Monday, May 9, 2011

Problem for which you should respond with a suggestion

Monday, May 09, 2011  ,  14 comments


Friends,here is a small problem that one of my blog friends Bhavana garu has posted.. Please respond it soon with your valuable comments..!!

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Hello Sriram

I'm Bhavana frm Vizag.. I've been following your blog articles since 5 months and am very glad to say that I became your big follower..Mainly for the articles tat you write..

With that leniance i am asking your help today.. To solve my friends personal life problem..
She lives in kolkata.. Telugu brahmins vallu..She is married to a guy recently but right from first day she isnt happy with her relation.. Some disturbances..But shezz nt clear about those..What and why anedi teliyatledu.. So can you tell me how to maintain a simple and cool smooth going relation..?? What are the necessary tips tat one should take in that..??

Asalu problem eantante she is unable to adjust with him nor he...Chinna disturbances anni pedda pedda godavala tho end avtunnai...Marriage ayina six months nundi vallu vidipodam ane chustunaru...Naaku emo vallani kalapaalane undi but eam cheyalo teliyatledu...
aa godavalu lekunda undali ante vellu teskovalsina jagrattalu eanti..??Vellani eam cheyamantaru..?Meerey eado okati cheyandi eadina chesi iddari madhya understanding ochela cheyandi please...!!Mee friends tho matladi ayina sare help cheyandi..!

Please friends eado okati suggest cheyandi...!!


Regards,
Bhavana



So friends,hope you try yyour best to suggest her the most possible ways to maintain a gud relation..!!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.

14 comments:

  1. AnonymousMay 11, 2011 at 10:03 AM

    vallidarni oka sari kalisi ...kurchobetti matladandi....ask them not to adjust with each other...ask them to love each other

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  2. Sri Ram MallikMay 11, 2011 at 10:05 AM

    Well said my friend...!! Will surely try it out :D

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  3. AnonymousMay 11, 2011 at 10:36 AM

    vallani kurchobetti ask them to discuss about their problems alone.... no one should be present near them. finally they will have a group of problems which made them unhappy these days!!! ask them to avoid those for certain period and try to adjust with one's feeling over the other... soon they'll start loving each other.... inko vishayam enti ante if they are suffering with ego problems ask them to have a deal like one day for oneself... ante i mean ivala husband cheppi natlu vinali and next day wife cheppinatlu vinali... ala ala they'll get habituated for other's wishes and finally godava padi malli kalusukunnaru kabatti malli janmalo vidiporu....

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  4. Sri Ram MallikMay 11, 2011 at 10:47 AM

    Good one.. Thnxx for sharing your opinion..!!

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  5. Sri Ram MallikMay 11, 2011 at 10:57 AM

    But anonymous frnd...life/relation is not jus making a deal for sometime..its not a duty to be done according to wat husband/wife command day after day...vanthulu veskuntu pote inka life lo main essence enjoy chesedi yepudu??? Nee suggestion lo naku nachanidi ide..!! Iddaru okari ki okaru respect ichukuntu okariki nachinatlu marokaru untene perfect relation avutundi..!!

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  6. UnknownMay 11, 2011 at 7:56 PM

    Ask them to sit and talk to each other and solve there problems and they hav to compromise with each other if they want to live together they will compromise deffinetely.if they are luv each other the problems will not be there between them.

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  7. tejaMay 11, 2011 at 11:11 PM

    according to me it's better to tell, adjust both of them not only by anyone valla igo kuda hurt avadhu iddaru compromise ayetatu .next godavalu vastunaye kada ani vidipothey inka life lo ee pani cheysina it will repeat.andukey godavalu vachinapudu vallu happy ga vunna incidents ne gurthuku techukuntey definite ga godava rise avakunda they will adjust.they can understand ani anukuntuna..I hope they will live together happily through out the life..

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  8. AnonymousMay 12, 2011 at 6:50 AM

    vallaki partner lo emi nachatledo...mundu,open ga..matladamanandi...vadileyadaniki try chey manandi...one can never xpect total dehabitization at once...kramena..change..vaste, dats enough....but it can happen only when our love towards partner exceeds love towards our habits....which depends on the other half...

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  9. Sri Ram MallikMay 15, 2011 at 11:27 AM

    Thnxx for all your comments my dear friends.. Your suggestions are really valuable... Hope either of your suggestions would help her friend get with her husband in a longlasting relation... to check out my suggestion to her,click this link

    http://loveguru-srm.blogspot.com/2011/05/my-solution-for-bhavana-garus-frnds.html

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  10. My viewSMay 15, 2011 at 11:34 AM

    bhavana gaaru..Meeru cheppindi chusthunta...valliddarariki kalsi undali ledhu anipisthundi. Adi endhuko anedi manam cheppalem. Husband and wife annappudu Godavalu common kaani vidipodam anukunentha vachayante ..Konchem alochinchalsina vishayame.

    First of all e vishayamlo parents involvement unte manchidani naa felling. Nad meeru chinna chinna disturbances ani chepparu...kaani evari valla vachayi anedi conclude cheyaledhu. May be iddari tappu undochu.



    right from the First day antunnaru...ante a ammayi e vishayamlonu adjust avvalekapothundi ..anthe kada ? meeru cheppindi, assalu adjust avvadaniki edemanna Train berth aa ?? life andi. A ammayiki konchem ardham ayyela cheppandi. Vidipothe vatche Problems cheppandi. Parents tho aa cheppaleni disturbances emunnayo kanukkoni Clear chepinchandi.Break up aithe vathe nashtalanu clearga cheppi try cheyyandi.

    Iddarni kalipi ekkadikayna trip laaga pampandi.so that theyy will understand each other .

    Naa sincere sugession entante...Vallani konni rojulu pattinchukovadam manesthe better. Yes, endhukante manam involve ayyi emaindi , ela ayyindi ani adgadam vallu pedda stories cheppi memu vidipotham ani cheppadam...Blah..blah...ila etc anni cheptharu and vidipodaniki assalu venkadaru.

    My final request is better to involve parents.....And council them ..


    nenemanna tappu chepthe Kshaminchandi guys....

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  11. Sri Ram MallikMay 15, 2011 at 11:36 AM

    Chala baga cheppav Nirup... Already call lo ee vishayam cheppa... Parents ni involve chesi,aa tarvata iddarni oka manchi councillor daggarki teskellamani.. emantaru friends??

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  12. sundeepMay 15, 2011 at 10:17 PM

    @Sriram:: bob tho matladincharu anuko/..... uduku raktham.. ga kurroladi.. assalu orchukoru :D

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  13. Sri Ram MallikMay 21, 2011 at 11:20 AM

    Check out my solution..!!

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  14. SANAMay 29, 2011 at 8:02 PM

    Its not tooo big issue 2 involve parents n dat tooo involvement of parents may lead to further disturbances inbtwn two families........ hey i dnk our frnd bhavana is nt happy bcoz she mi8 hav dreamt alot b4 getting into marital relation... n after marriage itz nt goingon as she was dreaming 2 b happened.... bhavana ji 1st of all u mst b +ve(ya u may b +ve, bt stil more) n later u do ur level bst 2 make ur patner happy n love him..who knws ur patner may be expecting d same which u r expecting 4m him."u r cho chweet ji..." y dnt u make him feel d same as i said nw abt u????????? BE HAPPY ALWAYZZZZ..

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