The reason for loving/marrying Older women

We often come across people like Sachin,Kumble,Abhishek Bachan etc who married women older than their age...This concept is even seen in epics like Ramayana where Goddess Sitha is elder than Lord Sri Rama.....What is the reason for such attractions..??Click read more for the answers...!

1. More Independent
Usually an older woman won’t be mind if she has to enjoy the time without her boyfriend. She is also busy with her activities, she has many friends, and she is not a spoiled girl who needs to be accompanied by a boyfriend all day long. In this way, a man will feel more comfortable to undergo his activities, no one will complain if he is too busy with his job, and he doesn’t need to be ‘a driver’ for his girlfriend.

2. Mature friendships
A young woman usually has problem to choose between her boyfriend and her friends. Even sometimes she needs to ask her friends whether they like her boyfriend or not. No wonder if a man feels that he has to get approval from the girls’ friends just to get closer to her. In other hand, an adult woman has been able to trust her own decision. She doesn’t need to ask her friends’ opinion about the man who she likes. Adult woman is more confident and independent to make a decision; she also has an ability to choose the right friends to be listened. For her, she is better to have few friends but loyal, rather than lot of friends but can’t be trusted.

3. More Assertive
Generally, an adult woman has found her identity and known what she wants. She doesn’t feel shy to approach a man, and she doesn’t like to waste time and play around with uncertain feeling. Usually young woman in early 20’s still likes to play around with man’s feeling; she likes to make man jealous on her. Meanwhile an adult woman prefers to be honest to her feeling, if she likes a man, she will say it directly. For man, openness and honesty are pleasant things in relationship.

4. She has money
For man, this is not a prime thing, but quite important. Man likes independent woman who doesn’t always depend on him. He doesn’t need to feel responsible to the woman’s financial problem while he doesn’t have much money to spend.

5. Interesting conversation
Communication is one of important things in a relationship. An adult woman has more experience in life and she has broad knowledge, no wonder if she has many interesting things to talk about. Interesting conversation will help to maintain good relationship, even though in physically she is not as pretty as a young woman, but she is able to create good conversation that can make man spends much time with her.

6. She is not a drama queen
Young woman tends to be emotional, she lacks of experience because there are many new things in her life, such as first love, first broke up, first cheating, first dating etc, no wonder if she is more emotional in facing problems. Sometime young woman makes a simple problem looks bigger, no wonder if it feels like a heavy drama. In other hand, an adult woman can deal problem in better way; she can solve problems calmly and reduce the tension. Even an adult woman tends to solve her own problem without bothering her boyfriend.

7. More grateful and doesn’t like to waste time
An adult woman has more life-experiences; she knows which one is more important for her life and which one is less important. That’s why she doesn’t like to waste time for something useless. She sees a man from his personality, and when she has gotten the right man, she won’t waste time to search another man; she prefers to enjoy her time with the man who she loves and feels grateful with what she already had.

8. She has more experience in dealing problems
An adult woman has more experience in dealing problems in relationship. She knows how to face problem without involving too much emotion. This maturity makes her able to maintain better relationship with a man.

9. She has better taste
Older woman has better taste in spending time with her spouse. She has been through some teenage periods, and she doesn’t like to be center of attention anymore just like a young girl. She prefers to choose something calm, meaningful, romantic and more personal. In this way man feels closer to the woman who he loves.

Thankz to Turisuna for spending time on my request for writing this article..Thankz a lot buddy.......Keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.