Breakup is painful, especially if your boyfriend who decides to breakup from you first, this following thing is the signs if a man wants to breakup the relationship:
1. Away from you physically and emotionally
He reduces the frequency of meetings with you. Beforehand he used to meet you almost every day, but then the meeting frequency starts to reduce, it becomes once a week, once in two weeks, once in three weeks, once a month, and finally it’s hard for you to meet him.
He always has a reason to avoid you, such as having an important meeting in the office, accompanying his clients, accompanying his mother for shopping, his car gets trouble etc, even if he finally agrees to meet with you, it’s because you have persuaded him for many times. He also avoids some routine activities that he used to do with you, such as go to cinema, go to gym together, or spend weekend together.
Emotionally away from you can be done in many ways, he may be right beside you, but you feel that his heart is far away from you. No more intimate and warm stare when you make eye contact with him, his tone sounds flat as if he is tired to talk with you, he acts passive like a sculpture without emotion, and he always avoids to talk about the future of relationship, such as about commitment, engagement, weddings etc, he will say “Could we talk about something else?”
2. Changing the routine activities
Each couple has routine activities every day, such as sending sms that contains of sweet words, sweet greeting in the morning like ‘Good morning babe!’, pick you up from the office, or have lunch together.
But now the routine activities begin to disappear, he never sends sms with sweet words, he prefers to hang out with his friends
than having lunch with you, he never gives sweet greeting etc. If this happens, maybe he thinks that hanging out with his friends feels more interesting than to be with you.
3. The intimacy begins to fade away
Usually he doesn’t hesitate to show his love to you, such as hugging, kissing, or caressing your hair. But now he acts cold, he doesn’t hold your hand during a walk in the park, he doesn’t hug you when watching TV together, or he doesn’t kiss you when he meets you. This attitude shows that he is losing interest on you.
4. The frequency of fighting starts to change
He used to say his opinions, both of you often have different opinions and sometimes you are arguing each other. But now he suddenly changed, he often avoids the tense conversation and doesn’t want to argue, he often says “up to you!” This does not mean that he has changed to be a sweet kitten, maybe he is looking for the best way to breakup from you, and he doesn’t want to feel guilty by hurting you through a lot of fights.
If your boyfriend is a quiet person, maybe he will give contrary reaction. He will seek your faults; he makes small problems become bigger, even he often fights with you without any reason. He wants to be a jerk in your eyes, so he has a reason to walk away from you.
So dear buddies, be aware of those situations and keep rocking...!
Regards,
Sriram Mallik.
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