gals think dat true/ mature love vl come aftr 21..
ReplyDeletebecoz na frnds loni ala cheppina vallu unnaru bt they fell in love bfr dat.. no matter eppudaina start avvachchu either itz love/affection/attraction.. :)
So as possible be in cntct vth her either by drct r msgng r chttng..
as Sriram said though ur love success.. dont do wrong/any stupid stuff to her.
Love her wat ever d matter..
I wish ur love 2 b success
Al d bst Bro :)
first point - Love anedi feel, competition kadu
ReplyDeleteur loving her since 3 years and still u will be waiting for her opinion. great. neeku a ammai ante antha istam kavochu. kani endhuku istam ani kuda cheppi undalsindi so that nee love lo seriousness ento maku telisedi and correct ga guide chese vallam. any how its ur personal opinion, so final ga ur loving her alot and u ll be loving her till the end.
Ika a ammai vishyaniki vasthe, she was chatting with u nicely and now she stopped and she cant assure that she ll okay ur love as so many are proposing. Nuvvu hurt aina sare, thats not correct atitude dude, and i can say ur choice is bad. there may be 2 reasons for her behaviour
1. she is not mature enough to think abt love
2. she would have found someone more interesting than u.
now let me come to the first point i mentioned, love is a feel not a competition, so u start showing ur feel as u did till now and do it as many days u can. anthey kani akkada 10 mandi line lo unnaru, nenu overtake cheyyali impress cheyyali lantivi pettukoku, then adi force chesthe voche love avutundi, and nuvvu kuda evarikosamo chesindi avutundi.
final ga na conclusion enti ante, time limit ani okati pettuko, a time lo a ammai decision edaina accept it. kastamo, istamo naku dorikindi inthey anuko. nuvvu istapadedi neeku dorakali ani korukuntunna.
Note: ur post is in english and my reply contains telugu too, i donno weather u can understand telugu or not, if not please take help of some gult guys who can help u in translating..sorry for this :)
dude akshay.... ur in love since 3years na.... see buddy ur too young to know abt love by that time.... and ur said that see is not 21 yet come on buddy think wise ra.... its not love it is fatal attraction.... give a break to this so called love and concentrate on ur future since ur too young.... and all the best buddy..... :-)
ReplyDeleteTeen age lo vundedi attraction. its by default installed in our genes, latest generation thinks tht its love bt its nt true.
ReplyDeletebut attraction is the first step of love... u have to cross the other steps alos to be in love but today no one even thing about other step... after first step only thy deciding tht they r in deep love.
by luck this kind of love wont hurt much as once thy broke up thy ll again fall in attraction of some one else.
Akshay coming to ur point
21 varaku bf vundakudadu ani tanu feel avutundi ante she must be had some experience. experience ante own kadu may be after seeing her frnds life or any thing happnd to her relative like tht.
so she alredy thought abt love n came to a decision tht not to hav bf till 21. thts cool. but the point is no one can control their heart.
tana gurinchi complete ga telusa niku wat she like n dislikes. wat is her character , wat is her way of thinking, wat is he family , wat is her family relationships.wat is her bonding with her parents,wat is she upto now, u must knw these things, why imp to knw these thing ante she hav cross all these things to be ur love....
All this is so wrong man, this is so very wrong, to the point of insanity. what the hell is wrong with you people? you are asking him to wait for 3 effing years? Don't tell him what to do, let him be himself, you guys are saying that she will come to him if he wants her happy,and if thats the case, that is one selfish selfish girl, she has to realize her happiness in his happiness, not Sacrifice. Love with Sacrifice only becomes publicised, not lasting.
ReplyDeletelove is not a philosophy duh,
go after it. ride with the flow, keep your attitude rollin champ.
Be a playa.
and hell yea! there are plenty of fish in the f***ing sea.
Hakuna matata bro.